My boyfriend said this depressed,

Updated on society 2024-02-08
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In this way, your boyfriend should be a boy who is not very good at expressing his wishes, and this kind of boy is generally a boy with both introverted and introverted thinking. This type of boy is generally extroverted when he comes into contact with outsiders, but he will show his introverted personality when he is introverted or when he is an outsider, so it can be inferred that although he says it doesn't mean anything in his mouth, he secretly likes it in his heart. If you can't understand their personality, you won't be able to communicate and live with them in a difficult way.

    I'm going to tell you about the easiest way to do this in a relationship (to infer the state of his mind from the changes in his facial expressions, so that you can be sure of him, but this method has the downside of being very strenuous). If you love him, try to get to know him, and if you really feel tired, you can position yourself in an unfamiliar position, which can increase his curiosity and make him have a sense of exploration and dependence on you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This one. I don't feel like so.

    Birthday, because he absolutely cares about him, you should be very concerned about him.

    So even without Xiao Luo, you can give him another surprise!

    But you ask him, isn't the already said gift very meaningless?

    You also want us boys to surprise you, so ah, the concern is on both sides.

    As for what he said later, it was actually that he really wanted to pull! But seeing that you haven't given it to him for a long time, you'll be angry and say those words!

    You think he's weird, don't you? If you're not his girlfriend, do you still think he's weird? Hehe, it's because he likes you that he's weird, and in the future, you have to care more about him, pay attention to his expressions and emotions!

    If you really like him.

    If he's worth it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ignore him, rest assured, the boy is more face-saving, and there should be nothing wrong in a few days. My girlfriend once embroidered me with cross-stitch, and mine was lukewarm at the time, and when she gave it to me, I was stupid, so I was moved! Because her eyes were all dark circles, and she had several needle holes on her hands.

    Rest assured, there is no problem to comfort him, and ensure that he is obedient to you again"Get down on your knees and sing about conquest"

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it doesn't matter if it's cross-stitch or not. Most men shouldn't have much interest in this kind of stuff, they just feel your patience.

    You might as well buy him pants first and see how it reflects. If it's still lukewarm, then don't bother embroidering. Because it shows that he doesn't know how to be grateful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He's angry.

    But lz, you're also quite rough, you haven't given a gift, 26 years old, let alone a boyfriend, you have to deal with friends.

    I often give my boyfriend things, which is indeed more generous, and if you want to give him a gift, give him a surprise, and tell him **, as if to tell him: Look at how good I am to you, and I go to buy something for you.

    So lz, you can't blame you bf, what's more to measure who pays more between you, maybe you won't be like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To be honest, although the cross-stitch is symbolic, it doesn't actually mean much, because it's useless except to look at it, that's why he said that.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't know men.

    A lot of men don't really care about holidays, gifts, and anniversaries.

    Instead, see it as a nuisance.

    But look at your posture.

    It's too passive to fall in love.

    Man, it's a bit of a nose on the face.

    I see your boyfriend is tired of eating candy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I really envy your boyfriend, there is such a good girl who likes it.

    You must be a girl like Lin Daiyu, what you are looking for is a Jia Baoyu-style boy, if he is not, it is not suitable for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The small couple is pretty good, why are you forcing them upstairs to divide it? . .

    Ouch: Don't be too nice to him.

    Do you want to send it because you're happy? Why don't you embroider a proof? He doesn't want you to kill him with anger yourself, hehe.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Men are older and coarse, be more considerate, I'm also such a person, and I always make my girlfriend cry, but now I'm getting married, hehe, I hope you can be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Two words, break up!

    There's no point in still doing anything together.

    Twisted melons are not sweet! Barely together, it will be more painful later.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do men really care about gifts?

    I gave him a well-designed DIY on Tanabata

    When he saw it, he said, "How much are these sticks worth?"

    My heart hurts; I stuck that feather until two o'clock in the night; It's all glue.

    But he said so.

    I really can't figure it out;

    What do men care about?

    Maybe he's just absent-minded.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some people don't like to accept gifts from others, and they rarely give gifts to others, and I am such a person.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Calm down for a while! Don't even contact him lately.

    I think there's something wrong with him.

    Give him time to think about whether he loves you or not!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Dear, good afternoon, I'm the emotional teacher Yue Chunfeng, now it's up to me to solve your worries!

    The breakup he said in anger was not his real idea of faith, it was just an impulse. At this time, you don't contact for the time being, calm down a little. Then it is recommended to do as follows:

    My boyfriend was angry and said let's forget it.

    Dear, good afternoon, I'm the emotional teacher Yue Chunfeng, now it's up to me to solve your worries! The breakup he said in anger was not his real idea of faith, it was just an impulse. At this time, you don't contact for the time being, calm down a little. Then it is recommended to do as follows:

    1. Sincerely apologize for your mistakes, and promise that it will never happen again in the future, and obtain your boyfriend's initial understanding. 2. Buy her a gift he likes, surprise him, and he will be very happy. 3. Invite him to eat delicious food.

    Good afternoon, teacher.

    Hello dear!

    Is it still there? At.

    My boyfriend said let me find someone else and said we would forget it.

    It's okay, that's it.

    Because he didn't talk to me much all the time, I told him that my friend and I had a lot to talk about every day, and I wanted him to talk to me more, so he asked me to go to someone else.

    This is not bad, people get married and quarrel and say divorce.

    And then he said let's forget it.

    It would be nice to wait for the gas to subside.

    He hasn't heard from me for 3 days now.

    Have you tried to give him a **?

    You can try ** contact.

    Then apologize to him or something. Actually, from the teacher's point of view, there is no problem with you saying that.

    I just hope to communicate more with him.

    It's 520 tomorrow, let's see if he says something.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, I suggest you take a look at Lu Xun's "Xianglin Sister-in-law", which is not long, and you can read it in a while. Xianglin's sister-in-law had a bumpy fate, encountered a lot of suffering, she would tell anyone she had suffered when she saw her, and people sighed and sympathized at first, and then Xianglin's sister-in-law said that many people, people were numb, and in the end they avoided her. In fact, it's okay to say sad things once or twice, your boyfriend or relatives can comfort you, but if you talk too much, it will be annoying.

    These sad things are full of negative energy, you confide in the people close to you, they will also affect their mood when they hear it, and over time they will be very upset when they hear you say this, and at the same time, they will feel that you are a resentful woman, and they will nag and complain all day long, affecting the mood of others. Although I understand your emotions, I really don't approve of you like this, you have to learn to put away the sad things, digest them yourself, don't let the sad things disturb you and the people around you, and learn to be sunny and cheerful.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't be too clingy, it will annoy the man, try to be cold to him and love others.

    Love yourself first, pay attention to what you say, don't say anything that makes others unhappy, some trivial things, don't care, don't take too initiative, be optimistic, don't mention sad things, say something happy, I think your character should be quite inkblotted, otherwise your boyfriend wouldn't say that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you want to tell your boyfriend something sad, just want him to comfort you or enlighten you!

    But you have to know that the thoughts of boys and girls are separated by 108,000 miles, and they are not on the same channel at all. You want him to comfort you, and you tell him about it! So that he can understand.

    It's because the boy's ideas are straight, so if you tell him something sad, he will feel annoyed. Because in his opinion, these should be words that only older people will say, but you are his girlfriend, of course he doesn't want his girlfriend to say sad things every day, even if he doesn't know what you want, but he is always a trash can, he will be unhappy. What's more, he is still forced to be a garbage can.

    Therefore, if the two of you continue like this, the relationship is really not easy to last.

    You try not to talk about these unhappy things these days, the problem is that you don't get comfort by telling him. Why do you have to talk to him?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't always say those sad words, live every day happily, it is fate to come together, I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Definitely, if you say something ugly to your boyfriend, not only your boyfriend will be unhappy, but others will definitely be unhappy when they hear it, and it is normal to ignore you, but there are some things, don't say it so ugly as soon as you come up, and save some face for the other party.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You always say those negative energy words, and no one wants to listen to them for a long time, and your heart is panicked when you hear it, so your boyfriend has an attitude towards you like that, and he is too tired to be with you, and he is going to break up with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Are you talking about the same thing as him?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If he dislikes you, he should talk about you all day instead of you talking about him all day long, if I were him, I would be angry, I don't think about you every day, you don't get tired, just be yourself, you don't care if he dislikes you, if you are really afraid that he will dislike you, then you should change it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's too late to be happy every day, who wants to hear sad words, every time?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    That is, anger is a certainty.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When your boyfriend says you're annoying, you shouldn't have any response, you should leave the other person silently.

    It's obvious that your boyfriend has already told you, he is very depressed, and you are annoying him, that is to say, he is very disgusted with you now, and the relationship between the two people has disappeared, so whether you reply to the other party's words, or you do anything, it is meaningless, because the other party has already decided to separate from you, and it is also the kind of phenomenon that will never get back together after separation.

    Then at this time, you should turn away from each other, because you can no longer be hurt by the other party, and you must also learn self-respect and self-love, that is to say, as a woman, you should let the man respect you well, and now the situation is just the opposite, you belong to the unilateral giving, and the other party does not appreciate it, so the two of you are not suitable to be together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You just say don't bother, everything has me. No matter what, I'll be with you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's much easier if you ask him to tell me why he's upset, and you can ask him to tell me why you can help.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Help you to be spoiled, and all the depression and troubles will disappear.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Wants to drive him crazy and come to you right away: Oh.

    Just such a bland word!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Ask him what's wrong and give him an analysis of the quilt.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What's annoying? Sad you also have those days?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Ask what is causing him to be depressed and annoyed.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's up to you and his parents. Either bless them and forget him, long pain is better than short pain, and letting go is also a kind of happiness. Either chase him back and tell him that you can't forget him and can't do without him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Forget about him decisively! Don't punish yourself for your previous mistakes!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you break up, why bother yourself, live like a life to make him envious.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You have been together for a year, and you have lived together for a year, he still can't forget his first love, what else do you want him to do with such a man, fortunately he is not married, don't feel uncomfortable, take care of your mood and find a man who loves you to live.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Since your boyfriend is getting along with him, it means that he doesn't think about your feelings at all, and that friend of yours, you said that he is your good friend, does she think the same way, if it is really your good friend, you will not get along with him again when you talk about marriage with him, you don't need to use their mistakes to make yourself sad, don't be nostalgic for him, treat him and your friend with a normal heart. Let's find your own happiness. Be strong and wish you happiness.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Men are actually quite contradictory, if they want to get married, they will be afraid of getting married, they have no freedom, they will quarrel, who will do the housework in the future, and they have to think about too many things.

    But sometimes you don't talk through your brain, and women can be very sensitive, so you won't be a Pisces. Maybe he just said it unconsciously, turned his head and forgot about it, while you took it to heart.

    It's best to tell him clearly what you think in your heart, don't hide your feelings between two people, and if you don't say anything, there will be estrangement. Over time, one day it will erupt out of control. It's right to have a distance in your feelings, but it's not like not saying nothing, don't live with doubts and questions.

    Say it, say it, everyone is happy, if you don't say it well, you still have a chance to save it.

    As for getting married, you'd better ask him directly, 1. Have you considered it, 2. When will you get married, 3. If he says a vague time, such as next year, then you can arrange the process for him, but let him know that he can't be forced too much, and he can't be forced not to force. Slowly come one by one, such as discounts at the end of the year, engagement rings, rings, think about hotels, wedding photos or something, one by one, when he is on the road, he can't run away. It seems to be a little deceitful, but I basically can't get down if I am fooled.

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