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There are many reasons for this phenomenon:
1.Parents are too busy with work and have little time to care for and enlighten their children; Or the parents are emotionally discordant and do not have a harmonious family environment, which will cause children to lack emotion, and many teenagers have a withdrawn and weird personality.
2.Mobile games are to blame. Many teenagers are addicted to the mobile game "Honor of Kings" all day long and can't dial themselves, they are as addicted as drugs, they can play day and night, and eating, sleeping, and studying have become secondary things. Over time, depression such as auditory hallucinations can occur.
3.There are problems in the current education mechanism, with more homework, more make-up classes, more tutoring materials, less rest, and less entertainment, so that some teenagers suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder and depression.
4.In recent years, it has become more and more difficult for college graduates to find employment, which has also caused many young people to feel confused about their future and have a negative attitude towards learning.
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Nowadays, the proportion of children and adolescents with psychological problems and depression is particularly high, many parents say that this is habitual, they have been beaten and scolded since childhood, they are all suffering, and now children can not scold, they are anxious and depressed at every turn.
Studies have found that the prevalence of depression in children and adolescents accounts for 5% to 80% in adolescence, and by the age of 13, the incidence of depressive symptoms in primary school students in grades 4 to 6 is about 40%, and the incidence of depressive symptoms in middle school students is about 40%. Actually, there is a reason for this:
First, most of the emotional communication in life has been lost. Why are today's children so vulnerable? Because of the influence of society and the spread of smart devices, there are already video games for children to entertain in the post-00s, resulting in many children never knowing how to take care of others and take care of themselves socially, which is immature in emotional intelligence.
In addition, as a parent, there is a lack of listening and understanding, and they always avoid and ignore. For example, my child suddenly asks me a question, "Mom, why did I die?" This is the question my son asked me when he was five years old, and it scared the hell out of me, what did it do to me?
But I know that we can't help but deal with the past, because the child understands the world by asking questions, if you always avoid it, slowly he will not communicate with you, and his problems will not be lifted in his heart. By adolescence, they will be even more confused.
Second, as soon as the emotions are out of control, they will vent to the child, and use the child as an emotional trash can. Nowadays, adults have been under the pressure of work for a long time, and once they get home, they may vent to their families, and even ** to the point that even they feel incredible. In particular, some parents think that their children are not sensible and take them out at will, which not only hurts the parent-child relationship, but also has a great impact on the child, and may cause psychological problems in serious cases.
For example, you keep chattering with your children and saying that your dad is so annoying, he doesn't even wash the dishes, and he really shouldn't marry him. The child is not a psychologist of his parents, and there is no way to do anything to solve the problems in his parents' marriage. Is it useful for you to complain to him?
For example, when I say to others in front of my child, this child is a burden to me, and since he was born, I have not left anything good. As a result, the child was stunned and embarrassed, and his eyes were full of tears. Obviously, for him, this implication was really the worst birthday experience.
Those children who are not listened to will not cry when they grow up, they can only bury their negative emotions in their hearts, and they will accumulate a lot of negative emotions and have nowhere to vent, and sooner or later they will be suppressed to the point that they want to create a little childhood shadow for their children.
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Nowadays, there are more and more psychological problems in adolescents, and there are many reasons. On the one hand, the pace of modern society is accelerating, and life is stressful, which brings huge psychological pressure to teenagers. They need to face the pressure of study, employment, interpersonal relationships, etc., and these pressures are often beyond their capacity, leading to the emergence of psychological problems.
On the other hand, the popularity of the Internet and social networking has also exacerbated the psychological problems of adolescents. The virtual world on the Internet provides a place for teenagers to escape from reality, and the information on the Internet is easy for teenagers to be over-received, causing them to lose confidence in the real world and have psychological problems.
In addition, the family environment and education style are also one of the reasons for the increase in psychological problems among young people in lead sheds. Some families are too strict and bring too much stress and negative emotions to their children; Some families are too laissez-faire, and their children lack the necessary restraint and guidance, making it difficult for them to cope with life's challenges. In addition, some schools do not pay enough attention to students' mental health, and lack relevant psychoeducation and counseling services, which also puts adolescents at risk of psychological problems.
In short, the increase in adolescent psychological problems is the result of a combination of factors. In order to reduce the occurrence of psychological problems among adolescents, it is necessary for society, families, schools and other parties to work together to provide more psychological education and counseling services, help adolescents establish healthy psychological concepts and behavioral habits, and improve their psychological quality and ability to resist pressure.
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Nowadays, most of the psychological problems of children come from social pressure, such as school bullying, cyber violence, workplace PUA, college competition, and various social ** flaunting wealth, this cruel involution is the root cause of the psychological problems of the majority of teenagers.
Parents are mostly from the role of wallets and meal tickets, even in ancient times, a person's life promotion is inseparable from parents, so filial piety under the stick is the same now.
The kind of families that are really prone to psychological problems are generally those who lack parental love and love to use cold violence.
Of course, there are a few cases where parents lack education for their children, such as orphans, and in a few cases, children with strong psychological qualities may appear. But it is almost one in a million, and it takes all kinds of coincidences to make it happen, and it is not a single parental education issue that can determine a person's life.
Helping children to be strong is best done with love, and it also includes corporal punishment rather than violence when appropriate.
1. The problems faced by the two generations are different. The generation of my parents lived in the period after the founding of the People's Republic of China, and the theme of the times was to build socialism in a big way, and all walks of life had their own advanced models worth learning. The modern society is centered on economic construction, everyone is eight immortals across the sea, each showing their own magical powers to pursue their own career success, the market competition is very fierce, the survival of the fittest is extremely cruel, the individual in it is physically and mentally exhausted, and psychological problems are inevitably frequent.
From this point of view, modern people do have more psychological problems.
2. Survivorship bias. The fathers went through all kinds of tests, including material scarcity, class struggle, heavy labor, etc., to be honest, those who survived and survived were the strong, and many people who died or died halfway did not have the opportunity to teach the younger generations. Therefore, the fact that the parents who survive does not mean how well educated they are, but only that they survived as survivors.
3. The results of social development. In the society in which my parents lived, the medical conditions were not as good as they are now, and some psychological problems were not taken seriously at all, and even if they did, they were attributed to other general reasons. Unlike modern society, various psychological problems are classified and very detailed.
Even if there is no problem, being in a sub-healthy state is also valued by everyone, and individuals are called on to intervene in advance** or prevent, and these problems are not the same thing as the parents. Therefore, in modern society, people have many psychological problems, which are related to the attention of the whole society and the high development of psychology and medicine.
The development of society determines that people in different eras have different concerns, and it is debatable to impose one's own views on another group of people.
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The main reason is that the gap between the rich and the poor in society is relatively large. Everyone envies the life of other people's families, but their own families are not satisfied, so there is a bad mentality.
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According to the research and observation of experts, the possible reasons for the increasingly serious psychological problems of adolescents are:
1.Increased pressure: Due to competitive pressures and uncertainties about the future, adolescents are facing increasing pressures, such as academic pressure, family pressure, social pressure, etc.
2.Socializing: The popularity of socializing makes adolescents more likely to feel lonely and anxious, and can also lead to problems such as addiction, social frustration, and distancing from real-life social interactions.
3.Family problems: Problems such as family conflicts, divorce, orphans, and domestic violence can have a negative impact on the mental health of adolescents.
4.Problems with the education system: The education system can lead to frequent competitions and assessments among students, causing them to lose their sense of self-worth and confidence, and without proper mental health education and support.
5.Cultural Background and Values: In modern society, adolescents face multicultural shocks and challenges, which may have an impact on their way of thinking, behavior patterns and values, leading to psychological problems.
The combination of multiple reasons may lead to the increasing psychological problems of adolescents nowadays. In this information age, young people face unprecedented challenges in changing their hands, and there are more resources available to help.
Therefore, the social nucleus should pay more attention to the mental health problems of adolescents and provide sufficient psychological support and help to help adolescents grow up healthily.
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First of all, the increase in social pressure is one of the main reasons for the increase in psychological problems among adolescents. In modern society, people face tremendous competition and pressure. Especially for teenagers, the competition in learning, exams, and further education is more intense.
Parents are also expecting more and more from their children, who are expected to achieve better grades, have more talents, and receive more honors. These stressors can lead to anxiety, nervousness, insomnia, and other problems in teens. Secondly, changes in the social environment are also one of the reasons for the increase in psychological problems among adolescents.
With the progress of society and the development of science and technology, information transmission is more rapid and extensive. Teenagers are easily addicted to the Internet and games, resulting in poor concentration and memory loss. Moreover, prolonged internet addiction and lack of sleep can lead to problems such as low mood, negative depression, etc.
Finally, the way home education is also one of the reasons for the increase in psychological problems among adolescents. In modern society, many parents are overprotective, over-expectant, and over-interfering in their children's lives, leading to a commotion and a lack of autonomy and exploration spirit for children. These unhealthy family education methods can easily lead to children's inferiority complex, emotional instability, interpersonal communication difficulties and other problems.
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Modern society is facing rapid changes and challenges, and as a result, there are more and more psychological problems among adolescents. The following is an analysis of the reasons from the following aspects:
Educational pressure. In modern society, the educational pressure on young people is increasing, the academic competition is fierce, and test scores have become the main criterion for measuring students' ability. At the same time, parents of students have also joined this competition, they want their children to achieve better grades and get into better schools, so they constantly take the initiative to let their children participate in various training classes and extracurricular classes, so that their children have little free time.
This kind of education will bring great pressure to children, leading them to anxiety, depression and other psychological problems.
Social pressure. Now that social networks are developed, teenagers can easily reach out to other people, but at the same time, it also brings greater social pressure. On social networks, people often compare each other's lives, which can make teenagers feel insecure about their self-worth.
In addition, adolescents are also influenced by their peers, and if their peers have problems, such as smoking and drinking, they are also easily influenced to follow along.
Family problems. Some teenagers may have family problems, such as divorce of parents or the death of a loved one, which can cause psychological trauma to the teen. In addition, some families may be too strict or lenient in disciplining their children, which can also lead to psychological problems in children.
Lifestyle. The lifestyle of modern teenagers has changed dramatically compared to the past, and they may spend more time on computers and mobile phones, and neglect to interact with family, friends, etc. This lifestyle can lead to a decline in children's social skills, problems such as loneliness.
In summary, the reasons for the increasing number of psychological problems among adolescents are multifaceted, including educational pressure, social pressure, family problems and lifestyle. To solve these problems, we need to make efforts in education, family, and society. For example, strengthen mental health education, reduce students' academic pressure, and create a positive and healthy social environment.
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The increase in psychological problems in adolescents, especially these three characteristics, requires intervention.
In real life, there are many children who have some low self-esteem to a greater or lesser extent, of course, this is also a normal phenomenon, but if a child has excessive low self-esteem, it will definitely not help their future development. And the biggest characteristic of this kind of children is that they have the opportunity to do something, but because of their cowardice, the opportunity is lost in front of their eyes.
Such children's psychological problems are often more serious, and if they cannot be corrected, then they will not have much advantage in the future. So if we can change this characteristic of the child, then it will make the child better.
We can ask our children why they have low self-esteem, and we can enlighten them and make them open up. Of course, we need to be patient in this process, if we seem to be very irritable, then it will definitely not be good for the child.
There are also some children who show a very special way in life, they always don't say a word, they never show their thoughts. And such children are often more autistic, they never share their things with the people around them, they always like to swallow the pain alone.
If children are in this situation for a long time, then they will be pessimistic about their whole life, which will only make them more and more emotionally ill. Therefore, in the face of such children, we should also enlighten them and communicate with them more. There is no need to put too much pressure on them in life, because this kind of pressure will only make the child feel breathless.
As long as we treat the children with sincerity and influence them, then the children will more or less have some changes, so that our educational effect will be shown.
There is also a type of child who is particularly fond of disagreeing with his parents during his teenage years, they always like to express their opinions, and they never want to listen to their parents. The reason for this situation is that children's self-awareness is constantly rising, so they want to express themselves.
But sometimes they're indiscriminate, so they're likely to do something wrong, and if we don't teach them, they're going to get it wrong again and again.
So in the face of such a situation, we should first let children express themselves, we can also respect their ideas, but when children do something radical, we should also educate them well, we should not let them have the wrong idea to do things.
Therefore, when children have these psychological problems, we must not sit idly by, but should treat them in a more appropriate way, only in this way can we ensure that the child does not become a person with psychological problems.
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