What is the most unpleasant thing about living with your parents in law?

As soon as I got married, I really respected them, and I bought whatever I bought for my parents, and sometimes I didn't even buy it for my mother, but bought it for my mother-in-law, for example, I bought two gold necklaces for Mother's Day, one for each person. But my mother said, she has it, I didn't want it, I bought it for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law said put it there, didn't say anything else, there are many examples, don't say it one by one, just talk about the cause of the matter, my husband is a mother-lover complex, for example, I don't do anything as good as my mother, just got married and kept arguing, just because of housework, and no matter what happens in my family, my husband will talk to his mother, big and small. For example, one thing that the two of us discussed, buy a small washing machine, convenient for washing diapers or something, said that it was okay, but when it was time to eat at noon, his mother knew about it, and did not let him buy it, saying that it could not be washed and so on, in fact, he was afraid of spending money, but I want to tell you that my mother-in-law has never given us a penny since we got married, and every time we eat something and other expenses are our own (my mother-in-law has money, not no money, the old couple has a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand, more than us, and our sister-in-law's family eats at his mother's house all year round, Later, in the end, I didn't buy this washing machine, and when I was confined, my sister saw that my mother was tired and bought one.

This is one thing, what I want to express is that my mother-in-law likes to meddle in my life, wants to be my home, etc., a lot of things, and then confinement, it is the deterioration of things, confinement is really a touchstone to test a woman's happiness or not, at that time I couldn't help it at all, made a big fuss, and then separated the family, now it's much better, everyone eats their own, as long as he doesn't interfere in my life, I will forget it.

I haven't had enough food for a year, and I don't have the right to eat some watermelon. After a year of marriage for the Spring Festival, I wanted to eat some raisins, but my husband asked his mother for it, and his mother gave him a dollar. The mother-in-law is the housekeeper, and the money earned by the husband is given to the mother-in-law.

I just gave birth to a daughter and didn't make any money, so I asked my mother-in-law for 25 yuan and bought a pair of pants, and my mother-in-law's face immediately pulled down ......The daughter went out to work when she was one and a half years old, and the daughter took her to kindergarten and worked at the age of two and a half, and the mother-in-law also thought of various excuses to ask her daughter-in-law to work for money......It's all tears. Now how far I go, I don't want to be with my parents-in-law and mother-in-law, others may say that I am not filial, but no one asks them if they have the right to let me be filial, heart for heart, courtesy, I am an ordinary man, I can't repay grievances with virtue.

My mother-in-law is mentally ill, and she doesn't do anything but eat or sleep. At first, when people introduced me to someone, they said that after getting married, his parents would live separately from us, because his mother was always scolding, and I was afraid that I would not be able to stand it. Later, we got married, they didn't mean to leave, they had a house in their hometown, there was a kitchen and everything, they didn't want to go home to live, they had to live with us, we were downstairs selling pesticides, there was no place to live, the house was small, two upstairs, the house was next to the house, it was separated by wooden boards, they had to live here, I was just pregnant, and I didn't care about them, usually they didn't cook anything for us, they brushed the pot after they ate, and never left us food.

His father also instigated his mother not to make food for me, he had to eat whatever he liked, so I cooked and washed my own clothes with my stomach, and then I had children, and they didn't hurt, they didn't give a dime, and they quarreled with us at every turn. Then I was so angry that I broke up.

Before we got married, my mother-in-law and my husband said that they wanted to live with us, and my husband asked me, and I said, "Okay!" How nice it was to live together to help us cook, wash clothes and take the children, it was a free babysitter ......As a result, a small incident happened before the wedding, and the mother-in-law cried to her husband and said:

Son! How will you live after marrying such a powerful daughter-in-law! My husband also lost his temper with me, and the marriage almost didn't ......After getting married, my mother-in-law died in a car accident, and I thought my father-in-law was very pitiful, so I took him to live with him, but he had nothing to do to find a sense of existence ......My husband and I quarreled and divorced for three days, and my husband had no choice but to send him back to his hometown to live with his sister......It's finally time to stop living your own life