Can love be shared with others?

You can share your happiness and joy with your good friends, and if you give your love to another person, it's not love, it's abuse.

As long as you both accept it, that's okay, love is your own business anyway.

No. Love is selfish.

No, love cannot be divided.

Can you? And if you can—it's still called love?

1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

Many people should say no, because, in the face of love, people are selfish. The more you love someone, the more possessive you become.

To love her is to fulfill her, this sentence is easy to say, but it is difficult to do.

She said: "I am too tired from work, I don't want to go to work anymore.

You say: It's okay, I'll raise you.

She said: I don't want children, it's too painful to have children.

You say, "It's okay, it's good for two people to live."

She said: The outside world is wonderful, and I want to go out for a walk.

You say, "Okay, I'll go with you."

She said: I have a lot of unfulfilled dreams that I want to pursue.

You say, "I support you."

She said: I have a beloved individual in my heart, but he is not you, but I don't want to lose you.

You say, "I'm willing to wait, until you forget him."

She said: He has always been in my heart, has been integrated into my blood, and it is impossible to forget it in this life.

You say, "Then let me go."

Sometimes, we love someone and can do anything for her. You can accommodate her preferences, you can work hard for her, you can give up your ideals for her, you can betray her relatives for her, desperate, and even give up your life. Only I can't share this love with others.

We often hover between loving and not loving, is love possessed, or fulfilled?

In life, most of us love for the sake of pleasing ourselves.

You might say that I love her more than I love myself. However, in a relationship, whether you love yourself more or love each other more, often you don't know yourself.

In a relationship, do you care much about your inner feelings? When you love someone, you can do anything for her, but your only requirement is that you want the other person to love you too, right?

If the other person loves you the same, you will feel that all your efforts and efforts are worth it. But if she doesn't love you, or she just likes you, she has someone she loves more, and she's not the only one for you.

Then, at this time, you may feel sad, lost, angry, angry, and even want to leave, does this mean that you actually love yourself the most, and everything you do is just to please yourself?

Falling in love is originally a very happy thing, if you are lucky enough to meet the person you identify in this life, but she unfortunately tells you that she has someone she loves but can't let go of you, will you still insist on waiting for her?

Are you able to share her with others?

I want to be able to share the same lover with others. If he wasn't a fool, then he must have loved her deeply.

Because I love her, I understand, and because I love her, I am perfect.

I think that the most difficult love in the world should be like this.

Why can't love be shared Share?

Because love is a feeling, it is built on a special relationship between two people, connecting two people in a unique way. When two people are in love, they share private spiritual feelings and emotions and there will be no foreign elements mixed into it, so love cannot be shared or shared. It is only when both people discover and experience its true mystery in the process of love that love can be deeply rooted in their hearts.