How to get back from being in love for a year and half a year

Can you still be in love? It's hard to say about a long-distance relationship.

How do you maintain a long-distance relationship for a year? There are many difficulties faced by long-distance relationships, not only the distance time, but also the thoughts of both parties, etc., so in order for the relationship not to fade, the methods of maintaining a long-distance relationship shared today must be well understood.

How a year of long-distance relationships can sustain a relationship.

2. Meet at least two or three times a month.

Whether you go to the other person or the other person comes to you, you have to meet at least two or three times a month, otherwise it will be difficult to maintain.

3. Do the same thing.

Even if you and your significant other are only a few hours away, you can go through a "date night" together. For example, going to see a big movie in two places at the same time. Plan to go to the movies at the same time, and discuss with each other afterwards.

It's fun to know that another person is doing the same thing as you at the same time. Even if you are in two places, you can "share" together for a while.

4. Don't test each other.

When in love, many girls will test each other in various ways to let each other prove how much they love each other. For example, unwarranted jealousy, old accounts, chasing each other with the previous relationship, etc. These behaviors can also be a bit fun when you're with the other person, but at a distance, these topics can exacerbate insecurities and lead to a decrease in intimacy.

So, when it's a long distance, don't make a fuss.

5. Stay away from bad peach blossoms.

Moments convey the fact that you have a boyfriend and girlfriend, keep a certain distance from the opposite sex you have a crush on, and if you are sincere about the relationship, let the bad flowers stay away from your life.

Sixth, the content of the conversation is diverse.

Many people say that people will always find a topic in a different place, after all, we live in different environments and do different things, that is, we are too stuck in the matter of "talking". Chat doesn't have to be the big word you ask me for.

When I was in college, my boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship, and I also played with flowers in **. Later, when these small dramas were tired, one person wrote ** in a paragraph, and agreed: no outline, no discussion of the plot in advance, no allowing to say that the other party is not good at writing, and not allowing to change the other party's settings.

The ** before graduation saved nearly 100,000 words, although the plot is bizarre and nonsense, but I am really proud of the work, and it did take a lot of time and enthusiasm for the two of us. This relationship has lasted so long, I think it has something to do with the plots of these dramas.

My best friend has been in a long-distance relationship for five years, and although she and her boyfriend are thousands of miles apart, they are very affectionate, just because they have done one thing well, communication. Every time a girlfriend has a conflict with her boyfriend, the two of them will make an appointment, pick a suitable time, communicate calmly to solve the problem, do not get angry, and finally find the problem and solve the conflict. Now that they have put marriage on the agenda, they can survive such a long-distance relationship, and good communication is an important magic weapon.

If you also want to stick to a long-distance relationship, then you must keep in touch with your lover often and learn to communicate before you can end up married.

Second, understand and tolerate each other. Falling in love is the mutual run-in of two individuals, so it is inevitable to encounter problems, long-distance relationships, because they can't meet each other, there are naturally many contradictions, so it is more necessary to understand and tolerate. Everyone has their own unique thinking patterns and behavioral habits, if you want to maintain a relationship, you must learn to understand each other, love in the same place is inseparable from understanding, and it is even more necessary in different places.

Two people are thousands of miles apart, just relying on daily ** text messages to support love, the difficulty can be imagined, if you encounter problems, you must understand each other. Please remember that since the other party gambles with you on the happiness of his life, you naturally can't let him lose, so you must learn to understand the other party, encounter problems, and be more tolerant, so that the long-distance relationship can be stable for a long time.

Third, in the limited possibilities, meet often. What is a long-distance relationship, a relationship that is far away and cannot meet, so the biggest problem of a long-distance relationship is that you can't meet each other. Since they are in love, they always hope that two people can spend time before and after the moon, morning and evening, and the two people in a long-distance relationship, these are just extravagant hopes, because they can't meet, it's extremely difficult to stick to love.

Therefore, if you want to stick to a long-distance relationship, meet as many times as possible in your limited possibilities. Anyone who has experienced a long-distance relationship knows that 80% of the conflicts in a long-distance relationship are because they can't see each other, and if they can meet each other, maybe many problems can be solved with a hug. We always think that as long as there is enough love, distance is not a problem, but love also has conditions, because in a long place, two people are more likely to lose confidence in love.

Therefore, if you want the long-distance relationship to last, you should meet your lover more often, and let your heart remember the feeling of love in the meeting, so that the love can be kept fresh.

Fourth, stick to it with your heart and never give up. Because long-distance relationships are more difficult, it is more necessary to persevere and not give up easily. Youshujun himself has been in a long-distance relationship for six years, and I stick to it with my heart and never give up.

I was so far away from him that I couldn't see him once a month, so I chatted with him every day for six years. I remember his birthday, I remember his preferences, I remember his test results, I remember all his joys and sorrows, and I will pay great attention to everything related to him.

Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship, and it is especially important for long-distance relationships. A long-distance relationship means that the parties cannot see each other often. Maybe a circle of friends, not replying to the message in time for a while, will cause another person to be cranky.

Doubt is taboo in a relationship, and if you can't maintain trust in each other in a long-distance relationship, it will only slowly dilute the relationship between the two.

If you are a sensitive and suspicious person, you must think twice when facing the choice of a long-distance relationship, because your sensitivity and suspicion will not only make you miserable in the future, but also bring a lot of troubles to your lover.

Don't cold war, communicate more. It's normal for couples to have a little fights between them, but if you choose to deal with it in a cold war way, maybe the relationship will slowly cool down until it ends. The advice for all couples is to learn to listen and communicate patiently.

Put away your negative emotions. No matter who you are, if you have someone around you who only complains and transmits negative energy every day, then you will slowly distance yourself from him.

Therefore, the most important thing as an adult is to learn to restrain your emotions.

One piece of advice for long-distance couples is to share with each other the good things that have happened in their lives and work. Don't pass on negative energy every day to increase stress on others.

You have to believe in a good life, and everyone likes it.

Have a common goal. For long-distance relationships, it's important to have a goal to work together on. For example, the two parties jointly plan to settle down, work, or even get married and buy a house in the future.

If you don't have a plan for the future, then who wants to accept a long-distance relationship with no future.

Finally, I hope that all couples can think twice, because long-distance relationships are not just words, and perseverance to the end is true happiness.

Personally, I think that if you want to redeem the hole, then you should find a free time to meet your other half, and then assure him that you will definitely take this emotional hole seriously.

You can end your long-distance life as soon as possible, because the relationship between two people is easy to be estranged due to time and distance contradictions, and you should take the initiative to compromise with each other.

At this time, you must buy a gift for the other party, and then tell the other party if you can not break up and redeem it in this way.

If you want to get back to the other party, you must first figure out why you broke up in the first place, because only by finding out the reason can you completely solve the problem. There is also the fact that you are now in a different place, and it is very hurtful to be in a different place, if you want to be with him well, then I think you must solve the situation of separation between the two places. No matter what kind of relationship it is, it can be intimate together, not to mention that the relationship between lovers is not very stable, and they can't be separated too far.

If he chose to break up because he couldn't be together, then it was understandable. When any girl falls in love, she hopes that her boyfriend can be by her side, not a cold **. I can't find anyone when I want to go out, I have something happy, and when I want to share, I can only be in front of **, and you may not be able to pick me up at any time**.

When I encounter something unhappy and want someone to hug me, or I can't do it when I want to hang out with someone, how can a girl be happy?

So if you want to win back the other person, then you can only let the two of you be together, whether you go to him or he goes to you, but you must not be separated again, because separation will only make your relationship worse. If you feel that your current job is very good and you are reluctant to leave this place, then you should weigh in your heart whether you choose a job or a girlfriend. At such a time, you can only choose one or the other, and there is no way.

If you have the ability, you can also persuade your girlfriend to come to live with you, but I believe that it will not, after all, he does not want to leave a familiar place and go to a completely unfamiliar place, and you may not be able to let him win. If you want to redeem him, you should show your own attitude, you should arrange your future, so that he has confidence in you, and then he will continue to be with you.

There are many couples who break up every year because of long-distance relationships, in fact, for those couples, they don't want to be in a different place, but sometimes they are forced to do a lot of helplessness, and it is not okay not to separate. And at the very beginning, everyone firmly believed that their relationship could go to the end and could withstand the test of distance. The truth is that there are very few people who can experience a long distance and still be together.

Because long-distance relationships can really expose a lot of problems, which cannot be reflected when two people are together all day, so long-distance relationships are a great test for couples, and not all couples are able to withstand this test. Some couples just don't get along with each other after breaking up, but some still have a lot of regrets, even if they break up, they still want to save each other, and they feel that this should not be the end of two people. Next, I will talk about how couples who broke up because of a long-distance relationship should save each other and how to save this relationship.

Most long-distance couples break up through their mobile phones, because it is difficult for two people to meet each other, and there is no need to deliberately meet when they are going to break up. But for myself, I think this kind of breakup is too hasty, and when we are together, it is very formal, and the breakup should be more formal, at least not through the cold phone screen. Besides, now I want to get back to the other party, and it's not clear in the mobile phone, so I suggest that everyone must go to meet with each other, and must go to the city where the other party is located.

Since you want to save this relationship, you must make it clear that one party must give up something. After all, the reason why the two broke up was because of a different place, and if they want to reconcile, they must solve this problem first, otherwise this is a bomb, even if they reconcile this time, they will break up next time for this reason. Therefore, there are still many problems to overcome if you want to reconcile.

You can take the initiative to call each other, or you can take a special break to go to each other's city to find each other, and you can prepare some gifts for each other that the other party likes. In this way, you can get a good network, and you should also be assured of it.

You can choose to follow him to the same city for development, to carry out some sweet words to retain, to create some small surprises for him, to say some emotional words to redeem, and to give the other party a certain commitment.

I think the first thing you should do is let the other party calm down first, and then find a suitable time to communicate with the other party.

Two people in a long-distance relationship can easily break up because of something, and if you don't want to miss out on the person you love because of this, then it is necessary to try to get each other back. But how to get back the lovers after the breakup? Let's talk about my personal thoughts, you might as well communicate together and give better suggestions?

1. Figure out the root cause of the breakup.

The first step to getting back to the other person is to figure out why you broke up. Is it because the other party can't accept a different place? Or does the other person feel that such emotions are not strong enough?

Or is the other person disappointed in you? XinghuaihongNo matter what the reason is, you have to figure it out first. If you don't know what the other person is thinking, it's hard to get started.

Therefore, it is recommended that you sort out how you get along with each other and where the problem is. Only when you find the root cause can you formulate a corresponding recovery policy so that you can better pursue it again.

Second, we must turn other places into the same city.

If your breakup is related to a long place, then you need to find a way to solve the problem. If you really can't let go of your former lover, then you can consider giving up your current job and going to the other person's city to develop. When you have the courage to break through the shipwreck, believe that your love and actions are enough to move the other person.

If you can't even end the off-site, then it's very difficult for you to successfully recover the other person. After all, your Mingyin love is not strong enough, and it is not enough to support you to let go of the file you have. If that's the case, then it's better to break up and say goodbye from now on.

3. Strive to be good and make the other person fall in love with you again.

It's not enough to choose to end the long place, you should also try to make yourself strong and attract each other with a better self. Only when our conditions are getting better and stronger, can we better create an ideal life for each other. Therefore, if you want to win back the other person, the ultimate secret is to offer a stronger and more loving self.

If you are so good, so caring and considerate, what reason does the other person have to reject you again? Therefore, I hope you will be aware of the areas you can work on and do them one by one. I believe that after a long period of hard work, you will always be able to reap the ideal love.