How to learn to face the deception of the nearest person in life

It's good to be calm.

I've had it too. I don't believe it, how can he lie to me? Some people choose to be cowardly and endure not to say anything, and some people choose to be straightforward, tearing the last face, and even being a friend.

Through what I said, how to face it is nothing more than to look at the mentality. And there are two attitudes, one is forbearance, and the other is tearing. If you choose to be caught in the middle, you will not only get the benefit of forbearance, but also the benefit of tearing.

And it's even more uncomfortable. So my advice is to show your attitude and one less fake friend.

People must be scheming, and people without scheming are like puppets carrying elm heads, lacking autonomy in life, and at the mercy of others' arrangements and arrangements. Of course, the scheming here is not the heart of harming others, the heart of scheming and calculating others, and the heart of fraud by conspiracies and tricks. To be a man is to be upright, and there is no room for a little haze in his heart, such a talent is pure.

Stay away from it, after all, there is a second time with the first time, and the nature of lying is like a bottomless pit, and if you say the first panic, you have to lie one after another to round the previous lie.

Learn to let go, and if you're really sad, ask for clarification.

can't face it, all the closest people are still deceived, so who else can you trust.

Just go with the flow and be happy yourself.

Summary. Hello dear kiss, after understanding that generally speaking, if you hurt yourself because of the deception of others, then stay away from this kind of person, and there is only one consequence of not staying away from this kind of person, that is, you will always live in the palm of someone else's hand.

Hello dear, after understanding, generally speaking, if you hurt yourself because of the deception of others, then you should stay away from this first disturber, and there is only one consequence of not staying away from this kind of person, that is, you will always live in the palm of someone else's hand.

Then go with the flow and accept the deception, let yourself infiltrate the first and let a Taoist shout: don't trust a person easily. Only you can make yourself trust! Be brave and be yourself.

It depends on the specific situation, who the target of the deception is, what the reason for the deception is, whether it has hurt you, whether it is a one-time deception, and whether the apology of the person you love the most is sincere, etc. If he deceived you, but also out of a helpless situation, and did not let you be harmed, then to a certain extent, I may forgive him. But if he cheated on you and hurt you, then I probably won't forgive him, at least I need time to think about it and digest it.

If it makes you sad, first of all, clear your mind, accept the facts, and don't blame yourself. But you can't help but resist, you have the courage to face it calmly, tell the truth to others, and don't bury it. Then Na Liang Ying, let go, cut off the relationship with this person, never expect anything from him and her again, and never believe any of his or her words again.

Finally, give yourself a chance to regain your self-confidence, face the reality bravely, don't be tormented by this incident, learn to let go, and continue to go your own way.

Generally, when others deceive you, they will say things that are especially beneficial to you. Usually this situation is deceiving you.

If he doesn't speak in a firm tone and his eyes are always evasive, I think he's cheating on me.

First of all, the other party's attitude towards you can see whether a person is really cheating on you, and when you encounter difficulties, whether the other party is brave to help you or prevaricate you, so you can feel it.

When the other person is talking, we can look him in the eye, and if he is lying, then his eyes will involuntarily look elsewhere, and we have to consider what we say to him.

Philosophical poems Sun Dajun.

There are many clever words, and there are few true feelings in sweet mouths.

If the explanation he gives is acceptable, you can try to be lenient...Although the deception is very sad....But that doesn't mean it's all gone....Recklessness is not something you should have.

You can't be all wary of anyone! In fact, the beginning of the secret already means that it is no longer a secret, and telling your heart to the person you trust more is no longer a secret. You can only blame yourself, it's too easy to trust someone!

Leave yourself a way back and some room to retreat. Now that it's happening, don't run away from it! Optimistically face it!

Be a strong version of yourself.

The farther away from him, the better. Don't give him a second chance to cheat on you.

If someone deceives you, don't panic, don't be anxious, everything will pass, and what has passed will become a kind memory.

Is it still trustworthy to be deceived by it?

Deception is divided into unintentional and intentional! 1. Some are for someone to deceive you! 2. Some people deceive for some kind of benefit (this situation is more than that, some can be very good to you at first, but after your precautions are low, you can suddenly make a big turn!)

So look at people and don't just look at the surface)! 3. Some people deceive you for your own good (this is the so-called white lie, maybe the other party can't bear to deceive you for your good position!) But maybe you will be distressed and blame him or her, but you should be wise!

It's not easy for people! If you don't care, you won't bother to hide the things that might upset you)! 4. Some are deceived by love and hate!

If it is not deceived again and again, the nature is too bad, and you absolutely cannot accept it, you can generally trust it again, but in the future, you should pay more attention and don't trust others too easily!

Where do you start? Do you dare to guarantee that you know that you are not lowering but making you sad? But if you insist on getting to know it to the end, then you can find out through relevant people or letters, and I think it's better to avoid asking directly in person!

It's better to just laugh it off and stop caring about it!

When will the deception stop? I guess that's impossible! Who would dare to say that they have not lied to anyone? Who dares to say that it will not lie in the future? Deception is sometimes just a product of helplessness!

How can you forget to be deceived by someone you care about? First of all, you must know why he or she deceived you! If it's the kind of deception you don't want!

If it is irretrievable, then please laugh it off, maybe you are not willing to do so, maybe it is not a matter of a moment, but then what is it, don't be too persistent, don't think too much, let go a little! Treat it with a mindset that doesn't matter! For your sorrows, your sorrows, your afflictions, your troubles are not exchanged.

It is not easy for people to live in a positive number of lifetimes, so why are they still persistently and distressed to recall those regrets of gains and losses! After that, I don't see the gains and losses anymore!

Promise is also sometimes the embodiment of deception! Sometimes you don't be too naïve, too ignorant, too impulsive, and don't hurt yourself too much because of a false promise! Try to get to know some of the people you care about and care about you! Deception does not distinguish between familiar and unfamiliar!

If it's you yourself who deceive someone else! Then I think we should all be brave enough to face our mistakes! A lot of deception is our impulse and quick talk, and we dare not admit it, so now the misunderstanding is getting heavier and heavier! But you can't avoid it.

Sorry! But it's best to admit your mistakes! You need to know! The deception will one day be self-defeating!

And finally....No one is perfect, the world is peaceful and chaotic, and life is mixed with sweet and sour! Deception is only a small part of life, don't be sad about it! I wish you happiness and happiness and get rid of the troubles and troubles in life as soon as ......possible

In fact, there are things that are predestined.

It's like tying up something as natural as going to sleep and drinking water when you're thirsty.

Now that you've got the Liquid Crack Sutra, take it.

Remember, no matter how disappointed and desperate it is.

You have to leave some hope Do you think that this hope is reserved for others?

No, that's what you left for yourself, so you don't feel like you're abandoned by the whole world.

Remember that there is always a flower in the world that is fragrant.

There are always some friends who belong to you.

Laugh at the deceptions and lies.

Because they deceive you.

And for the sake of these scum deceptions and lies to make you despair, do you think it's worth it.

I believe that people who are destined for you will feel your existence.

Believe in fate and believe in fate.

I hope you can get out of the shadow of life as soon as possible Actually, I have felt this way.

I've been lied to a lot of things, but I've been telling myself in my heart.

Leave some hope for others, and wait for yourself, such as burying hope early.

Hope you understand!

Why are you so desperate for life, are the people around you lying to you? You're too extreme, aren't you, you're beaten to death with a stick and a rolling cover How can you make people believe you like this? Just guess if someone tells the truth, and if you think like this, the other party will think that you don't believe him telling the truth at all.

I don't know if you understand what I mean.

Then give up the idea of believing and don't believe in the future.

Forehead. Actually, I think the main thing is to see which deceive bird you are. Isn't it too much to say that it is deceitful?

It should depend on whether they lied to you, those who really care about you and love you, even if they deceive you, will not harm you. Some are white lies pinched? It is impossible for people not to lie in the world, just to see what Ha is about Mo Shi?

Those who don't know you well lie and probably won't care, right? And I think it's normal for people I don't know to lie well. Well.

If it's a lover, in fact, there are quite a lot of lies between lovers. Moss said that the bird loves you for a lifetime, and then he said to break up. Ha ha..

Typical lies. Sometimes lying is not just for yourself. There may be a lot of objective factors, environmental factors.

I have no choice but to do it. o(∩_o...

Questions about how to do it. Hehe. In fact, I am a person full of feelings, if it is a friend or lover I love very much, I deceive myself.

Let's treat the pinch with a tolerant heart, (except for things that are excessive) don't have to think too much, and don't have to be complicated.

Should Mo Ang be over or Mo Ang, should I like or like.

Love is the greatest thing birds. o(∩_o...

But.. If the same thing happens too much, you have to reconsider whether the people who often cheat on you are still worth loving and caring about.

1.The consequences of malice are not serious, there is a hurdle in the heart, keep a distance, at least for a period of time, 2The consequences of malice are very serious, don't say anything, bye-bye, good gathering, good dispersion, 3

If the consequences of kindness are not serious, forget it, talk about Hazi, solve the misunderstanding, 4The consequences of kindness are very serious, depending on the level of friend·· Ask Hazi the reason for the deception and then decide...

In short·· See what kind of deception, see what kind of friend you are, see if you can forgive him in your heart... Think about it calmly first, don't retaliate, this is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes... There is always a workaround... Hehe·· over··

First you figure it out.

The real reason for this deception.

What if it's in good faith ?

It's not for sure.

Still have to see.

What are the consequences of deception.

It's involved. Those levels.

If it's general.

At the level, will you choose a good friend?

Or was it just a one-time deception?

Children think it out for themselves.

Take a look at two questions.

1.This friend is not a deep friend with you.

2.What kind of lie is this lie? There are white lies"Is it possible? Or is it malicious deception? Is it emotional? Or is it made by ordinary friends?

If you don't have deep friendships.

It's normal for him to cheat on you. Pingshui's friendship is lighter than water, even if he cheats on you, you don't have to worry about it. Unless it is very malicious, with a vengeful deception, then you have a choice"With the heart of others"ways to retaliate.

If it's a close friend, you have to look at the severity of the deception first. If it is a small matter, it is recommended to solve it in a way that turns big things into small things, so as not to hurt the feelings of both parties, and secondly, you can also show your generosity. If it's a medium or big thing, it is recommended to talk to one or two trusted friends who know about it first, or just talk calmly to the friend who cheated on you (you can choose to use QQ or **.)

It would be better) and ask him why he did it. If the other person's attitude becomes very indifferent or very bad, you should consider whether the friend should continue to talk.

What kind of psychology is it to love to lie, and what should you do if someone around you keeps deceiving you.