I lied that I was rich before marriage, coaxed a girlfriend, and what should I do if I have no money

If that's the case, I personally think it's too unnecessary, if you say that you cheated on a girl, and later found out that you have no money, then maybe he won't be with you, why don't you say that you are not so lofty, you can say that you have a little money, and don't say that you are too poor, and you don't necessarily have to sign a cheating girl, saying that you are very rich, otherwise even if the two of you are married. If you find out that you have no money, he may also leave you, so you must be honest, others value more than your money, but if you cheat on her, she will also be very sad. So don't lie to him, just tell him what you are like, if you have cheated her now and you have no money when you get married, then you have to explain the situation to him, if he is not with you because of the money, he will definitely choose to marry you.

I saw such a story on the Internet: I have a buddy, he is an honest man, for the purpose of true love, he used a white lie to a girl that he was very rich and had a high income, the girl believed him, with the consent of the girl's parents, they were ready to get married on New Year's Day, but the woman's parents were particularly gold-worshipping, and even proposed a harsh condition of asking for a bride price of 100,000 yuan and buying a house first and then getting married, which made my buddy very distressed.

Now that there are 20 days left before New Year's Day, please help my buddy come up with an idea, how can I get the girl's parents to symbolically ask for a small bride price, and give up the requirement for the man to buy a house first, and marry the daughter to the man?

Note: It's not that my buddy doesn't give the woman a bride price, but he thinks that the bride price that the woman wants is too high, and I think it's very high to give the woman a 10,000 bride price, and the woman actually wants a 100,000 bride price!

Seeing this, I just want to say that sure enough, people are divided into groups!

Let's tell a real story from around me. There is a boy who has been in love with a girl since he was a student, and when it came time for the two to talk about marriage. The man's family specially called ** to the woman to ask her what her family wanted, and the girl said that as long as the two of them were together, it would be OK, and it was not the old society.

And when the girl's father saw the boy, he said, "You don't have any psychological burden, we don't have any requirements, and you live well together is the only requirement." Later, the boy told the girl that his parents had never believed that there could be such a good girl and didn't want anything to marry.

I'm embarrassed to say that the girl is me, and the boy is my husband.

What is said to test a man, so the logic of the bride price is even more ridiculous, and your man still needs to test the world to know how he is capable of the essence of whether he is sincere to you? Why did you go when you were in love, to use this unbelievable way of exams? What's more, why set the premise that the standard of living after marriage is determined by the man's ability?

Shouldn't the common home of two people be a joint effort? Someone who thinks like the above didn't think about the other party as a community of interests from the beginning? Just thinking about the other party's efforts to sit back and enjoy the results?

If your husband doesn't earn as much as you and your position is not as high as yours, should you divorce and remarry?

In fact, this kind of topic is very sensitive and controversial, and it is also discussed very hotly on the Internet, but I still want to say that if you want to be a woman in the new era, husband and wife are equal, respect each other, help each other and be considerate, each parent contributes to each other, and the other party appropriately helps and takes care of it, maintaining the relative independence of a small family, the in-laws do not interfere in internal affairs, and the husband shares the housework, so don't mention the word bride price. Because you are also half of the beneficiary of everything in the family.