We broke up and I wanted to see him, and he said it wasn t necessary

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a person is not worthy of you to do that to him. It shows that when the two of you are together, he doesn't have deep feelings for you. If you don't see him, he wants to see you. People who deserve your grief will not make you sad. The person who makes you sad is not worth it for you to be sad for him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want me to say it! It's better not to see than not to see, after breaking up, he is a stranger, what's the use of you seeing him! He can change his mind!

    Dream! Sometimes men are just as determined as women! Live your life well in the future, time will change everything, really, no one in this world can live without anyone, he is just a passerby in your life, I believe that there must be the happiness you want ahead.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Listened to you. I feel like I saw myself at that time.

    A man is like this, when he loves, he may love you in every way, but once he makes up his mind to separate, it is impossible to keep him. It's not that he is playing with you, maybe he doesn't love you anymore, it's as simple as that.

    At this time, let's let it go. Instead of chasing him, it's better to break up quietly, why lower your profile? Who said there will be no man who will love you more in the future.

    Let go of your hands, it's a sky again! ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feelings can't be forced, falling flowers intentionally follow the flowing water, and flowing water has no intention of falling flowers. Since he's ruthless to you, there's no need to wait.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you should contact each other after you break up, because as soon as you meet, you will remember a lot of things from before, and don't go to friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't deny it in one word, you have to see it clearly, otherwise you will regret it for life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now that we've broken up, let's be thorough.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Oh, then don't.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's go. Let him be happy.

    Let yourself live a peaceful life

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better not to force it to be good, if there is such a request, then it is better to wait for it to happen naturally in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    His attitude is so firm that he doesn't waste any more time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find someone else who truly loves you.

    If you don't want to, don't break up in the first place.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He said that there was no need, why are you still going to do it, aren't you asking others to laugh at you? Ay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    They all broke up. What else are you looking for him?

    Don't look for trouble.

    Let's live our own ways.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After a breakup, we always want to see him again, see him again! It is better to have countless faces, however, we can not go.

    1.The breakup is a foregone conclusion, which shows that there have been countless quarrels or several fake breakups before. There are unsolvable problems in the relationship between the two, and the problems here refer to the problems that Wang Gaishu thinks in his heart, or the problems you think in your heart, or the problems that both parents think.

    This kind of problem will still exist even if we see one side, two sides, and three sides again.

    2.After the breakup, if you want to see him, break up well, and let the breakup have a sense of ceremony, then you don't have to. Because you don't really don't love him because you see him, you really let go of this relationship.

    On the contrary, once you meet, you will be even more sad after separation.

    The sense of breakup ritual is just an excuse for you to want to see him again.

    3.After the breakup, if you want to see him again in order to redeem it in person, then the ending will definitely disappoint you, and there will not be a warm and friendly scene where you come to him, he looks at you with a smile, and then gives you a hug. You will only see an indifferent face and feel the low-pressure atmosphere of the whole time.

    Trust me, that's enough to make you come back disappointed.

    4.Even if you do reconcile when you meet (assuming such a low-probability event is met by you), don't be too happy, there is a saying called happiness and sorrow. You will surely be separated someday, maybe a week after you have been reconciled (not a curse on you, really).

    Because your practical problems and the estrangement in your heart still exist, and they have not disappeared, but at this time they are covered by your reluctance.

    5.This is a cause for particular attention, but it varies from person to person.

    Is it that do you feel that after a breakup, it really hurts your self-esteem to go to someone else?

    If these five reasons still don't stop you from moving forward, then go for it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Dear, I have proposed to break up, although I haven't really broken up, but your relationship may also have cracks, and at this time you have to find a way to manage the relationship between you.

    He said to break up, I didn't agree, just continue to be good, is it really good.

    Dear, I have proposed to break up, although I haven't really broken up, but your relationship may also have cracks, and at this time you have to find a way to manage the relationship between you.

    In fact, the two of us have been separated and reunited many times, he has a family, he came back to get back together before, I love to be unreasonable, this time I asked him, is it good or not, he said to break up, he said let it go, I didn't agree, he reconciled again, said that there will be no more vexatious trouble in the future, it will be fine, I just want to know, he agreed to get back together, does he really want to reconcile, or pity me.

    In fact, the two of us have been separated and reunited many times, he has a family, he came back to get back together before, I love to be unreasonable, this time I asked him, is it good or not, he said to break up, he said let it go, I didn't agree, he reconciled again, said that there will be no more vexatious trouble in the future, it will be fine, I just want to know, he agreed to get back together, does he really want to reconcile, or pity me.

    He has a family and will not have any result with you, being together is also a kind of spiritual sustenance for him, he has a family so you feel unfair, so you like to be unreasonable, but the more you are like this, the worse your relationship will be.

    Yes, what you said is right, I think he wants to come to see me, but I can't let go, I didn't agree to separate, he said no, let me be unreasonable in the future, I just want to know, is he really going to be separated from me, he has nothing to lose when he is with you, does he usually spend money or give you gifts.

    Valentine's Day send. The two of you have a certain affection, but he doesn't have that kind of inseparable from you.

    Before we separated, he asked me to get back together, many times. This time he separated, I couldn't stand it, I don't know what to do next, in fact, I have a shadow in my heart.

    Dear, since you are reconciled, get along well, manage well, don't have any worries, but I have a shadow in my heart, and I feel that it is what I kept, so I didn't leave, not sincerely.

    No, if he doesn't have any feelings for you, he won't agree to reconcile.

    So don't worry too much.

    Thank you, I don't think about it anymore.

    That's right, don't think about it, okay, don't be unreasonable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. yes, if he doesn't like you anymore, he won't reconcile with you.

    He said to break up, I didn't agree, just continue to be good, is it really good.

    When he told you to break up and you didn't agree, then what did he do, did he say that they would continue to be together.

    In fact, the two of us have been separated and reunited many times, he has a family, he came back to get back together before, I love to be unreasonable, this time I asked him, is it good or not, he said to break up, he said let it go, I didn't agree, he reconciled again, said that there will be no more vexatious trouble in the future, it will be fine, I just want to know, he agreed to get back together, does he really want to reconcile, or pity me.

    In this way, it should be a real desire to reconcile.

    He has a family, and he can't come to see me because of work, and he seems to be afraid that he doesn't want to come, but I didn't agree to break up, so he agreed, and I didn't break up, I wondered, is it because I pity me like this.

    It shouldn't be because I pity you.

    Otherwise, he wouldn't have been reconciled with you.

    But he doesn't want to come to see me, doesn't he just want to be nice to me? Why didn't I agree to break up, he agreed.

    yes, if he doesn't like you anymore, he won't reconcile with you.

    I'm afraid that it was because I kept it, and I was pitiful, so I compromised.

    He didn't come to see you, probably because of work, and he couldn't come to see you.

    The main thing is that he is afraid of being discovered, so I don't know what he thinks.

    Then you can communicate with him and ask what the reason is.

    It was said that it was not safe for fear of discovery, but I agreed to keep it and reconcile.

    Yes, he has agreed, indicating that he still cares about you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Hello dear, according to your description, I feel that he loves you, he feels that he can't give you what he wants, his ability is not good, he wants you to find a better one, but he can't let go, but he is determined to leave you, more contradictory person, deep love,

    I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, but he said that he wanted to see me, and then said that he couldn't let go and wanted to let go, and said that he was afraid that I would not have a good time with him.

    Hello dear, according to your description, I feel that he loves you, he feels that he can't give you what he wants, his ability is not good, he wants you to find a better one, but he can't let go, but he is determined to leave you, more contradictory person, deep love,

    I told him that you know a lot of things, it's just pretending to be stupid, and it saves a lot of trouble, and then he told me that this is the case, and I was right, we are each other's first love.

    I really envy your first love.

    Boys should be more stressed.

    We were together for about four years, and we were always separated and together, and both sides were very face-saving, and then he said from time to time that he wouldn't be a dog licker himself.

    This is the most embarrassing time and the easiest to break up.

    So he felt very strange to me when I met this time, as if he didn't like me anymore, just like treating me as an ordinary friend, before even his mother said that we were a bad fate, always divided and merged, before I had conflicts with his mother he always stood on my side.

    It would be good for girls to take the initiative and be a little more tolerant and weak.

    I've changed a lot for him, and every time he comes over the video screen without speaking, he just looks at me silently, he used to joke too much, let alone love, I can't even feel like.

    Ay. It should be the man's problem.

    He said that he spent all his peach blossom luck after me, and how he was able to catch up with me.

    It's still relatively loving.

    He said he didn't even know what attracted me to him.

    You can tell him the merits that are what you like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Feelings are mutual understanding and tolerance, if you want to break up, just tell him not to break up in the future!

    I broke up with my boyfriend, he didn't seem to say that he wanted to break up directly, he hit ** and asked me if I wanted to break up, but I didn't directly say that I wanted to break up, I just hesitated. But when I messaged him or replied to me, I just spoke politely.

    It's mad at you.

    But the way he spoke was polite.

    It's because I'm angry that I'm polite.

    Asking if you break up is respecting you.

    You should give him a more enjoyable one! Divide it, don't divide it!

    Otherwise, he'll think you're hanging him!

    I told him in ** that he didn't break up, and then told him that he was not happy, he said that he was not happy, and I also mentioned breaking up when I quarreled before, and every time I mentioned breaking up, I didn't really break up.

    Start chatting well, and then be polite to me later.

    Guys are very sensitive to the topic of breakups, and they are also prone to insecurity!

    But I'm also very insecure, we're in a long-distance relationship.

    Always say that if you break up, he will be very sad, and again and again, he will not believe you anymore.

    There is something to talk about and discuss, and it is really not feasible to say that it is not feasible to break up.

    It hurts so much.

    Coax well. But I'm a slow person, and I'm not very good at talking, and if you speak politely to me, will you have no feelings for me?

    Feelings are mutual understanding and tolerance, if you want to break up, just tell him not to break up in the future!

    He's still angry, and boys also need to be coaxed! Say well, don't quarrel! Long-distance relationships are really easy to break up!

    If you love each other, don't torture each other.

    Little sister, boys really care about the person they like and break up with him, even if it's a joke, they will take it seriously!

    There are many ways to quarrel, and the most infeasible thing is to impulsively say that you want to break up, just be coquettish and soft!

    Then I told him several times, and each time I told me a big truth, and then I said not to leave him, but this time I seemed to be really angry, saying that he had told me many times before, but he just didn't listen to him. Now it's polite to speak to me.

    This is anger, I want you to remember it a little more, and it also shows that he really cares about you!

    Be coquettish, apologize, just say that you are impulsive, what you say is not sincere, and you will never say stupid things about breaking up in the future!

    Stick to it for two days, and the boys will generally go down the stairs!

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