A friend of mine always told me how good others were to her, and what she thought

I'll see what I hate about him, and if it's because of my character, I'll tell him why, give me some pertinent advice, and don't contact him. If it's for some reason, I'll still tell him the reason, and if he thinks it's okay to continue playing together, then I won't interfere too much.

Because everyone has the right to make friends, you can't say he's your friend and stop him just because you don't like him. That's a sign of selfishness. If you don't like it, you can have less contact, but you can't follow you.

It's just to show off in front of you.

I hope you're kind to her too.

To stay away from each other appropriately, you must keep your own thoughts at this time, everyone has their own choices, and you must think clearly about your behavior.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also tell the other party what you think, and don't let the other party continue to behave like this, which is very incorrect.

At this time, you must stick to your own ideas, do not be disturbed by the other party, and you must also seriously consider the relationship between the two of you.

In real life, there are still many people who talk nonsense, and this kind of person still belongs to poor cultivation, poor morality, and not uprightness. I have met this kind of person, in front of me to say that others are not, in front of others to say that I am not, my friends will tell me, but I will not tell others what others tell me, otherwise I will become an empty talker, generally I can only laugh when I encounter this situation, ignore her, for a long time she feels like a day chat, I never say that other people's is not, if she has anything, I will tell her bluntly to her face, people get along with people to be more precious.

Be kind to others and influence others with your words and actions.

Are the three of you good friends with each other? Speaking ill of others behind your back.

It's definitely not good, let alone friends, friends focus on communication, and what conflicts between people can be solved by face-to-face communication, rather than casually discussing the rights and wrongs of others behind their backs. This should not be the case between friends. Even if you say that they are all good friends, then you should stop being a microphone between them and tell another friend.

Instead, it is necessary to have a deep and good understanding of the difficulties and misunderstandings between them, and find ways to turn hostility into friendship. Don't turn friends into enemies is what you should do. Now that the root of the misunderstanding is clearly understood, you can also get them together and have them communicate face-to-face and tell them about the misunderstanding.

If there is something, say it and solve it, don't be stuffy in your heart, what a person thinks in his heart, others can't guess. The misunderstanding is resolved, and the three of you are still friends, otherwise it is possible that the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, leading to an uncontrollable situation in the future.

As the old saying goes, no one doesn't say someone else's behind their backs, no one doesn't be said behind their backs, it sounds a bit tongue-twisting, and in real life who is a gentleman and who is a villain, there is no conclusion, and people who have to look at the problem look at it from that angle.

Friends will have opinions about each other, this is normal, the lips will be hurt between the lips, not to mention that there are more than two people have the character of two people, if your friend comes to you and says bad things about another friend, you have to be an upright person to say your opinion, if you think he is a person who often likes to slander others, you can criticize him mercilessly and teach him.

If your friend talks to you about another friend's shortcomings, analyze with him how you can help them. That's what a friend is.

I won't feel anything, because Ling Dou thinks that this kind of thing is very normal, everyone will have their own friends and their own social circle, and I will listen to what he says about Qi Pei Mo.

It's a little uncomfortable because he doesn't feel like he's the best friend for him, or he wouldn't have to talk to other people all the time when we meet.

I would think that this person is very unreliable, this person will say me in front of others, very gossip person.

Although you have been playing for a long time, it feels like you are no longer friends everywhere, so please part decisively.

play for a long time", indicating that this friend was still a very good and worthy person to associate with before, so he could "play for a long time".

Now "I feel that the belt is degrading you" means that the person has changed for various reasons. Either because of profits, or because you like the new and hate the old, or because you don't understand one of your mistakes, and so on. Since he no longer respects you, you are not worthy of continuing to associate with him, "there is no grass in the world", and friends who are not sincerely equal to each other but "belittle" are better than not.

I once had a friend who usually had a better relationship than his own brothers. Others envied us and called us "gay". In short, the two often talk about everything together, and often drink and chat together. When he was sick, I was also worried and went to the hospital many times.

But then he moved to another place and made new friends. Once when we were playing together, he was very unfriendly to me in front of others, and even lost his temper, which made me feel unreasonable. Although I did not argue with him on the spot, I have not been in contact with him since that day.

Someone said: "A friend is the person who always protects you in front of others, and a friend is a person who wants to share even a little touch, a little thing." ”

If friends do not treat each other as equals, care for each other, respect and support, but "belittle everywhere", such "friends" are no longer friends.

The acquaintance of people is important in knowing each other; The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other. In terms of making friends, the ancients paid attention to not going against the heart, so they made friends with each other. Otherwise, break up earlier and find another soulmate.

Friends are the stations in the journey of life, and such platforms connect the ups and downs of our journey. Each station has its own unique scenery, and maybe it can have its own story or the stupid reeds are poignant.

I've had a personal experience of this kind of problem.,It's best to ask for that her.,That is, the opinion of the person who said it is still to ask for the opinion.,If it's inconvenient, I think it's better not to tell others.,After all, maybe you think it's nothing.,But it's true that she's sensitive.。

Or maybe she or he thinks you are trustworthy and won't just say it, so she tells you, and if you tell someone, it's a betrayal of their trust.

From the perspective of integrity, it should not be and is against morality.

Moreover, from the perspective of the consequences, maybe the other good friend you said also thinks the same as you, and the words that have been passed on will have bad consequences, which is like environmental awareness, rule awareness, everyone wants me to use more plastic bags, I just run the red light a little, but if everyone else thinks like you, then there is really a big problem, the same reason.

In general, it is a painting that cannot be approved by the original owner, and it is best not to tell anyone else.

Of course, if the specific situation is different, you can ask, and I will continue to pay attention.

It depends on what it is, if your friend believes in you very much, he will tell you what is in his heart, but you can't tell this kind of thing to a third person, because the words will be spread too much, and it will be outrageous, so even if she is a good friend, she can't guarantee that she will not pass it out, so she must be measured when speaking.

When a friend tells you about him, he trusts you and treats you as a good friend, and you should not tell your good friend about him without his consent. This is the most basic trust between friends.

If a friend tells you about her, you can't tell her about another good friend, and back and forth that it's not good for your friend or yourself, this is the most basic trust of being a person, you have to respect others, and you also respect yourself.

This is personal privacy, you can argue for her consent, whether she is willing to make these things public, otherwise don't spread it again, there should be trust between friends.

This is absolutely not allowed, this is a matter of integrity, your friend can tell you about him, it shows that he trusts you, this is personal privacy, it cannot be passed on through your mouth, and if you don't make it, something big will happen.

If it's something that asks you to keep it secret or involves her privacy, don't tell anyone about it at the end.