Why do people who love each other hate each other after separation

Because there is love, there is hate, and there is hatred as much as love is deep.

Love, cut and messy, each other will be sad because they have loved each other, care about it, it is difficult to say that this kind of thing is emotional, it is often when they are scattered, because they have been with each other, more or less there will be a little feeling, suddenly separated, they will not get used to it, sadness is inevitable, if it is a person, there will be feelings, if it is not sad, then it is not a person,

There is love and pain, which is the essence of love, and sadness proves that you have loved deeply.

Since you have love, you will have pain, it's just a matter of how much.

Many people hate because of love, because when they are together, the two of them really like it too much, so they can't let go of it for a long time when they break up. That's why I hate.

Personally, I think the most important thing is because of how deep the love is, how thorough the hate is, because when you love this person at that time, you can tolerate all her shortcomings, but once you break up, then all the contradictions will explode in a concentrated manner.

It's because of human selfishness. When they liked it at the beginning, they liked it because of their selfishness, and when they separated, they all hated it.

It's normal, because after breaking up, I feel that the other party is sorry for me, I have spent my youth, and I don't compensate for it, and I don't have any nostalgia for myself, just like I don't know each other, strangers, can I not hate it?

Often after two people separate, no matter how much they liked each other when they were together before, they will not want to mention it again in the end, if it is hate, maybe hate themselves at the beginning.

Hehe, is this the kind of thing? It depends on who you are and who you are sorry for. If you weren't separated because of the betrayal between you, then I think you still cherish each other, after all, she (he) is someone you have cherished with your life.

A relationship is not so easy to forget, since you can't forget, then why should you continue to hurt the other person?

They are all people who have loved each other, what should be cherished, and what should be given up, then you all understand. Don't continue to hurt, maybe there will be a friendship between you.

On the contrary, if it is because of the betrayal of the other party, then I don't think you need to hate, because that person is not worthy, don't you say?

Who is worth it about feelings?

It's all cherished with your heart.,She (he) still betrayed you.,Then you can't help it.,Since others want to fly.,Then you let him go.,As for how he goes behind it.,It's up to him.,It's up to him.,It's just that I advise you if you come back to you in the future.,I hope you can think about it.,People will make mistakes.,Although you will admit mistakes.,But it's almost a difficult thing for you to want him to correct.。。

If it's because of this, then don't think about it, just work hard for yourself. Believe that he will come back and beg you when he gets better!

It's not the end of the day, and it's all a variable!

Man will conquer the heavens. Don't be decadent yourself, learn from it when you have loved, and understand what love is and what love is.

Feelings do not mean that we understand them from the beginning, but from failures again and again!

Hehe.. Everything that can be said has been said, I hope you understand...

No, if you don't love her anymore, you won't care how she feels, naturally not. If you still love her, then you shouldn't hate her, because you love her and want her to be happy. So you shouldn't hate her at all. (Personal opinion).

No, on the contrary I will bless him. Since you don't love it, you should let it go, let him find happiness, and I will be happy if he is happy. If you keep him by your side, the person who can keep him, and the person who can't keep his heart, so that both of you are miserable, why bother.

Only people who go to extremes will hate out of love, and this kind of person is also extremely selfish! If the other party wants to leave him, he will hate. This is not love, it is a curse!

If it were me, I think I might be reluctant, but it's fate...It depends on what the person thinks...

No, I've been dumped by the same person more than 5 times.

Divide and merge. In the end, I chose to forget.

I can't bless him.

But I can't hate him.

Just let yourself be miserable.

Then you think that he (she) loves your body, money, then it is not called love, it is just a personal selfish desire, you should forget, if he (she) loves you, just for, happy, happy, feel that you can be together forever, I think you are separated, you should love him (her) silently, let him (her) be happy.

How much you hate someone shows how much you love him.

When you have that love, cherish her well, and stupidly care for her with all your heart and protect her.

When fate is over, if you try your best to keep it, you still can't turn back.

Please keep your hatred, after all, we have loved each other so deeply, and if we don't love each other deeply, there will be no bitter hatred, but just imagine, if he hadn't left, what would I hope for him? You will definitely not hesitate: give him the best and let him be the happiest!

Then why did his love disappear and yours turned into hate without hesitation?

There are many reasons for him to leave, maybe he has changed, maybe you have annoyed him, or maybe. In short, your fate is over.

Fate is over, even if his love is gone, but your love is still there, and the purpose of your love is to hope that he will live well, right? If this hope changes because of his change, doesn't it mean that your love will not stand the test?

If you can please hold on to that love until he comes back, he will find that you love him the most, if there is really no result, please keep that love, love someone, you don't have to have, fate is forced to come, hate if it can solve the problem, then hold on, in fact, hate will only strengthen his determination to leave, why not be generous, smile and watch him leave, even if he doesn't come back, because your love is always there...

Hatred is the emotional venting of one's own efforts without being rewarded, and this venting has no other advantages than deepening the conflict and leaving a shadow on the hearts of both parties.

When one is determined to hate ... Isn't it more meaningful to find the reason for your hatred, and to think about whether the other person is worth hating?

You give, you don't get anything in return, hurt, betray, leave ... There must be a reason in it, if you find out the reason and solve the problem, won't there be no hatred in the future?

If the injury, betrayal, and departure are caused by the person's natural vileness and cannot be undone, then does it make sense to spend one's heart and soul to hate the despicable person?

Love is the most beautiful thing, and when there is a crack in love, it is the smartest thing to think about and find out why, and it is the wisest thing to do without thinking about it, and not considering whether it is worth it or not.

There is not much time in life, let's do unwise things, that's all, I hope it can help you, I wish you happiness and happiness!

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.