Love each other? Forced to do so? People who already love each other, forced to go on a blind date w

Updated on society 2024-02-08
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Fake, whether he really loves you or not, he won't cry on the day he gets married, he has to be responsible for his current life, if he really loves each other, then nothing will resist, he really loves you, he will make it clear to his family, he doesn't have a girlfriend, why do you have to go on a blind date? Lies always sound good, but whoever leaves them really can't live? He chose someone else, and you should accept a new life as well.

    Some answers, knowing and not knowing, are the same, why bother others to embarrass themselves...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think so. The reason is simple. There's no reason to separate him from you.

    He didn't have a choice? Do I have to go on a blind date at home? If you don't want to force yourself at home, you don't have to go, it's man-made.

    Why don't I take you to meet his parents? There are so many problems here. And the man said the reason for the breakup.

    Too often, I say that I am very wronged.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think he's going to cry, I think he's meant to you.

    It may be that his family is urging, and the most important thing I think may be that he is afraid that you will graduate, and I don't know where you will go to work? Where to develop? Can he buy you a big house when the time comes, I think the person he loves so much is still you, but I'm afraid that I can't stand the pain of losing you.

    So he chose reality.

    People are always going to grow up, and I think he should be a man with a story. When you graduate and see a lot of people separate, you will understand him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're sick, but he's sicker than you, and if I'm in your problem, I'm going to be sick too, because fantasy is contagious, so you can fantasize about it, and wait until you've sealed yourself up and go to the doctor.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Fake, forget it, everyone is married, why bother to break the thread, just order.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This man doesn't even have his own position, and he can't do his own marriage... It doesn't seem to be such a mature and reliable man!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's good that such a man can be like this under his father's education, but he still chooses family affection. Promised his dad to date the girl. For you, he has loved.

    But it's not deep, sometimes love just can't stand the test of reality. You have the faith to go with him, but he is vacillating between you and his father. It's immature and not loving you enough and not being responsible enough.

    A man is so young, even if he is poor. You don't dislike him and are willing to fight with him, but he doesn't see it. I only saw the problem in front of me.

    Evade a lot of problems. Is it true that you are really happy just by being with that girl? You don't need to know, he chooses such an ending and should accept the problems that it brings, do you want him to have you in his heart or not?

    You have to adjust yourself, such a man and such a family. Do you think you'll be happy together? It's hard to guarantee that there won't be a second rich girl.

    Yours is a little boy, not a responsible man. Are you still willing to love such a man and make yourself so miserable? He gives up, and you give up.

    It doesn't matter if you have you in your heart or not, all you do is forget about this man and start a new life, and abandon your man for material things. I really don't see any future for you, and it's better to have a long pain than a short one. He made the decision for you in advance, whether you were sad or not.

    You're all lucky that you didn't end when you gave too much. Then you lose everything. Hope it helps.

    I wish you to get out of this mood soon.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He succumbed to reality and chose that woman, but the person she likes is you, of course she has you in her heart, it's not easy to like someone, it's even more difficult to forget someone, he succumbed to reality because of his character and his growth environment, and it has nothing to do with you in his heart, but since he made his own choice, you don't need to be too entangled, some people are destined to be together, some people are destined to be together and separate, I hope time can make you forget, and then find a better person to accompany you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is definitely 100 of you in the heart, no doubt, but the heart is with you, but the person is not with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to be great, bless him, but I won't, what is the previous effort? If you don't love, why do you want to be together? Where did the original backbone go?

    If he doesn't care so much, why should you be trapped in it? Let him regret going. What money can bring him is never spiritual satisfaction.

    Hope, adopt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is unreliable He loves you, and that moment may be true The moment he leaves you, I tell you It's also true! There is no emotion that cannot be forgotten, It doesn't matter if you look at him or not, what matters is what you think in your heart, if he really loves you and loves deeply, nothing can be separated But there are few causes that cannot be separated, or two people who are irrational and make mistakes! Either really, really met the right one!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should bless him, if nothing else, but for the sake of your love for one another. You can look down on him, but you have to behave freely in front of him, maybe he is also forced to be helpless, I wish you to find happiness as soon as possible!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Just read a story... Don't understand what you're asking.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You know that she works very hard, you should affirm her, what is there to worry about, it is you who are married and not your parents who are married. Your hesitation means that you do have doubts about your girlfriend, doesn't you, at least subconsciously?? How long have you been with your girlfriend?

    It must be that you understand each other and be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings, this is love. How much do you know about girls on blind dates? You know what's wrong with her?

    And are you sure she can accept all your shortcomings? So there is nothing to hesitate about, the danger of getting married on a blind date is too great. I don't think it's a good thing for your parents to get divorced after two years of marriage, so it's okay to choose someone you love that you know and love you deeply.

    What's more, don't say that your girlfriend has a job now, even if you don't have your own wife, it's not a shame for a man, is it?? Love her well and don't waver anymore.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really say how you feel after marriage, it's not to get married.

    It's really nice to be in love, talk about your current problem.

    Actually, it depends on how much you love each other, and your parents are not wrong, but you are married to yourself, and you want to live with you, not with your parents.

    If you really give up what you love for your parents, marry someone you don't love, then the tragedy is your parents, the girl you give up, the wife you marry back home, and yourself, and there are many times when parents realize that they are wrong, but definitely after a tragedy.

    You are an adult now, and there are some things that you have to insist on your own point of view After all, it is your life, and you can talk to your parents about it, and work in modern society is not so important, and there are many formal jobs that don't make as much money as private companies, don't you, tell your parents about their preferences, let your girlfriend have a long contact with your parents, and do what they like, at least work hard to not give up, do nothing, just say give up, can it be said that it is love, for parents, we just need to enter filial piety.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that your own happiness should be controlled by yourself, since you love each other, you should not let go easily, you can show your parents your firm determination, say that you really love her, and that you are good, and she has been working hard.

    If your parents are firm, you can discuss with your girlfriend and pretend to go on a blind date, but they all say that you can't afford it and delay time.

    In the end, I have no choice, and seeing that you are very resolute, I think your parents will be soft-hearted.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, it's simple. If your parents are against it, it's a big deal to spend your own money to get married. If your parents can monopolize your economy, it's a big deal to go to work on your own. If you can't find a job, it's a big deal to be a beggar to support your wife, even if you starve yourself to half your life, you have to support your wife and show your parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sincerely pursue the person you love the most, bless you, you will never be happy with the person you don't love. Explain what you mean to the person on a blind date, and she should understand.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now many breakups are forced to be helpless, since you can't fight, just live a good life in the future, or work hard, or put your mind elsewhere, it's good for a long time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Break up and break up. Learning to be strong and happy is more important than anything else. He's your first love.

    First love is like this.。。 It'll be fine after a while.。。 Don't think so much about it now.

    Quietly for a while. See if you love each other ...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Is there a reason? Good communication between the two of them is the last word.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What kind of helplessness is it? Does the family disagree?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You're a fool with no opinions! Recommendations:

    1. Cherish your love.

    2. Don't listen to anyone's gossip.

    3. Fate makes you two together, and you must cherish fate.

    4. You love her and not anyone else, as long as you two truly love each other, to hell with everything else!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The phrase "if life is only as first seen" comes from the famous Qing Dynasty poet Nalan Xingde (Nalan Rongruo) (1655 1685, Manchu) in the "Magnolia Flower Order: Quasi-Ancient Decisive Words", which means that "the result of things is not as beautiful as people initially imagined, and in the process of development, it often changes beyond people's initial understanding, and there is no beauty and indifference when they first met." So how wonderful it feels to stay at the beginning, when there are no obstacles, no obstacles, and everything is so natural. The beauty of the first sight, the unimaginable ending, and the sketched life, there are always a few faint regrets and sorrows.

    Original text: If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind sad fan.

    Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.

    Lishan said that it was half a night away, and the tears and rain did not complain.

    How is Bo Xing Jinyilang, who wishes on the same day.

    About author:Nalan Xingde (1655-1685), formerly known as Chengde, the word Rongruo, the name of Lengjiashan, also known as Nalan Rongruo, Manchuria Zhenghuangqi, is one of the most famous poets of the Qing Dynasty, the eldest son of Wuyingdian University scholar Mingzhu. His poems not only enjoyed a high reputation in the Qing Dynasty poetry circle, but also occupied a dazzling place in the poetry world with "Nalan Ci" in the entire history of Chinese literature. Less virtuous and intelligent, able to recite when reading and seeing, inheriting the Manchurian martial arts tradition, and being good at riding and shooting.

    He has certain attainments in calligraphy, painting, and **. In the fifteenth year of Kangxi (Jinshi. Awarded the third-class guard, looking for the first class, and the military attache is the third grade.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I hope it helps you: Nalan Xingde's "Magnolia Flower Order."

    Quasi-archaic decisive words.

    Cambodian Friends" If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind sad fan.

    Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.

    Lishan said that it was half a night away, and the tears and rain did not complain. (The whole book is "rain.") Entertainment garden is supposed to be a "language". )

    How is Bo Xing Jinyilang, who wishes on the same day.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The phrase "If life is only as first seen" comes from Nalan Xingde's "Mulan Ci Imitation of Ancient Decisive Words Cambodian Friends", which means that getting along with the person you like should always be like when you first met, beautiful and indifferent, without later resentment and resentment. Everything is only good at the beginning. With the same name, there is also the book of An Yiru and I am Purple Love, also called "If Life Is Only as First Seen" and the song "Life Is Only as First Seen".

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Nalan Xingde, "Quasi-Ancient Decisive Words".

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Nalan Xingde's "Mulan Words".

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