Why did such a relationship come to this day 40

There is a period of love and a cold period when you fall in love, and when you get through it, you will get tired of each other, keep arguing, and sometimes you will quarrel inexplicably because of a little thing, and you feel bored when you think about it afterwards, and there is still a seven-year itch when you get married, so don't be rash at this time, it is very difficult at this time, as long as you get through it, it's no problem, but few people can get through it, and now it's a fatigue period, so he will look at you unpleasantly, if you can bear to take a step back, and get through, it's clear If you still cherish this relationship, talk to him Let's calm down for a while, just wait for this time to pass (if he doesn't like someone else) and I wish you a speedy reconciliation

It may be that they have been together for a long time, and they can only accept each other's advantages but can't tolerate each other's shortcomings.

This kind of relationship should not be just a joke, otherwise there would be no need to talk about it for so long.

If you really love it, you can try to change your shortcomings.

If you don't feel the need to rip it off any longer, then separate it.

After all, if you don't change your shortcomings, it will still be difficult to get along when you get married in the future.

A small quarrel for three days, a big quarrel for five days, no one can stand it.

Sort yourself out and decide what to do.

The longer you spend together, the less likely you are to get married.

The longer the relationship drags on, the more problems may be, and the other person's shortcomings become more and more obvious in their own eyes.

After getting along for so long, from the beginning of wanting to slowly run in the personalities of both parties, to gradually wanting the other party to get rid of those shortcomings for themselves, and finally to realizing that they can't change a person, and they can't let themselves have enough psychology to adapt to each other, then, tired, tired, helpless, I thought of breaking up.

It's been four years, more than many times, and you are reluctant to break up.

Really like the example given by others:

A restaurant, the food is difficult to eat, and the hygiene is not good, but you have to visit it every day!!

After a long time, the relationship between the two people has faded, and the people who love each other should also disperse.

Don't think too much about it, let go of each other's hands if you don't love each other. One day, you will find that you have not lost anything, but have gained another life experience.

I also understand that it is sad to give up someone who has been in love for a long time, but you should be glad that you found out early, you still have time to take a break, and you have nothing to lose by leaving someone who does not love you.

Really let go of others and let go of yourself, you don't need a reason to love, of course you don't need a reason if you don't love, so be brave.

I hope you can be stronger, and when you let go, you will find that you don't love him that much, you need him, and life is not something that you can't live without anyone.

True love takes time to test, and time can dilute everything, including love.

So, now let's talk about love. It's just.

If a man really doesn't love you anymore, then no matter how you pay for him, if you don't love him, you don't love anymoreEven if you kneel to keep it, it's only for a while.

And his heart is no longer in you, in that case, it is better to let go of his hand and let him go.

You've said you're willful, and since he doesn't like you anymore, the more you pester him like this, he'll hate you!! If you don't believe it, try it, no matter how much you love him, and when he says to break up, you have to leave in style, so that it will leave a good impression on you in his heart.

People's hearts, if they change, they really can't get it back with anything, take care of themselves, we are still young, we have been hurt once, we know that we are not good in that aspect, and the next time we fall in love, we will know how to grasp it.

You state some phenomena, but you don't explain the essence of the problem, so let's ask questions after you think about it.

Such a boy is not worth keeping.

There is no good in arguing, and it will not solve the problem.

It's hard to evaluate it.

The current relationship really can't be compared with before, everyone used to be poor, and they were all on the same starting line in terms of material. Without this consideration, the natural emotional aspect will be more innocent. Now that society is developing rapidly, the gap between the rich and the poor is large, the second generation of rich officials and the second generation of poor people, if you are given a choice, you will also consider the first two first.

But I think that when you fall in love now, feelings are important, but there is also a certain material basis. If there is no material and economic situation, it is unrealistic to just have a full drink, or it will not last long. So if you're still at the beginning of your career, I'd advise you to work harder.

Love is important, and career is also striving for brilliance!

Marriage in this era is basically material first, and feelings come last! Why do you say that, how do the current parents' generation understand the relationship between the two? I will only ask if you have a house, whether you have a car, what is your education, what is your family background (this generally refers to family property), can this generation understand your feelings?

But you can't just go against their advice! Pathetic!

If your own parents and the other parent don't see it that way, congratulations. Your marriage should come first with affection!!

I myself am a very poor person, so my current marriage is based on feelings! Both parents have only one wish, poverty is not a problem, the relationship between two people must be long-lasting! Now my life is changing every month, and I change my living environment through the efforts of two people!

With the development of society, the economy continues to improve. The society in which we have lived for more than 20 years has undergone tremendous changes, and at the same time, our views and opinions have also changed. This is no way, it should be that the world is progressing, we are also progressing, I think maintaining a relationship is to have a certain economy as the foundation, imagine if we can't even eat enough, how can we still have the heart to talk about love, right!

There is also the fact that if you want to get your sincerity, you must first give your own sincerity. There will be no harvest without paying, if there is it just a surprise, surprises will not be there every day, but the sincerity of paying will definitely have unexpected gains.

I have to say that the current society is a very realistic society, and many of my friends around me basically come together for the sake of materialism.

In fact, the reason why parents put material things in the first place is because they are people who have come from the past and know that if there is no material foundation, after a long time, the relationship will be worn out by a poor life. But there are also many people who come together because of their feelings, and there are also people who are very happy in life, so it depends on what kind of personality and ideas the two people have. I envy the love of my grandparents, the two of them have been together for a lifetime, and they still take care of each other like that until now.

Individuals still tend to have feelings in order to get married.

Don't be sentimental, times are changing, people's minds are also changing, there is a saying: there is no immutability, only improvisation!

We came together because of our feelings, so our lives are very poor now! But we're still happy! Every night when I come home, he buys groceries, washes vegetables, I cook, washes dishes.

The house is cleaned once a week, and it is really happy to work together. Although we have nothing materially, our hearts are very sweet!

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and although the ultimate pursuit of human beings is the spiritual pursuit, there must also be a minimum material security.

In my opinion, feelings come first, material things second, but it's not okay if the material level is too low. After all, we all live in an earthly world.

Why you choose to come together is why there are gains and losses, depending on which side the balance is tilted in your heart.

It's hard for anyone to say what will happen now, but perhaps your understanding is a mistake in the first place. Graduation means that the breakup is indeed a bit pessimistic, it is not easy for two people to come together, I knew it was so, why bother in the first place? Let's talk about it as a last resort!

If not, let's get together and disperse!

She may just be pessimistic. Just because she said that didn't mean he didn't want to get anything back. Actually, you didn't break up with Ben either.

People are always looking forward to the future and fearing it. It's not going to work. Be bold and say and be bold to do.

Don't just look at it. Maybe you're also together for graduate school admissions. If you really love each other, sometimes you might as well give up something.

The person who doesn't care about your feelings so much is not worthy of love, you have mistaken her, and the person who doesn't put your feelings first is not worthy of your love, as if she is playing tricks on you, right?

Falling out of love is not one-sided.

I want to open it. There is no grass at the end of the world.

The skewness of the scholar can still be taken off. The woman is shy, and she can't take it off.

If he doesn't win you back, it means he doesn't care about you. Men are always more likely to break free from the shackles of feelings than women, and I think we should give them a chance, give others a chance, and give myself a chance. Calm down, live a normal life, whether the person has changed or not, and then face new feelings.

1. Go back, be reconciled to him, and continue the days without hope.

2. You all moved out, you proposed the scorer, then, what did you think about the moment you proposed the breakup. Now, do you think the breakup was wrong?

3. Just wait and see if he will move and if he will come to you.

4. Do you think that this is retribution.

If you're tired, you'll rest first, and you'll live a good life when you're calm.

When two people are together, they need to say what is in their hearts face to face. That's the only way. will last a long time.

Feelings are not absent in an instant, but the head god who disappears little by little in the wrong way of doing business.

On the third day after the breakup, I quit smoking all the time, it turns out that people really can't change, some people lose it for a lifetime, we have the same experience, I hope you get out of that sadistic love as soon as possible, give a satisfied big brother and a good man for a safe life.

That's what feelings are all about, dear, don't worry too much, I hope your next relationship will be richer.

The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new ......

The only thing I can do is to get in touch with another new relationship as soon as possible!!

People who can't love need to find a substitute for someone else.

Time will dilute everything. Relax.

It is suggested that you can promise him to be a friend, understand his life, and if it is suitable, you can further develop, and if it is not suitable, you should still be a friend. After all, it's still useful to have a friend who loves you.

It's hard to say, it's possible that you feel uncomfortable if you don't catch it, it's possible that you really love you, measure it yourself! You judge by your own contact!

It's hard to say that some people don't love you so much once they catch up with you.

Yes, feelings can be cultivated slowly, and to be honest, your situation is very enviable.

Try to be together if you think it's okay, anyway, this kind of relationship is at least stronger than average!

Look at him as a person, follow his feelings, I rejected my boyfriend many times at the beginning, he persevered and we came together, and now he is very good to me.

You can be friends first and then get to know the person slowly. Don't agree to some excessive requests in the process of getting to know this person. Usually men go out of their way to approach you for a variety of purposes. Seek the best.

I used to be such a boy, ah! My feeling is that even if I don't agree to him. Always give him a chance to get to know each other. In this way, we can know whether we are suitable for each other? The affection for you should be genuine, but not necessarily mature.

You can promise him that if he's a bad guy, don't think about how many times he's pursued you and dump him.

It's okay to pursue it, but you can't touch you for two years (observe his character).

No matter how good the relationship is, it will change, and after a man gets his hand, it will be different.

This kind of relationship is very reliable, dear.

You can consider that because he is very persistent, the feelings of dedicated people will last a long time.

Yes, but you have to capture his heart.

If you don't try, you'll never know the result!

Look at your character and character, and it has nothing to do with how many times you chase you.

A slap to kill him, the world is peaceful.