Should I give up being his confidante?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you can, but please remember that your identity has changed, and you must keep a good distance from him, so as not to cause unnecessary conflicts.

    Keep yourself at the distance you deserve from him, and you can still be good friends.

    Love is not the whole of life, be open-minded, and life may have fewer troubles.

    For your addition: life will not be perfect, and regrets are inevitable. There are some things that should be given up when it's time to let go.

    Dwelling on something that may not be resolved will make things worse, as Tagore said, miss the sun, you are still crying, you will miss the stars again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's put it another way

    If there is that kind of relationship between friends. At the very least, there must have been some change in his heart about you. Your relationship may begin to blur from that moment on. I'm also a man.

    If you still want to be his confidante, you must keep a certain distance between you, and that can't happen again, never. Otherwise, you'll be his girlfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be sure to tell him that you love him, and that love is cultivated from liking. If you can talk about everything, it means that your hearts are compatible, and the raw rice is cooked. If you like it, say it.

    If he refuses, I guess there is no need to be his confidante, so you will get hurt. Let's be a general friend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's really tiring to love someone you can't have...

    I think your relationship is really complicated.

    Since I didn't think of you as a girlfriend, I had a relationship with you.

    What do you think he thinks about this?

    Because this kind of thing is normal for friends of men and women who are in love.

    And as you say, you're not in that relationship.

    Know who he is and don't let him take advantage of your love.

    There's time to get him out and you guys talk.

    Look at what he thinks about it, if it's indifferent.

    That kind of man is not worth your love at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ay... This dried shrimp looks delicious. But the crab in that hand is not bad.

    But what if I can only eat one?

    Ha ha... Lie to them. Say it to everyone. I only ate you ... That's it haha.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Despise such men! If you want it, you can only make yourself sad.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a lack of communication between husband and wife, and you have to learn to think about things from his point of view and understand him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Introduction: A confidante, the so-called confidante, is a female friend who is spiritually independent, equal in soul, and able to achieve deep resonance. It's not just an emotional trash can that makes you talk about your troubles, or a nest where you get tired of being hurt in the outside world.

    What should a confidante do? What can I do to become his most suitable face?

    There is only one wife, but there are many women. Among many women, Hongyan knows that he will definitely make a man feel heartfelt forever. They don't sit on a man when he's sick'In front of the bed, hold his hand and fulfill the obligation of never leaving.

    Men are under a lot of pressure when they work outside, and it is inevitable that they will have some emotions when they come back to listen to their wives. No matter how bad he is at expressing himself, or how much he loves his wife. Men also need a confidant to be quiet and listen to their own thoughts.

    After all, in a way, they release stress in this way.

    The wife and her own man are always glued together. Over time, there is no novelty. But confidantes don't go out of style.

    Because you can't get it. Although it is said that men are cheap, the more they want what they can't get. But this is not wishful thinking.

    Such a woman does not want to be a stumbling block to a man's marriage, but also can make a man extremely greedy.

    Wives usually bury a man's love, and when they form a family, they will give to each other and demand from each other. As a result, some of a man's potential will not be developed. Confidantes are different.

    At the very least, they don't demand anything from each other. The so-called natural talent must be useful. A man's potential can often be fully realized with the encouragement of such a confidant.

    If you are out on a business trip, your phone is out of battery. My wife can't find you, and when I come back, I was scolded for being bloody, which makes you feel down, but meeting a confidante can make you happy. They will only laugh and ask you if you are having a good time, but they will not tell you that they have called you **, and you have turned off your phone.

    That's a kind of concern, but also a kind of understanding.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. The person you have loved can be a confidante, after all, the two people are very familiar, and they also know his living habits and personality very well, if there is really no way to be a lover, you can also be a confidant. The teacher thinks it's okay, at least we have someone to talk to.

    Such friendships can usually last a long time.

    The person who has loved him can be a confidante, after all, the two people are very familiar, and they also know his living habits and personality very well. The teacher thinks it's okay, at least we have someone to talk to and celebrate. Such friendships can usually last a long time.

    But how can a person who has entered the heart do it? I'm afraid I won't be able to.

    In fact, two people are generally quite close together, and it can also be the feeling of saying nothing and guessing.

    If he wants to be a lover, he will be a lover, and if he wants to be a confidant, he will be a confidant, but what should I do. How I face the future in my heart.

    In fact, it is really difficult to do, after all, we used to be lovers, and it is very likely that we also did not do it ourselves, which can also be forgiven. Because the feelings are there.

    Does he have a girlfriend now? Or why do we want to be confidantes?

    Does it matter, I just want to know what is in it for me to let Zhengjian not be a confidant, I am just afraid that I don't have the extra heart to be a confidant to others, I look at him, but I still don't want to be forever clear and far away.

    I don't have the extra heart to take someone else, is that fair?

    If he doesn't have a girlfriend, he always wants him to change his mind, but after the remake, we express that we don't want to be confidantes, and we also want to be with him and find a way to do this thing for you.

    The disadvantage is that the teacher also understands you more after all, after talking for so long, there must be feelings for each other, and we are now selling a sedan car that has fallen in, and the feelings can't extricate themselves, if he wants to be a confidant, we don't want to accept it, and the teacher also understands you.

    I couldn't bear it at all.

    I'm afraid I won't be able to.

    In fact, the teacher also knew, and he must be reluctant, and in our case, he must not be able to do it. We still want to redeem his relationship with us.

    What kind of problems have arisen between you? Why would he want you to be his confidante?

    Can we talk to him about it, and let him make a decision and give him a certain amount of time to think about it.

    After all, it's not easy to like someone, and we also have a deep feeling with him, and the teacher believes that he will consider our ideas.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Most confidantes will eventually develop into bed partners, but the key is that if you feel that you can accept him as an egoist, you can continue. But for me as a woman, if this relationship were given to me, I would be firmly against it.

    Please. It can be infiltrated, but the relationship can become complicated, because the person you have loved can be hurt, and they may treat you as a friend rather than a lover. So, if you want to build this kind of relationship, you should first think carefully about whether you will cause harm to the other person, and whether you have the ability to bring lasting love and support to the other person.

    fell in love with a boy, said that when they met, they felt that the boy was blooming, and he couldn't let go, could he still be a confidant?

    Please. In this case, you'd better go straight to the filial piety and say it to the other party. Whether you can do it or not, it is not something that can be done unilaterally. You might as well be bold and express your intentions directly to him.

    Do you know what the other person means?

    It's clear that you have interests in him, so you have nothing to say, it doesn't matter if you don't have interests, so the relationship seems to be a confidant, I don't know what's wrong?

    Please. Please reply.

    If that's the case, I suggest that it's better for you to give up this relationship, it's a very wonderful relationship, but when it comes to interests, don't want this kind of friendship.

    Most confidantes will eventually develop into bed partners, but the key is that if you feel that you can accept him as an egoist, you can continue. But as a female wild man, if this relationship were given to me, I would be firm and would never oppose it.

    Of course, it may also be that I am too dissatisfied, you can tell me some details of the Qin family between Min and you, maybe I can more accurately analyze for you and weigh the pros and cons. <>

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be a confidant who loves you, understands you, misses you, misses you, but doesn't own you. You are the most beautiful encounter of my life. Knowing you, I realized that there is another emotion in the world, and there is another longing.

    missed the blooming season, but couldn't hold hands when the heart meets, so there is regret and helplessness, and there is also a bit of heartbeat and attachment.

    I just want to be a friend with you that you can remember, think of occasionally, and have a heart-to-heart and soul conversation. I will think of you faintly and care deeply about you, but I will not make you feel guilty or tired. Long time no see, I'll send a message to bless you.

    Asked softly, "Are you doing well?" Is everything alright?

    Light words, strong affection. Hide that concern and longing deep in my heart, so that you don't see my loneliness and sadness. I don't want you to be too burdened, I don't want you to be too difficult to face, so.

    I just want to be a friend with you that you can remember, think of occasionally, and have a heart-to-heart and soul conversation. I will think of you faintly and care deeply about you, but I will not make you feel guilty or tired. Long time no see, I'll send a message to bless you.

    Asked softly, "Are you doing well?" Is everything alright?

    Light words, strong affection. Hide that concern and longing deep in my heart, so that you don't see my loneliness and sadness.

    Be your red face, okay? When you are troubled, let me wash away your sorrows; When you are depressed, let me send you happiness. Everyone has a spiritual world that others don't know, and everyone has a desire to have someone who understands themselves, understands themselves, cares about themselves, and cares about themselves.

    But there are always many unsatisfactory things in life, and we may not be able to have so much, so we have a lot of depression, a lot of confusion, and a lot of confusion.

    We want to find a rational, gentle, affectionate, and wise person to lead us, we want to let the soul fly easily, and we want to let the long-lost emotions return. As a result, we have the so-called red face and blue face, and we have an indescribable emotion between friendship and love.

    Be your red face, okay? Some people say: A woman who can be a woman is a boutique among women.

    Although I am not a boutique woman, meeting you is a beautiful memory of my life. There are no regrets about acquaintance, no regrets about acquaintance, no regrets about encounters, let this emotion precipitate in the bottom of our hearts, and let us have this sincere emotion together.

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