What is wrong with calling parents by their names, and how do you think about calling your parents b

Chinese people have always had the custom of respecting their ancestors, and the names of their ancestors and elders cannot be called directly. This type of taboo is included in the ancestor worship customs of many ethnic groups such as Han, Oroqen, Evenki, Kazakh, Buyi, and Tibetan. The Oroqen people believe that calling their ancestors by their names is disrespectful to their ancestors, and they are afraid of angering their ancestors and causing disasters to their descendants.

For the elders, they dare not call them by their names, and they can't even tell the names of the elders to others. Otherwise, it is thought that the family will give birth to a child without joints. If there is an object with the same name as the elder, change the name of the object to a different name.

Otherwise, you will die young. No matter how Han people say or write, they avoid mentioning the names of their ancestors and elders. Sima Qian wrote "Historical Records", because of his patronymic name "Tan", so "Zhao Tan" was changed to "Zhao Tong", and "Li Tan" was changed to "Li Tong"; During the Six Dynasties, some people renamed the sycamore tree as a white iron tree in order to avoid the word "tong"; Liu Wensuo of the Qing Dynasty, because of his father's name "Yue", did not listen to "music" all his life.

It can be seen that the family has been strict in the past dynasties. Until now, it is still forbidden for children to call their elders by their names, let alone their parents' names, and to avoid words that are the same or homophonic as their elders' names. It is especially taboo that the name of the younger generation must not be the same as the name of the elder, or have homophones or homophones.

Otherwise, it is considered that disrespecting the elders is an act of "bullying the ancestors". Not only are the younger generations taboo to call their elders' names, but even among their peers, there are taboos when calling them. In interpersonal interactions, they often do not call each other by their first name out of respect for each other.

When it comes to naming children, there are also many taboos. In addition to avoiding the same words and homonyms as the names of ancestors and elders, it is also necessary to consider the fate of each other, for example, the lack of gold in the hit, and the taboo to name it with fire or the word next to the fire.

Let's do as the locals do.

The fault is your impoliteness, they are the parents who gave birth to us and raised us, and they do not respect our parents, our parents are our elders, and calling them by their names is for our peers or juniors, and parents are not, parents are the elders we should respect the most.

In Northeast dialect, it is not big or small, a large clove of garlic. Disrespect for elders.

China does not want to call parents by their first names, as foreign countries do, which is uneducated and resolutely forbidden.

The traditional Chinese habit of not calling their elders by their names is rude.

Children should respect their parents, this is the most basic, respect the old and love the young, this is the traditional Chinese culture, respect for parents at home, and respect everyone outside.

In fact, you can communicate with them, and it is better to respect each other.

It's not good to call your parents by their first names like that, unless two people call each other by their first names when they're joking, but very few people do.

Politeness is a basic virtue, students don't even have this, and they still learn a fart, and they will definitely have no interest in the future, and they are a social prodigal.

Call your parents by their first name. If it is said that it is rude to be in public.

1. All people are equal only before the law, before morality, before responsibilities and obligations, and before Dunlun and their own efforts! Parents and children are only equal in front of the law, morality, Yiwu responsibility, and Dunlun.

It is precisely because of this equality that we cannot call our parents by their first names, because to call them by their names is beyond the rights of children, violates the constraints of morality, and harms the interests of parents. It should be understood that calling parents by their names is the same as not treating them as parents, and it is equivalent to expelling our parents from their right to be parents, and we are expelling ourselves from human citizenship – because no one (of all nationalities) can call their parents by their first names.

This is called common sense, and it is the common sense of being a human being. This is not something that parents are allowed to care about or not. It is something that must be done by a person of heart.

In today's society, there are indeed some families whose fathers are not like fathers, and they play hooligans against their daughters. The son is not like the son, and he is not ashamed of being a brother to Lao Tzu, but he is proud of it, and he promotes it everywhere. But if he didn't look back, his back was poked and smashed.

Upstairs you can be an expert!! Landlord, a thousand-year-old tradition, it's not something you can get rid of... But I never think that this involves the so-called problem of disrespect! And support.

You are very rebellious, and calling your parents by their first names in China is considered impolite and uneducated, conventional, not unequal.

No, the most important thing for us as children is to respect our parents, and if you call your parents by their names, it is obviously impolite and disrespectful to your parents.

Chinese traditions, but if your parents can accept it, it's nothing.

This close friend, "my wife's parents call her by my parents' name in front of my wife" is impolite and uneducated. It is better to call the in-laws (mothers) so that the broken leaves don't feel embarrassed!

It's normal, and now there are still many families whose children don't call their parents by name.

Names are called by people, and it's normal for peers to call each other by their names, so why not?

There are three people in the family, the parents are not spoiled, and the relationship is harmonious and comfortable. Today with the male ticket, if I chat with my parents, occasionally I will call my parents by name, no malice, if angry, half-joking, will also call their parents' names, which attracts the attention of parents, so many years have passed, and the irritability that the family has not seen is not respectful.

Actually, I don't feel anything, what about me, the relationship with my dad is to miss friends, and my dad is very young, so I call him Lao Ma, and sometimes I call him by his name. But this doesn't delay the family affection of our love at all, and it's good to be with my father, so it feels like it's nothing to be named. Also, when I'm with my mother, I won't call my name, I'll shout numbly, I feel like I have to be a coquettish kind of woman hahahahahaha

And the family also lives happily, there is nothing wrong with it, and there is nothing that feels intimate. Everyone's attitude towards life is different, so it's okay.

After I got married, my mom gave my dad a nickname, that is, one word was removed from the name, which belonged to a nickname between the two of them, and then I used to call my dad that way since I could speak, including the whole family on my grandmother's side, and my dad never said anything.

My mom and I used to joke and occasionally call my mom by her name, and then my aunt would say that I wasn't rude, that I wasn't too big, that I was not too small, and that I was rude.

Calling my parents by name never happens in my home, and once I called my parents by their first name and felt like they were going to break my legs. I can only say that I can let others be happy, after all, I can't control the affairs of other people's families.

Since junior high school, I have called my father by his name, and my father has had a complaint, saying intimacy and respect at that time, which one do you want? Of course, I will have a very close relationship with my father in the future, like a friend, my grandfather has an opinion, and my father ignores his ......

1 Don't call your parents by their names, because you are their children, and they have the grace to give birth to you, and the etiquette of China for thousands of years has taught children to honor their parents.

Children all over the world call Daddy (USA: DAD) or Mom (USA: Mom)! Calling by name is rude to parents.

Call by name?

Do you not know the Father?

Don't you know Mother?

Are your parents on the same level as the passers-by on the street, so you have to call them by their first names, because they give you life, walk with you on the path of life, and never leave you.

That's why they have.

The name of the parent. Now you call it by its name.

Wouldn't it be a one-time write-off of the grace of reinvention and dullness?

I don't think it's good, after all, we are Chinese, not Westerners. The elder and the young still have to be divided. It can't be too big or small, too uneducated.

Now the post-80s and post-90s generations all call their parents by their names, and I am the same, but in front of my parents' friends, I still call my parents my parents.

You can call your parents by name with a little respect for how they gave birth to you and raised you, and you shout!

I think it's okay to call your parents by their first names (but with a minimum of respect), so that the relationship between children and their parents may be unreserved. I have a friend who is like that, and they get along very well. Many parents, always want to let their children become dragons and phoenixes, knowledgeable, but do not take into account the thoughts of the child's heart, I am also a child's mother, I hope my child has no reservations about me, just be a confidant!

If you're not afraid of other people's jokes, just call it.

This is a matter of respect, just like the honorifics in Korean dramas, what you want is an attitude, respect and orderliness;