How to tell if a guy is a gentleman or if he has a heart for himself

Boys are very gentlemanly to girls out of politeness, don't over-read them. Many girls are prone to self-indulgence, and once a man is particularly good to them, they think that the other party likes them. But in reality, people are just gentlemen.

A man who treats you as a gentleman can only mean that he is a good person, and nothing else.

Let's take a look at the characteristics of a gentleman's man.

He pays attention to hygiene, at least his nails, nose hair, and hairstyle are trimmed and neat. He is able to balance career and life, he does not complain about the status quo all the time, he rarely says, "Don't ......."Can't ......"Words like that.

If he wants to see you, wants to associate with you, he will let you know. If he doesn't want to, he'll politely let you know. He doesn't waste his time, but he will definitely pay attention to politeness.

What kind of performance will a man who really likes you have?

Take the initiative to send you home after work every night.

Some men and women at work may have to squeeze the subway, bus, or walk after work, but if there is a man who is willing to accompany you from work every day and take the initiative to send you home, no matter what way he uses, you are happy.

But if he only sends you home once in a while and doesn't usually care much about you, it means that he doesn't like you that much. Take the initiative to be very close to you in front of your friends or other friends.

Women are vanity animals, and they all hope that their boyfriends can love and spoil themselves very much, and it is best that he can tell the world that the two of you are together, and you are his girlfriend.

Therefore, if a man will take the initiative to be very nice to you in front of the friends of the two of you, and take the initiative to show affection, it actually means that he likes you very much, and if you meet such a man, you should snicker.

As long as you ask him for help, he will agree.

Usually as long as you ask a man for help, no matter what the matter is, the man will promise you, because he thinks that it is a very happy thing to be able to help you, and as long as he helps you, he will be one step closer to you. So men will promise you, as long as it is your business, he will experience ways to help you, men like you to praise him, and they also like to see you happy.

I am willing to spend money on you, within the scope of my ability, to meet your needs as much as possible, because I want to make you happy! You must know that money is the most important thing for everyone, and if he is in front of you and does not skimp on his money, he must feel that you are an important person. After a boy has a heart girl, he should give his love for other people to his girlfriend, because love is selfish, if you give it to other girls, you will give your girlfriend less no matter what, so since you love it, you should love it alone, don't love it, it will hurt your girlfriend, after having a girlfriend, he should keep his distance from other girls.

People are jealous, if he values his girlfriend, he will stay away from other people, instead of being overflowing with sympathy, giving others the privileges that should have been given to his girlfriend, if he can't even tell the difference, he can consider changing someone, which proves that his own thoughts are not pure, that is, scum. No matter how big a man is usually, if you really deal with the problem, your mind will shock you! Therefore, if a man is good to you or decides to be good to you, it is the result of countless times of careful consideration, whether you are worth it or not, this value is whether you can meet his needs, such as being able to give birth, having a good family background, having a stable job, high income, and finally appearance!

Then the man will marry you, live a life, work hard, and give you most of the income!

Love is mutually giving, the two good can be one, in order to be called good love, he is good to you, you must also be good to him, so it is a good love. Only requiring one party to be good to the other party cannot constitute good love. Good love is the result of the mutual efforts of both parties.

If you want a man to be good to you, you must first be yourself, first do a good job of you love him, be good to him, he will repay you with the same good, if you unilaterally only ask men to be good to you, you can't get what you want, everything in the world has a cause and effect relationship, can you get something without paying?

If he treats you differently than he treats others, it means that he is really good to you, and if he treats you the same as he treats others, it means that he treats everyone of them well.

You can look at the attitude of this boy, and you can also look at a performance of his relationship with friends of the opposite sex, which is the same performance for everyone, that is, good for everyone.

It can be distinguished by the attitude of this boy, if he treats himself more specially, whether he treats others indifferently, is good to himself.

The man is a gentleman, I think the most common thing in general social situations is when dating a lady, the man should try not to be late, and should find a little bit, so that when the boy waits for the girl, the girl may feel that the boy is very personable.

In addition, for example, when having dinner or eating, the man takes the initiative to rub the stool for the woman, and let the girl do it after she is ready, or there are some etiquette for entering the door, including letting the girl go in first and enter later, and when getting out of the elevator, these small actions are generally speaking, which will make the woman feel that the man is very gentlemanly.

When getting on and off the bus, the door will be opened for the girl.

3. When I go to dinner, I will open the door for the girl, and then I will help the girl drag the chair out.

4. Even if you look at someone you don't know, you will smile politely to show your friendliness.

5. Be polite to the service staff and use polite language.

6. When they get together at a party, they will take the initiative to ask to send the girls home.

7. When you hit **, you will never hang up first**.

8. Will take the initiative to help girls twist heavy things.

9. Will listen carefully to the other party's speech.

You must learn to observe each other's eyes, anyway, the eyes are the most unable to hide feelings; The eyes are the windows of the soul, and this sentence is still very true, when you like someone, look at him with a lot of love. Occasionally, when they look at each other, they will feel that there are stars in each other's eyes, and if they are not careful, the whole person will fall into it.

will ask you out in advance on days like weekends; Anyway, I happen to feel that almost all of the people who go out on weekends must be couples, especially when it is so hot in summer, if you agree to go out, it can only mean that it is true love. If the person is planning to ask you out for the weekend for weeks, you should be careful, he may be interested in you.

See if he often takes the initiative to contact you; Generally speaking, when a boy is interested in a girl, he will always be tempted to find opportunities to contact you from various channels, such as WeChat or something, and often chat with a person will also talk about feelings, this is true, a few filial piety changes every girl should have such an experience.

When playing games, I will definitely tell you in advance, and I will not disappear for no reason and make you angry; It should be very common for boys to play lol.,They play games but their brothers don't recognize them.,At this time, you can see if a boy likes you.,If it's interesting to you.,It's not even to say hello to you directly.,Just slipped away for a few hours without seeing anyone.,And will carefully explain to you what you're going to do.。

When two people are together, they will inquire about your preferences and pay attention to some of your little habits; Once a guy has a good impression of you, he will be eager to enter your life and understand your personal preferences, and when you may feel very casual, he will learn about your personal little habits, and you should pay attention to it at this time.

The gentlemanly demeanor doesn't care if it's someone you like, but it naturally reveals itself. Hard packaging can't be pretended.

Let's just say that! Of course, you must have a gentlemanly demeanor in the face of the girl you like! Otherwise, what if the girl ** looks up to him?

Divide people. There is not only one type of boy, but also girls.

Not necessarily, some will bully her to get her attention.

Hypocrisy: Sometimes it's a very hypocritical sign.

I don't believe this behavior is a manifestation of any liking.

I'm a man after all.

And this kind of behavior.

I think it's a sign of hypocrisy.

The aim is to make you feel good about him.

Then it's time to do something to you.

And then after a buffer period, a period of love, and then it's time to break up.

He thinks that girl has an extraordinary temperament.

It is very likely that I like it (in order to increase the girl's favorability).

Some are naturally polite.

But helping girls carry things, pouring water, and opening the door is what boys should do, do you want thin girls to lift heavy objects?? '''''

Of course, otherwise how would I be talking so much here !

There are only hypocrites and villains in the world.

It can be seen that you are a little girl, your thoughts are very simple, why should you care about other people's opinions and ideas, don't try to understand others, some people are destined to be incomprehensible, what you can do is to be yourself, make yourself mature, don't try to change others with your own ideas.