Statement to the debate on Is a white lie wrong, right or wrong .

Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even to others, causing losses to the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may use many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying will become a habit, and lying, it will be like a snowball, and it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients, so that they can cooperate with the doctors, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, telling the truth to his relatives who are already sick? Is this an undermine to integrity?

Argument against the opposite: The benefits of white lies undermine trust: White lies can be divinely acted, and they can destroy trusting relationships between people.

Even if a lie is well-intentioned, once it is debunked, people may feel deceived and disappointed. Discourage Authentic Communication: White lies can hinder authentic and open communication.

If people are accustomed to lying, they may shy away from facing real situations and problems, leading to a decrease in the quality of communication. Building unhealthy relationships: Relationships based on lies can be unhealthy and unstable.

Truth and honesty are the cornerstones of building a healthy relationship, and lies can weaken the connection between people. Misinformation: A white lie can lead to misinformation.

Despite the uproar, if a decision or action is made based on a lie, it can have undesirable consequences. Self-deception: Telling white lies can lead people to deceive themselves.

While it may appear to be for the benefit of others on the surface, it may actually be to cover up your true feelings or problems. Ethical issues: White lies involve moral considerations.

Some people believe that lying is unethical for whatever reason. Misleading others: White lies can lead to misleading judgments and actions.

If people rely on information from lies to make decisions, it can lead to wrong results. Failure to solve the underlying problem: White lies only cover up the problem temporarily and do not really solve the underlying problem.

This can lead to problems accumulating and eventually exploding.

The white lie of the opposite side is beautiful, and this kind of lie is not deception or ill intentions. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and it has the power of magic, without any impurity. A white lie is a lie with good intentions, a nourishment for life, and a source of faith.

It ignites the flame of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world!! White lies can make people find a reason to face life with laughter. The white lie is to endow human beings with spirituality, embody the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, and involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

A white lie can save a terminally ill patient from a dead end and give someone a glimmer of hope. White lies can restore self-confidence and sometimes save a person who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown. A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others.

As we all know, contradictions are divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in and special and is distinguished from universality. According to the nature of its white lie, it is not malicious, but based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the malicious lie is the act of seeking benefits for the liar, using strong profit and weak reason, using others only as a means, and not hesitating to harm others. The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject.

And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity. A white lie can ignite the flame of hope, and who's to say it's not good.

There should be white lies in life:

I think deception is certainly a lie, and a lie is not necessarily a deception. There are two kinds of lies: malicious and benign. Lying is an instinct of human beings, and as for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie it is.

Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be deception, and a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, taking others as targets with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality, and not hesitating to harm others, which is a kind of behavior that harms others and benefits. No matter how disguised a person is, no matter how he uses his rhetoric, how he racks his brains to put a white hat on his malicious lies, the lies he tells are all malicious and purposeful. But this is not the case with white lies, which are motivated by good intentions and have the purpose and purpose of defending the interests of others.

So, I don't think a white lie is a hindrance to integrity.

A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

But today, when we talk about "lies", there is also a definite term - well-intentioned, and with the addition of this qualifier, the nature of lies has also undergone a fundamental change.

If it's for yourself or others to stop suffering or grief, what's the harm in lying more?

A lie from a parent makes the faces of children who are not deeply involved in the world like flowers, shining brightly; A lie from the teacher makes the hesitant students no longer confused and grow better; A lie from the doctor makes the frightened patient go from destruction to new ......Isn't there such a saying: white lies are beautiful.

Honesty represents honesty and trustworthiness, while white lies represent lies that are beneficial to others (for the good of others). Honesty and white lies have nothing to do with each other because they represent different meanings. There is no conflict between the two, because the world is full of lies, and it is just a matter of whether the lie is good or bad.

If it's good, why don't we support it? White lies are good for all of us, and sometimes the embarrassment can be eliminated with white lies. However, while integrity is supported by each of us, there are times when it is not as good as a white lie.

Think about it, if a doctor tells a dying patient the fact that he is very sick, assuming that his psychological capacity is not very strong, will he still live a long life? Will he still fight for the rest of his life? No, it won't!

He always thinks that he is sure to be finished, and this is the most appropriate time to use white lies!