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Material and love are not two concepts, just like comparing a poke of water with a cart of cotton flowers, which is more? It's not that no one can compare the results by weight. I think it's safe to focus on that young man.
Remember the lyrics of Huangmei Opera "Although the cold kiln is broken, it can shelter the wind and rain", right? The era when only flying with wings regardless of living conditions has become a story. As for love, it is not just about me, but also about having a material foundation and a considerable sense of responsibility, and once the marriage is registered, there will be relevant legal responsibilities.
And so on, before the decision is made, it is undoubtedly wise to make a reasonable choice that is in line with the wishes of relatives and friends.
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For women, the most valuable thing in life is not a bulging money bag, but a good man who loves you and you love, and of course being rich is not a bad thing. We should admit that most family conflicts, in the final analysis, are caused by money. A couple living across the street from me quarreled all day long, that is, the wife thought that her husband earned little money and had to supplement the family, and their hearts were unbalanced.
And marrying a rich man, this problem does not exist. There's nothing wrong with pursuing a rich material life, so when you meet a good man with money (note that --- is a "good man"), you must cherish it.
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Now is the society, I think you have also seen, the development is simply instantaneous, very soon, according to the reality, this society, can you live without money? Can it survive? What's more, now it's a society of comparison, and it's also a society that loves vanity, and there is no material, okay?
Human beings are all greedy groups, can there be love without money? No, who wants to marry a poor bastard, that is, after less than a year of marriage, the marriage will be over.
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Would you marry love, or would you marry money?
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When facing marriage, only material things, or only love are unreliable, and different people will have different choices. Whether you choose love or materialism, as long as you don't regret it, it's worth it. Love and material things have always been a topic of debate between young men and women, and some people say that two people should marry on the basis of love, otherwise a relationship will not be happy no matter how much material it has.
Some people also say that it is not enough for two people to get married and only love, life is very realistic, and you can't live with just one mouth and sweet words.
Everyone has a different view of love and materialism, but we must admit that people's pursuit of material things is much higher than the pursuit of love. Objectively speaking, both love and material things are very important, love without material things is bad, and material things without love are also bad.
However, the chances of having both are slim, but which is more important depends on how you choose. Your choices determine the answer you want, for example, some people are very simple and only have love in their eyes, and they will work together with the person they like to end up with material things. Some people are selfish and only think about material things, and if it happens that both parties have love, it will also be the icing on the cake.
In short, choosing love or material things, as long as you don't regret it, even if it doesn't turn out well, it's worth it. However, what makes people feel the most is that you have love, and then you are dissatisfied with the status quo, and you start to ask for material things. If you have material things and then you are dissatisfied with the status quo, you start to want love.
There will be many ups and downs in a person's life. Only the person who can accompany you through joys and sorrows and never give up is the person who is truly worthy of your life to protect. However, people nowadays are impetuous, but few people can really do it.
In the face of difficulties and dangers, we are all thinking about ourselves, and we are thinking about love or not. Therefore, it is really not easy to share weal and sorrow, it tests human nature and feelings.
Nowadays, love seems to have become the most expensive luxury for young people, and it is said that feelings cannot be measured by money, but on the road to happiness, money is everywhere, which is very helpless.
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I will choose material things, because material things can determine the quality of a person's life, so I feel that I will choose material things.
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I will choose love because I think love is very important to everyone and it is a very important thing in our lives.
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I think love should be chosen. Because love is a luxury, it is not easy for everyone to encounter, so as long as we encounter love, we must cherish it and never give up.
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