How to deal with those hateful villains, how to deal with those insidious villains

How to deal with the villains around you?

When a dog bites you, do you bite a dog back?

Villain, what is a villain? Since he is a villain, it may be more difficult to influence him than to ascend to the sky, brother, you must understand a few facts:

1.The villain is profit-oriented (in fact, everyone is almost the same, but the villain attaches too much importance to the immediate interests);

2.When the villain's own interests are damaged, he can do whatever it takes, completely disregard morality, and resort to despicable means;

3.Usually villains are very good at forming gangs, and this kind of people are generally very good at stammering people; If you are too abrupt and threatened, they will definitely "share the same hatred";

4.Relatively informal companies (especially traditional companies) are prone to form a villain atmosphere; In order to keep their leadership positions, some leaders deliberately use villains to suppress decent and capable people;

5.Some works on power, such as the study of thick black and the general study of information and governance, have also contributed to the bureaucratic style of some enterprises.

Here are a few tips for dealing with villains::

1.If you are a gentleman, the advice is - refuse to participate in the war, you will basically lose as soon as you enter the war, or you will lose both, the villain does not have the same ambition as you, he takes a fancy to what is in front of him;

2.If you value the immediate interests too much, you will want to get rid of him, but it is usually difficult, and you will be very hurt, if you can't let go of the immediate interests, you will never compromise, and the villain will succumb to the "lesser";

3.It is inevitable to encounter villains in the workplace, almost everywhere, you have to be mentally prepared, but the best way is to improve yourself, treat everyone and everything with your own high demeanor, and keep a low profile at the same time;

4.It is very important to be low-key and pretend to be stupid, and to be virtuous is to be virtuous, and not to be arrogant, to be sharp, and to be gentlemen and different. Give more for yourself and share the credit and benefits with others. Competence training is the most important.

5.Psychological construction: Villains are retrograde bodhisattvas. Keep your goals in mind and don't give up on your pursuits.

It's not easy to work part-time, but you have to regulate your emotions by yourself, don't fall for the villain and mess up; In the workplace, it is the basic principle to be emotionally unemotional about people and things.

Finally, I would like to say that if you can start a business, start a business.

I wish you happiness and happiness!

I have encountered a sinister villain, and the villain has no shame, so he can't tolerate it, and he must fight wits and courage. First of all, usually the appearance is casual; Secondly, unite the people around you and establish your image; Third, find an opportunity, collect evidence, and send it to the big leaders. Fourth, seize the opportunity for him to bully you, point at his nose and scold him in front of all his colleagues, speak quickly, have sufficient evidence, and don't give him a chance to fight back.

That's what I did, forcing the leader of this sinister villain to transfer him away. His leader was embarrassed.

Teach you a trick Don't touch him, don't do it with him It's the same as it's okay You should be as good as you can with him once you have a chance I said the chance is a chance to get him up The chance that he will never be able to turn over Don't be soft, him to the bottomless abyss at once

If you don't have that opportunity, just be on guard with other people, and use him indirectly to do what you want to do

If you are not completely sure, it is better not to shoot As soon as you make a move, it means that multiple enemies do not shoot and other places Beware of the point, not only one less enemy, but also one more tool to use

When I met the villain, I didn't want to get him, but I thought, how to use him, some things the villain does very beautifully, the villain is similar to a puppy, and he can give you an advertisement for you

Everything is two-sided, medicine can cure or kill

It is to be more scheming than her, to figure out her next move and behavior, and to restrain her before you. Maximize benefits. And she is your boss after all, and you have to be tactful and subtle when you compete with her, which is more ironic than her.

There is also the need to be good at taking advantage of the rights and interests of workers, the law. She said that you countrymen don't know grass, so you asked, "Yo, why are you more uneducated than countrymen?" Don't be too plain, so that she thinks you're afraid of her, you can dress whatever you want, and she taunts you, and you say, "What's wrong, isn't it good-looking?"

I don't have much capital, just a little bit young" I'm only a 16-year-old boy, I may be relatively simple, I hope to help you a little!

Landlord, that's your problem, don't think about him all the time. Just thinking about other things while listening to his criticism, my homeroom teacher was very disgusted. You can't deal with this kind of person, or you'll be the one who suffers.

As long as you turn a blind eye, you will feel less angry and have hope in life. Your friends should be nice to you, too, right? It's not worth being angry with people like this by chatting with friends or something.

Chinese society is like this, and some of the so-called descendants of Yan and Huang have become the descendants of the Yan "Emperor". You don't need to hate him, God's punishment for him is his behavior and mentality, right? Sooner or later, such people will be rewarded.

The characteristics of villains are: telling right and wrong and sowing discord. And all of them are experts who like to snoop on other people's privacy.

In order to achieve a certain goal, they almost always adopt a strategy of provocation, and the villain's greatest wish is nothing more than that everyone in the world blames and doubts each other, but he is the only one who can control the overall situation, and be able to control the situation left and right. Therefore, juggling right and wrong and sowing discord are the most common tactics used by villains.

Moreover, betrayal and betrayal are also one of the villain's usual skills, when you have a long talk with the villain, your heartfelt words are the handle in the eyes of the villain, and your privacy is the villain's betrayal of your capital. Therefore, in front of the villain, it is best to keep your mouth shut, otherwise, you will have to bear the day when your heartfelt words and privacy are processed in the world. Note:

It is after processing!

The ancients often advised us to stay away from villains, and said, "It is better to offend ten gentlemen than to offend a villain." I disagree with this statement. This is an injustice to the good guys, a toleration to the bad guys, and a blasphemy against justice.

Cracking down on villains is everyone's responsibility, and we can't face the villain's turmoil with a mentality that doesn't concern us and hangs high, and anyone has a time when they commit villains. Only by letting the villain live in the environment, without any foothold, is exposed, and is **, so that all good people can see their ugly faces, this is an effective way to curb the villain.

I remember before going to the sea, I worked in the school, once in the cafeteria I exposed a villain's bad behavior in public, so angry that he was like thunder, hehe, I was very calm at the time, and he said, you have two ways, one is to explain your behavior to everyone, but I guess you don't dare, because your behavior is not visible, and second, if you want, we can also use our fists to speak. The kid thought about it, threw down the lunch box and left. Thinking about it now, I also feel a little pitiful for him, after all, he didn't directly hurt me at the time, but I was still young at that time, and I always couldn't control myself when I encountered this kind of thing.

The praise of the villain is the protection of himself, because for the villain, he always likes to expose the shortcomings of others, and exposing the shortcomings of others is equivalent to wanting to elevate himself, so we should not be stingy with his mouth, praising him makes him happy, and he has less chance of harming himself.

When the villain talks to you, you have to be calm, don't be provoked, and don't scold the villain, just like that, listen to the villain's words without slander, without refutation, like a gourd, no matter how much he has the ability to take you.

Jesus said, "When someone strikes you on the left cheek, you stretch out your right cheek for him to strike." We are to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute you. ”

How to deal with an insidious coworker? We will always meet 1 people who have big mouths, can't hide things in their hearts, or talk and act very aggressively, such people seem to be unlikable in the workplace, but in fact, they can only be regarded as pseudo-villains at best.

To deal with the insidious villain, you must not only use thunderbolt methods, but also have the wisdom to convince the other party.

What you are going to do is more insidious than what he is doing ...

More scoundrels than him! Deal with him!

More insidious than her. and other opportunities.

Don't get into the circle of villains.

Sympathize with you and despise her. It is recommended that you spend some money online and hire two small workers, lj her.

The more friends you can be, the better.

This may help you in the future.

One more person, one more road! But there is only one thing to know.

Two will do! As you said, each of us has been there.

Just like you, you feel lost! Disappointed! And.

Sad! But they may regret it now.

So if I were you, I'd be the same as before.

But there is a distance from them.

Don't get too close!

Don't fall out with them either!

Hope you are happy.

Put yourself at ease, ignore them, and remember: the people you hate aren't worth your time getting angry. Even if you are bullied every day, there is no need to be angry. It's not worth it.

When you meet someone who is not ladylike, everyone will meet him and care about him, he is angry, he is not proud, because his goal has been achieved, if you are not happy, he will be happy So what about it With a normal heart, he is nothing great, if he hurts you once, you will see through him once and do not dump him. Look at what he's dragging I also hate that kind of hypocrisy, especially especially hateful.

Remember to adopt it.

Ignore them anymore、Look at them with a blind attitude、Interpret、Actually, I'm very happy、

Hehe: I often come into contact with people like that. And they can come into contact, but the point stops, lukewarm. Don't offend them.

If it's your boss, it's a bit difficult to do, so change jobs and departments. Or try to do your part. Anyone who meets these people.

Stay away. It's the so-called isolating them.

We must stay away from them, we must always be wary of them, deal less with them, if we are not careful, they will be planted in their hands, once we see through their conspiracy, we must have the courage to expose them, let them show their true form, so that more people know how insidious they are, and no longer fall for them.

Respond to all changes with the same, do nothing to him or her, and don't be afraid of him or him being insidious to you if you do something worthy of your heart.

It is certain that such people should not have deep friendships, but we must be careful to beware, the so-called defense of others is indispensable, and this kind of people are even more so. But be careful, don't offend!

Try to stay away and never offend.

It's that you're going to be more insidious than him. Just take more precautions and pay more attention.

I have the most headache for that kind of person, I am often harmed by that kind of person, and I can't help it.

It is impossible to prevent good or bad from just a thought.

1. Eli makes a traitor.

It is said that the treacherous villain is used by us, Meng Weijun, who was known as one of the "Four Gentlemen" during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, raised a lot of diners under his door, and he didn't care whether the people who came were good or bad, he cared about their food and accommodation.

Among his diners, there were two treacherous villains with chickens and dogs, and everyone else looked down on them and objected to Meng Weijun taking them in.

But Meng Yanjun treated them equally, so that these two chicken and dog thieves were grateful to Meng Yanjun, and later Meng Yanjun was imprisoned by King Lu Zhao, and these two chicken and dog thieves who were once the most despised by everyone actually rescued Meng Yanjun.

As long as those who ask for something, they will have the opportunity to be used by us; What I am most afraid of is the kind of person who has no desire and no desire, and can't move anything, and it is the most difficult to control.

2. Prevent rape with wisdom.

In the process of getting along with treacherous villains, you must keep an extra eye on them.

Treacherous villains tend to do things by unscrupulous means, as long as they can achieve their goals, they will do whatever it takes, one thing in front of them and another thing behind their backs, which is unguardable.

In the TV series "You and My Alluring Time", Ning Weikai, the president of Xinbaorui, is such a person, talking and laughing with you on the surface, but there is no bottom line behind the scenes, for the success of the mall, all means are used, and when dealing with this kind of person, you can't just listen to what he says, nor can you see what he does on the surface, you have to pay more attention.

3. Tolerate adultery with forbearance.

For treacherous villains, there must be patience to endure humiliation.

They tend to hide very deeply, rich in the city, even if they do something bad, it is not so obvious, you have to attack first, even if you tear your face, you don't know where to use your strength, it's like a fist on cotton.

Therefore, it is better to have the patience to endure humiliation, they can do everything, if they are not able to win with one move, it is better to remain tolerant for the time being.

Maybe that mad dog will come and bite you, do you want to get down and bite him in revenge?

Knowing the nature of the villain, it only takes some skills to deal with the villain. If the villain is far away, he will be resentful, and if he is close, he will not be inferior. Therefore, greet the villain frequently and talk less; Do not take the initiative to communicate, but do not refuse to communicate; Not deep friendship, but not broken friendship; Favors can be given, but villains cannot be taken advantage of.

Don't enter the circle of villains, and don't let villains be as deep as their own realm and heart. Don't help, don't block, don't dissuade, don't participate, don't discuss, let it develop, let it fend for itself.

Bacteria are easy to multiply, villains are easy to get ambitions, villains are ambitious, they may do big bad things, bad things, don't underestimate villains.

One is to try not to offend the villain. In life, we would rather offend the gentleman than the villain. Because villains can't afford to offend. The villain is especially good at pondering others, and dares to pay any price for the smallest grievances.

The third is to treat villains in the way of gentlemen. When you have to confront the villain, you should stick to the way of a gentleman. When dealing with villains who hurt themselves, they must not treat others in the same way as others.

Fourth, stay away from villains. First of all, staying away from villains can effectively avoid being taken advantage of by villains. The villain is the best at chasing after the wind and playing with right and wrong.

Fifth, adjust your mentality. It is not difficult to treat villains with bad intentions to be harsh and harsh on them, but it is difficult not to hate them; It is not difficult to treat a gentleman of high moral character with respect to them, but it is difficult to follow proper etiquette.

The reason why the villain is called a villain is because you don't know his or her thinking logic at all, and they can bite you for no reason, so treat mad dog-level characters with respect, keep little contact, do not communicate deeply, take a step back, open the sea and the sky, and believe that madness is also a kind of personality, although it is not worthy of respect, but it has its own reason for existence.