How can I avoid arguing or getting angry with the people in my dorm?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Angry because you care, this sentence can also be used here, if you have a good relationship, there is no super no quarrel, if you have a bad relationship, just treat it as if it doesn't exist, and coexist peacefully!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Daily contact with roommates, it is inevitable to have grinding, mainly your own mentality, you pay too much attention to these will be very tiring, in fact, I think that it is good to go with the flow and treat others sincerely.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This may be a question of honesty or not, honest people will not provoke the spearhead, because the other party will take into account your feelings, you will not say anything that makes you unhappy, and your personal affairs will not be spread nonsense. People who are not honest, pay less attention, communicate less, the sky is so big, it is not necessary to have a good relationship with everyone, and real friends will not quarrel and get angry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, it is not easy for everyone to get together in a dormitory, at first, because of different families from different regions, everyone's habits and lives will be somewhat different. What should be understood should be understood, what should be forgiven should be tolerated, and if you don't go to the conflict head-on, the communication will be well resolved afterwards! Cherish your fate now, when you graduate, you will miss your roommate who used to be in the same dormitory.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Communicate with your roommates as much as possible to increase your relationship. At the same time, you also have to learn how to tell the right time about her influence on the dormitory photo, of course, it depends on your speaking skills.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Silence is not the solution, just say what you have, a hundred years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation can be slept together. There is nothing that cannot be solved, just say it, integrate into the collective, respect each other, students always have quality, I believe that language communication and kind actions can change everything. Just be yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Learn to get along with your classmates, and it's best to understand what people in the same dormitory like and don't like, so that you can grasp it better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are a person who is accustomed to escaping, you will not be able to see the eyes, and change the dormitory;

    If you are a person who has a problem that must be solved, you should convince people with reason, move with emotion, and understand with reason.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pay attention to getting along with each other, treat others with virtue, respect the differences between others and yourself, and generally get along very well, and there will be no problems.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Strangers don't quarrel with strangers.

    If you distance yourself from them and go it alone, there will naturally be no disputes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't care too much about what they say about you, be a man and be patient, don't quarrel with irrational people, hurt others and hurt yourself!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Learn to empathize, wait for your roommate's attitude to be gentle, and don't be so short-tempered!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, the most important thing is to set up a place for their sake. To understand them, learn to be tolerant and understanding.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Be calm about things. Don't be impulsive when you have a problem. A lot of times it's good for everyone to take a step.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's good to ignore them, and to each one his own.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take a step back and be tolerant...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want others to be soft, you must first be soft.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a knife on the head of the word forbearance, and out of sight is clear.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First, we should keep a sense of proportion and pay attention to our distance. As the saying goes: distance produces beauty.

    One or two friends with whom you have a good relationship will do. But even if the relationship is good, you must maintain a certain amount of politeness and politeness. You can't just say something hurtful just because you have a good relationship.

    If you really don't like a classmate and can't speak, then learn to adjust your inner sense of distance. Don't shake your face, it's rude.

    Second, stay calm and sit down and talk. When two people have a conflict, they are easy to be impulsive and do irreparable things, and the relationship between roommates breaks down, and it will be particularly embarrassing to look up and see each other in the future. So when there is a conflict, calm down first, sit down and talk.

    First of all, you have to calm the atmosphere, when you take a step back, the other person will naturally take a step back, and then talk about things. Emphasize the importance of communication, remind everyone to communicate in a timely manner if there is a problem, and don't care too much about what is said.

    Third, formulate corresponding rules. Some of the conflicts in the dormitory are caused by the lack of rules. For example, in the dormitory, diligent roommates often clean up, while lazy roommates don't clean much. After a long time, diligent roommates will naturally be unbalanced.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Inform the Schuser dormitory administrator or teacher.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. After all, we have to be together for several years, so the relationship still has to be maintained.

    What to do if you quarrel with someone in the dormitory.

    After all, we have to be together for several years, so the relationship still has to be maintained.

    I quarreled with the people in the dormitory, that is, today we went out together, when I came back, I walked slowly, and then she took the room card and opened the door and went in directly, I walked slowly, and then I didn't enter the door, she closed the door, the dormitory was just the two of us, I was very angry, because many times before, I had not entered the door, she closed the door without permission, and I didn't have a room card, if I wanted to, I opened it myself, and then let him open the door for me, he was impatient, really speechless. So today I got angry, she said that it was the wind that blew, but there was no wind from the window at that time, and in the end no one paid attention to anyone.

    Why don't you have a room key?

    You can ask him for a key card.

    The hotel we stayed in only had one room card, we were twin rooms.

    Hotel? Are you a company or a school?

    School. Can't you change dormitories?

    If you can't stand it, you can talk to the teacher.

    It shouldn't be possible, it's all over, and I have to maintain a good attitude in the acquired art exam.

    That's right. Don't let him influence you.

    Or maybe he's deliberately influencing your mindset.

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