For those who are cautious, how to deal with it

Less contact, less contact, less talking.

Summary. My dear, first of all, on your question, when dealing with a cautious person, you must first learn to avoid it, and secondly, you must learn to be vigilant, and the other is to treat others in the way of others, and not to be overly careful, keep a proper distance from him, and guard against him.

How to deal with people with careful eyes.

My dear, first of all, on your question, when dealing with a cautious person, you must first learn to avoid it, and secondly, you must learn to be vigilant, and the other is to treat others in the way of others, and not to be overly careful, keep a proper distance from him, and guard against him.

In fact, it takes some tips to treat a person with a careful eye, for such a person, he often likes to play with his eyes, but if we are not this type, or we don't like him at all, in this case we can choose to stay away from him.

It is for such a cautious person, if it does not cause a lot of damage in essence, we don't have to worry too much about it at this time, if we care too much, we will find that we are very tired, you know, what kind of person he is, we should learn to keep a distance, don't get too close, and don't joke with him at will, as long as you keep your distance, but you must guard against him. Accidentally he made a mistake behind his back.

1. Sensitive, suspicious and grudgeful.

Such a person may be psychologically dark, think about everything very badly, think about the worst, a little wrong, unsatisfactory, immediately associate all kinds of bad possibilities, and then take their suspicions as evidence, and their suspicions as facts.

2. You can't suffer a loss.

There is a good saying, two people live a life, you can't encounter anything to understand, to get to the end, it's rare to be confused and forgetful, after all, there are too many unsatisfactory things, you have to get by, it's almost enough.

But a cautious man is always good at calculating, and he can't hide anything in his heart, no matter what he encounters, he must understand it, even when he sleeps, he holds back and endures. It seems that if I don't ask you for an explanation, I can't swallow the breath I hold on.

3. The subjective consciousness is too strong.

What does it feel like? There is no empathy, too good at misunderstanding people, and still immersed in their own world and unable to extricate themselves, no matter what happens, their own understanding prevails. It's like if you say something and it doesn't mean that, he thinks it means it and doesn't listen to your explanation.

Therefore, in some trivial matters, a cautious man is very good at misunderstanding people, and what words will immediately turn bad in his ears.

You say you're too busy, but he can hear it as an accusation; When you take the initiative to leave him food, he counts you down and asks him to eat leftovers; When he didn't keep food, he felt that he was redundant in this house.

4. Lack of responsibility and no energy.

When he encounters a little something, he feels that the sky is falling, he just feels that it is over, he doesn't know what to do, he can't accept a little loss and setback, and his mentality is very easy**. If you don't have anything in your heart, you can't do it naturally, it's no big deal, just have the courage to take it.

Especially in the face of life's changes, setbacks and difficulties, the whole person is disheartened, and if you experience a failure, you may never recover.

Very good at magnifying, obviously a little thing, after he said it became a big thing.

1) I care a lot about what other people think.

Cautious people have two characteristics: one is vindictive and obsessed with hatred, and the other is sensitive, will magnify some small things, and is easy to think cranky.

In fact, the essence behind it is still unconfident and excessive narcissism (the two are not contradictory), so a cautious person often cares very much about what others think of him, and even deliberately tests other people's opinions.

If a person is overly concerned about the opinions of others, his or her psychology must be unhealthy.

2) Easy to be jealous.

Jealousy and cautious eyes complement each other: because their hearts are not broad, they are easy to be jealous of others, and jealousy can provide motivation for "doing things".

And jealous people are actually easy to find, although they will not admit that they are jealous of others, but there will be many manifestations in daily life:

For example, they are not good at others, like to slander excellent people, slander their achievements, and even malicious competition that will harm others and themselves.

3) Likes to stir up right and wrong.

Cautious people are often good at juggling right and wrong, and it can even be said that they like to provoke right and wrong and like to see "chaos".

This is *** brought about by the careful-eyed personality, and it is difficult to change. If you look closely at the cautious people around you, you will find that what they like most is to fan the flames and sow discord.

So, if a person meets these characteristics, even if they don't show the characteristics of a cautious eye, you have to be vigilant.

People who hold grudges are very cautious.

It is obvious and natural that people who hold grudges should not associate with each other. Being with someone who likes to hold grudges is like having a time bomb around you, and you don't know when you're going to provoke him, you don't know what will offend him, and you don't know when he's going to have a seizure. You will be inexplicably retaliated by him at some inexplicable time.

Moreover, people who hold grudges will essentially take revenge, and the degree of revenge is often too extreme, and it will be hysterical, making people unable to eat and walking around, and it will also make people feel infinitely afraid. Therefore, "can't be provoked, can hide" is the best way to contact this kind of person.

Nor are snobbish people to associate with

Snobbish people, in theory, should belong to villains. In his eyes, there is only power. It is his nature and strength to tend to be inflammatory, to climb the dragon and to attach to the phoenix, to meet the will, and to flatter; In his heart, there are only interests, that is, only money and things, and things that are not beneficial to himself, he will always hide far away; As soon as there was a good thing to be gained, he immediately squeezed his head out and got in.

The grass on the wall is his secret to life, and it is his usual trick to see the wind and rudder. He has no principles, only interests, and believes that "there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests".

Therefore, "having milk is a mother" is his highest philosophy of life. He is indifferent to his family, his friendship is very shallow, and he is unbearable, and in the face of interests, except for himself, everything else is not a blow to Chunhe, and he can easily abandon him at any time. Therefore, such people, unreliable, can not be delivered.

How to get along with someone with a careful eye? 1.Without violating the principle, go along with other wishes.

It is a person who must deal with him at work, and without violating the company's system and the interests of public friends and friends, he will follow his will and not entangle with him. 2.Be tolerant of yourself.

In the case of the loss of their own interests, they can be tolerant as much as possible, after all, colleagues are looking down and not looking up, and they will suffer a little loss if they suffer a loss, and they will be more tolerant. 3.Try to avoid suspicion.

When doing things, you should try to avoid his suspicions, you need to notify him of your tracks, notify him, don't need to tell him, you can do it above board. 4.Let time run in.

If you are jealous because of your excellence, then let time run in. Or when there is a contradiction and it can't be explained, let time dilute all this.

5.It is recommended to be cautious, always remind yourself to learn to be tolerant of others, to be calm and rational in case of trouble, to learn to empathize, and when you can't control yourself, count 10 numbers silently in your heart, count 10 numbers, and then decide whether to send them or not. Communicate with others.

When necessary, you can go to the psychology department to do a psychological counseling and **.