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Summary. I shouldn't like it, because the three views are inconsistent.

If a girl likes a boy, but that boy will only make her angry and do something she doesn't agree with, will the girl still like that boy?

I shouldn't like it, because the three views are inconsistent.

Such a man will also have machismo, and if they are together, there will be a lot of disagreements and contradictions.

If this girl is still together, it means that this girl can tolerate his behavior, does not fully consider all aspects of his future life, and is carried away by love, such a boy is very stubborn.

If the boy will correct it, will the girl give it a chance?

If the boy will correct it, he can be given a chance.

Because no one is perfect, you can continue to get along with yourself if you know your shortcomings and actively transform them.

If he loves this girl very much, he is also very willing to change.

Love is to accompany you to do whatever you want.

It's supposed to be love!

If she just stays on liking, she will only keep the feeling of liking in her heart. Only if she falls in love with you, will she be so emotionally rich and exposed!

This is a copy of a well-educated girl, she does this, is a show of respect for the other party, and at the same time, she also says her own opinion, dao

Very smart. When you don't like each other, you won't reason with them, and you just avoid them. People with brains will think carefully about love. So, I think the other person just likes you at the moment.

Like this kind of caution shows that I am afraid that boys will not like themselves, and love is to be brave enough to be yourself.

Maybe I've already liked each other.

Be careful, I care about your feelings, and I still value you.

It's not that he doesn't like you anymore, it's that he's already enjoying it and needs a break. Ha ha.

You have to learn to cherish everything, and you can just play with your temper occasionally, and often no one can stand it.

Maybe I just don't want to be disgusted by girls.

Indeed, when the heart is tired, it is finished.

Probably, there's no schedule.

1.First of all, she has a crush on this boy, believe in him, otherwise she wouldn't go out alone with him.

2.It should be said that this is during the ambiguous period, she began to care about the boy's feelings, and would explain to him in a timely manner, not wanting to be misunderstood.

3.Maybe she has the desire to have a further relationship with him, but she is still in the investigation period and wants to get to know him slowly in the ambiguity. Decide her final attitude towards him.

But this period is particularly painful for boys, because if they don't perform well, they may be slowly alienated by the other party until they finally break off contact. If you really feel good about him and like her, pay special attention.

There is also a principle in psychology called the "90 10" principle, what does it mean? For example, why is your mood bad today? Why quarrel?

You quarrel with me, I think it must be your reason? It's your responsibility, you make me anxious, you make me angry. We think that "I'm mad at me", we must say that the other party is wrong, and think that it must be the other party that causes my emotions, who should be responsible for your emotions?

In fact, it is you, not the other person, who causes your emotions, it is your views and attitudes towards the matter that determine and influence your emotions. For example, if you have a fight with the other person today and think that this incident caused my emotional reaction, but in fact, 90% of the previous events caused your reaction, not the current 10%, and the past experience accounted for 90% of the reason.

Interpersonal relationships are actually two such forces: one is that I am safe and I trust, so I am peaceful, I accept, I understand, and I tolerate, because I am not safe enough, I don't believe in myself enough, so I am defensive, because I am unwilling to accept that I am not good. Why can't we look at this objectively?

Why are you angry? Many times it is the current situation that triggers your original experience, that is, overlapping with the original experience, if this person has a peaceful personality, basically has no frustration experience, is often praised and affirms a better attitude, belongs to the kind of safe person, it is easier to treat things hospitable, if the other party belongs to the kind of person who has always been criticized by his parents a lot, looked down on by others, and is not confident, such a person When you say that he is not good, what impression does he overlap? "I'm being criticized again", "I'm making mistakes again", "He doesn't like me", this is his automatic thinking.

So his first reaction was "you think I'm bad", but what's in his heart? "I'm not good enough myself", overlapping some bad experiences from the past.

So what is our basic understanding of conflict? The conflict is not because you are bad, but because you pull his trigger, and the conflict shows the need for communication. You need to understand his past and know why he is the way he is.