My girlfriend told me about her past, and my girlfriend wanted to know my past, how should I deal wi

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your girlfriend is a very responsible person, she doesn't want to hide anything from you, I think she thinks her past will only feel fair if she lets you know about it, (she should be your first love) This shows that she cares about you, silly boy!

    Take out a little man's courage to come out, accept her past, don't run away, escape can't solve the problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a simple question, why is it so complicated?

    Love is selfish, there are not many opportunities, lost, maybe no longer have, since we are together, cherish the present and look at the future! If you love her, apologize to her! Be brave!

    If you really regret saying what she said, then the end is not what you want! Go ahead! I wish you all happiness!

    Finally, one more sentence: "Do you know what makes the love of two people know forever?" That is. tolerant"!Let's take a good look at the meaning of these two words!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Girls need to listen, and you just have to listen, and every now and then a "um" indicates that you are listening. It's a woman's need, she just needs someone to listen to her, she's not trying to make you anything, nothing else. If you can get past this hurdle, your relationship will go to the next level.

    But when you're in a bad mood, you can say, I really can't listen today, can you tell me another day?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She wants to give herself to you completely, both physically and mentally.

    She thinks that confessing to you and not hiding it is a sign of loving you.

    Hint to her if you don't like to hear it, but don't quarrel with her.

    Girls are used to love.

    If you really like her, don't worry about it.

    Tell her that you will cherish her.

    Tell her, you help her hide these things in her heart, and we don't tell him about ordinary people!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should listen to it, if she wants to say it, Zhengming doesn't want to lie to you, if you don't listen, it's not that she doesn't care about your feelings, but that you don't understand her heart. She's also for your good, she's a good girl, please help her, you share it with her. That way she'll think you understand her feelings.

    There won't be so many heart problems, do you love her? If you love her, you will listen to her story.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1 She loves you very much.

    2 Let you know that it is to give you a wake-up call in advance, afraid that you will treat her badly in the future.

    3 Since you really don't care, it doesn't hurt to listen to it, don't worry about it.

    4 She will feel better when she says it, For the sake of her love for you, as long as you believe that you really love, then take the courage not to avoid it.

    5 Don't hurt people Few girls are willing to talk about their past.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe she's fragile and hurt, and just wants to tell you not to hurt her and misunderstand her. Even if you don't want to hear it, listen to her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have to be serious about this kind of woman, just have a playful attitude.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not good to hide it, but when she has already taken the initiative to say it. I don't think I can abandon her anymore. Unless you know it first, you can still choose,

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I want you to know because I love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There's a song called "Listen to My Girlfriend Tell the Story of the Past."

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Women who have a past are not clean.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    ...It's right not to listen, you can say things like this, no matter what you were before, but now you're mine, it used to be okay with me, but now you're 100% me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your girlfriend is always asking about her past, then you should take a moment to talk about your past with your girlfriend. Because in the process of falling in love, there is no way to ignore a problem in the past, if you always choose to escape, then it will leave a bad impression on your girlfriend. Therefore, at this time, it is better to choose the right way to communicate with your girlfriend, and then let your girlfriend completely dispel such a knot.

    Girls are because they care.

    The reason why girls always ask about the past is because girls care about this boy very much, if the boy chooses to be angry at this time, then it is easy to hurt this girl. Therefore, boys must remember that they must not lose their temper with their girlfriends casually, and do not think that girls are wrong to do this. The reason why girls ask about the past is because girls care more, and at this time, they will make three chapters with their girlfriends and tell their girlfriends about their past.

    Good communication.

    Before chatting with your girlfriend, you should get vaccinated with your girlfriend and tell your girl that no matter what she hears, she should not be angry, and only in this way can she communicate better. And when talking to your girlfriend, there is no need to tell all the details, because telling all the details means that you have not completely forgotten, and if you have a very happy expression when you recall, then the girl will also feel very uncomfortable.

    Don't dwell on the past.

    So at this time, it only needs to be a story retelling, you just need to explain your past to your girlfriend in the right way, and there is no need to be overly obsessed with the past. Because at this time, if you are obsessed with the past, then it is easy to hurt your girlfriend, so you must know how to deal with such problems in the right way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since he wants to know you, he can simply say something, but sensitive words, it's better not to talk to her. Maybe she will become jealous, and then get angry and quarrel, and finally affect the relationship between you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The girl takes the initiative to tell you about her previous relationship experience, this is the woman worships you in her heart, believes in you, has feelings for you, at this time the boy and the girl will agree to whatever request the girl makes, because she has nothing to say to you, regards you as a confidant, and also hints that she loves you.

    If a girl tells you all about her past experiences as a boy without reservation, it means that she is completely defenseless against you in her heart, and the Lord is a completely reliable person for you, but don't think that she must be in love with you, it is possible that she just treats you as a male girlfriend.

    If you are a boy, she takes the initiative to say these things to you, on the one hand, it shows that she trusts you very much, takes the initiative to open up, hopes that you understand her past, and more importantly, likes you, sees your reaction, and wants to have a deep relationship with you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Generally speaking, revealing privacy to others means a kind of trust, but it is also a test of prudence.

    Therefore, if you feel that the relationship between you is wild, you can choose not to listen to Minghuai's shouting. Also, exchange privacy with each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I will choose to accept her past experiences, because if you really like this person, you will not shout at Zheng Rent Bureau to care about her past, I think you will only think about how to live with her in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I will choose to accept it, because what I like is her now, not her in the past, the past is already in the past, and there is no need to worry about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will continue to like her, I like that she will not dislike her previous experiences, and I will go on with her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. If you bring it up to her, she will have a big fight with you, or she will think she is dirty and sorry for you.

    I found out about my girlfriend's past + I told her + what kind of consequences it was.

    Pro: Good evening, this needs to see if it's a good past or a bad past.

    Not good. Particularly dirty. I can't stand it anymore. Drank a lot of alcohol.

    If you bring it up to her, she will have a big fight with you, or she will think she is dirty and sorry for you.

    But neither that ending is good.

    I want to call her ** and tell her about it.

    I can't help it, really.

    Dear, if you still want to talk to her.

    Then please think carefully about whether you want to say it or not.

    Ah Chen's suggestion is not to say.

    Shouldn't I say it's the best?

    Because you don't say it's just that you're sad alone, you say that both of you are sad.

    It's already broken up. It was she who brought up the breakup. Then she came to me.

    I deleted her. I want to redeem it. I suddenly met her best friend today.

    It's disgusting to listen to this. It's very uncomfortable. I can't stand this feeling.

    I want to give her a ** and scold her.

    Dear, if so, then go for it.

    What are the consequences.

    You've all broken up and won't be together again.

    The consequence is that she is even more ruthless to you.

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