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Anonymous users2024-02-06There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge. Don't think too much, there must be a certain number in the twilight, there must be a cause and effect, there must be a beginning and an end, don't be nervous, don't worry! Believe in yourself, and there will be a solution.
There are some things that cannot be forced. Let him go!! The sky can't fall, even if it falls, there are tall ones!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05From the moment you wake up every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is a thing of the past and cannot be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now! When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, like your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step! Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is yourself, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, you can always have a goal, don't measure yourself by other people's standards!
When you encounter unfair comments from others, let others talk about them as long as they don't hurt your personal dignity. After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough! What others say is serious to you, and what you say is wrong You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!
The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, make time to do what you love to do, such as listening to music, doing sports, etc. Hope you are happy every day!
Good mood every day! 1. Go out for a walk 2. Drink some wine (at home or in a safe place) 3. Go to the mall to push a shopping cart for a big purchase (spending money can be a happy mood) 4. Find a good friend to chat, that friend must not be your boyfriend (girl) friend. Find a close friend so that you can say what you want to say, and your friend will solve it for you 5. If you like lively places, go to bars and song halls to drink and sing and go crazy jumping.
6. Cry 7. Cover your head to sleep and relieve your troubles 8. Find something soft such as a sandbag and beat it vigorously to vent the displeasure in your heart. I wish you a little bit of happiness, people are happy, and unhappy are too, so why not spend every day happily.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04People are extroverted, rarely vipassana, and don't know where our own hearts are heading. For ourselves, whether our body was me when we were young, or whether it was me when we grew up, or whether it was me when we were old, why our own body kept changing, and which one really belonged to us. None of them is an unchangeable eternal existence, and everything is like this, and it is only for us to use it temporarily to wrap our own bodies, and it does not belong to us for a long time.
And we are always annoyed by him and good for him. What does he give back to us, physical pain, aging. Being hesitant and sad is more than worth the loss.
In this case, I asked, is there anything that can exist for a long time? What is there that can be immortal? How can we enjoy life in peace, rather than the oppression that life brings?
We don't think about problems other than ourselves, lingering in troubles, and we don't get out of it all the time. The outward pursuit of the mind can temporarily attain happiness, but this happiness is not satisfaction, and when a problem is solved, new problems will arise without interruption. Therefore, when doing things, you can try to do it well, but knowing that things that are not eternal and immortal existences, your mind can see through them, and you will not cling to them.
Things are done the same, but there are fewer worries. Only when people can live in peace and have few troubles can they really start themselves, and they will not go through life in vain.
Life is a lot of bitterness in the world, less bitterness and less happiness, and long and short happiness. Happy happy happy Suffering, pain, worry, worry, sadness, boredom, emptiness, loneliness, etc. In addition, the body is painful, old, sick and dead, the heart is bitter and can't beg, love is parting, resentment will be etc.
The body is impermanent, the body is me when I am a child, the body is me when I grow up, and the body is me when I gradually age. The cells of the body are always in a process of birth and death. There is no eternal body, that is, there is no object of attachment.
The mind is impermanent, one moment east, one moment west, one moment south, one moment north, one moment happy, one moment sad, no unchanging heart, no eternal source of trouble, no true self. Suffering from impermanence, thinking about happiness when you are happy is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal, so that you can let go of the pain and happiness.
I would tell myself, "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" How can you succeed casually without experiencing failure? "It's not terrible to encounter setbacks, but it's terrible to lose confidence and fighting spirit.
After all, there must be a reason why I agreed to date in the first place! He wants to have a boyfriend friend relationship with him because of what attracts me! Therefore, whether it is the relationship proposed by himself or the relationship proposed by him, once he makes up his mind to associate with him, he is serious! <> >>>More
No fart, Cangfang doesn't need exclusive treasures.
Experience Everyone has wonders around them, and mine is no exception. Getting along with the strange is also a science, the focus is to communicate with people more, find the shining points of the strange body, if the people around you are also excluded from the wonderful, and often in your ear to say how the strange is how, you will also be affected by it. >>>More
When the landlord raised this question, he actually knew very well that he should check out and refund, or make up the balance to buy these two options, and now the developer is the emperor, and their contract buyers basically can't make changes, do you like to buy or not. If the funds do not allow it, it is recommended to refund it, and a friend of mine is the same, although it is better to lose some money, it is better than borrowing money and not being driven crazy every day, or losing more money if you can't borrow money later.