It turns out that it really hurts when you know that the person you like has a significant other

If it's just this question, then I can say that you should pursue your true love, if you are really, really loving him and her. However, those who have experienced love should know very well that love is not so simple But I just hope that all kind people can have their true love and can live a very happy and happy life. If the person you love is really happy now, since you love him and her, go and sincerely bless him and her, after all, you want him and her to be happy, don't you?

If he or she is not happy in love, you should be brave enough to pursue him and her, tell him that she will make her happy! If you love her, you will want her to be truly happy, even if you need your own withdrawal to fulfill it, love is not just selfish possession. Therefore, you and him can be happy, because a person with true love will get happiness from him.

Of course, tell that when you have a suitor, telling your partner as soon as possible will not only make your partner feel that you are honest, but also kill the signs from the beginning and avoid falling into the abyss step by step! At the same time, you can also gain the trust of your partner! If you have a suitor but choose not to tell your partner, then even if you are afraid that your partner will quarrel with you and in order to avoid unnecessary trouble, but you must know that paper can't hold the fire, and one day it will be discovered by your partner, even if you have not had any cross-border contact with others, but your partner's trust in you will definitely be reduced and you will often quarrel with each other, and the final outcome is likely to be the end of the relationship!

In the best time of love, when we are open to each other and put our hearts in our hearts, aren't we now a lot less communicative and trusting than before? While we only believe in ourselves, we also trust others the most.

The longer they get along, the more obvious the invisible film between the two becomes; In the end, when the film splits the earth and becomes a moat, it is very difficult for us to remedy. Since we were able to open our hearts and communicate with our other half, share our joys and troubles, and share our recent stories, then now that we have loved for so long, we should be brave enough to tell our other half everything.

Even if there are other suitors, since they have made such a choice, they must believe in each other's feelings, and believe in the other half they love so deeply, and don't be self-righteous to carry this sharp blade on their backs. Take the recently popular TV series "Thirty Only" as an example. Gu Jia's husband Xu Huanshan, a business trip to inspect the amusement park, met the amusement park in charge of the reception of the staff Lin Youyou, the two sides have a kind of inexplicable tacit understanding, at the beginning Xu Huanshan felt that Lin Youyou's feelings for him were not so simple, he made a fatal mistake, that is, he chose to solve it himself, and did not choose to tell Gu Jia at the first time, although in the process he once expressed his attitude with Lin Youyou and was resolute, but in the end he still couldn't withstand Lin Youyou's WeChat bombardment again and again, In the end, I still cheated!

If Xu Huanshan told Gu Jia such a thing from the beginning, then according to Gu Jia's person, there should be no chance! Xu Huanshan will not be the last to make trouble with both people and money! Now that two people have established a relationship, they should be honest with each other.

Including the fact that someone pursues themselves. If you don't tell the other half, then this matter will become a hidden danger in the hearts of two people, which will lead to every time there is a little conflict in the future, you will take this matter as an example, and always use the most ugly words to hurt each other's hearts when quarreling, and you will not choose to say anything, then this matter will become the most commonly mentioned thing.

I think this kind of thing should be dealt with by yourself first, don't tell the other half easily, on the one hand, if you don't take into account his feelings, he will be sad, on the other hand, this kind of thing The other half can't help you anything, it's more up to you.

Now that you already have a significant other, it must not be easy for you to get to where you are today, and if you tell him, it is tantamount to abandoning him and choosing another person, which is irresponsible and selfish.

Although it is inevitable to like someone, you must have your own responsibility for the other half, whether it is a man or a woman, you should find a way to solve the problem of liking others as soon as possible, don't let the other party worry, and give the other party a sense of security. Hope.

Generally, I won't tell my other half, for fear of causing unnecessary misunderstandings, but I will definitely not let my other half down.

Ride a donkey to find a horse and pedal two boats. This is not desirable. Now that there is already a significant other. It's about being loyal to the other person. Such a heart ape. It's better to separate as soon as possible. It's not love that's dirty, it's our generation.

I was not born, and I was old.

You hate me for being late, and I hate you for being early.

These four sentences can fully explain my feelings when I know that the person I like already has a significant other.

Actually, this mood is very fucked.

Obviously, I like one person very, very much, but the other party has a other half. This means that you don't have a chance. Do you want to pray for an early divorce?

If you think so, you don't really like each other, you're just trying to satisfy your desire to possess.

Although I know that I can only keep this feeling in my heart, because of this matter, can you still shout all over the world? This grievance can only be borne by oneself, and the sincere love of others cannot help. Can you still find someone else to help you ruin the other person's marriage?

Let's put it down, although I also know that I and the other party are in a state of "lovers can't, friends are unwilling", but what else? I think it's better to choose to take a step back and become friends, otherwise something unpleasant really happens, and if the last two people can only be strangers, I will still feel uncomfortable in my heart.

No one can understand whether it is right or wrong in emotional matters, but you and the other party are inseparable.

It's like a story I once read about a man who was in love with a woman for several years, and that woman left for some reason and married another person. When the man was annoyed, a fairy-like figure appeared. After listening to the man's complaints, the fairy showed him his previous life, it turned out that when the woman died on the side of the road in the previous life, the man felt too cruel when he saw it, so he covered the woman with a dress, and then the man left.

After a while, another man passed by. Then he dug a pit for the woman and buried it.

I'm sure many people have seen a lot of emotional stories, maybe from the perspective of a bystander. Then when something happens to you, you will feel a lot of unwillingness, how can you be so unlucky, and so on.

In fact, if you really like each other very much, then just look at each other, and watch each other be happy. It's also a good choice for two people to become friends, don't make this matter too stiff. Because it's not nice to say, now that this marriage is also divorced, maybe the other party has an emotional rift and then divorced, don't you still have a chance to become a regular?

It's just that this probability is not high...