I wonder if my boyfriend really wants to be with me or if he pities me?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Two broken hearts can no longer go back to the past.

    What kind of mistake did you make? Would you use the word forgiveness? Why is there any trouble?

    It's good to know these yourself.

    In short, it is difficult to recover from the water, maintain a normal relationship with friends, and within a year, if it is still very flat, it means that the fate is over, don't force it.

    Pick up your heart, with this experience, be careful not to appear again next time, soothe your heart, and find your true family again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have a child, he starts to think about your future, as such a man he must be anxious, so you should put away your temper, talk to him calmly, and care about him. He loves you deeply, don't think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he is with you, don't care if he wants to be with you or pity you, if you like him, try to hold it in the palm of your hand, he is really with you to cherish it, if it is to pity you, you will try to make him fall in love with you, happiness is for yourself, not for others. Now that he is your boyfriend, you have to treat him well, let him experience your goodness, and let him have to be you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    From all these facts, it can be felt that this actor has a sense of responsibility and is understandably lacking in ability, but he has done a good job and has basically reached the level of "admiration". The heroine, who has not grown up yet, is completely childlike and innocent and cute, and is not very suitable for being a mother, and cannot be said to have no sense of responsibility at all, at least she doesn't know, and she doesn't know how to do it. After encountering difficulties, the heroine basically will not share the burden for the hero, and after the matter has passed, the hero is tired, and there is still a trace of "fear".

    The bell must be tied to the bell, God willing, they are all good people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel like you don't love him anymore, because his willfulness has taken away your love. Your personality is not suitable, you always feel that you have not found a shoulder to rely on, but a pacifier man, who knows to have a little temper at every turn, so you lose confidence in your love.

    I have also had a long-distance relationship, I know how you feel, that is, you are sad or unhappy, but you can't get the comfort of the person you love for the first time, but you still have to take care of the person you love all the time, and you are very tired after a long time.

    I've been talking to that first love for five years, and the last bit of love is gone, and I feel nauseous when I kiss me, but it still hurts when I break up, and I feel that I can't live after separation.

    When you are numb to your feelings, you are on the verge of collapse when you treat your feelings, but maybe you are still very kind in your heart, and you feel that your boyfriend is sorry for you, and you don't want to be the bad guy who broke up ruthlessly. You are afraid that you will be infamous with a negative heart, and you are afraid that you will regret it if you separate, because you also used your sincerity in this relationship at the beginning, and you also have a lot of good memories in common.

    It is recommended that you don't fall in love for too long, the relationship will fade after a long time, and every relationship will have a bottleneck period. Think about it yourself, no one can make decisions about your life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are tired and don't want to be with him because you are not happy when you are with him. Your feelings for him have been accumulated over the past two years, but they are no longer love. Separation will be heart-wrenching, because you are not used to it, familiar with a person in your own life, whether he is good or bad, and then suddenly lose, you will not be used to it will be sad.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's so simple, don't be together if you don't want to1!! It's actually nice to have the other sisters pick up a ready-made one.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe you're not attractive enough to him. A woman should constantly enrich herself, both internally and externally, and make your loved ones feel that you are always reading and renewing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boys and girls are different, you can't always define him when chasing you, when chasing you, he is obedient to you, chasing a lot of things are different, and with the gradual change of time, the angle of looking at the problem, the depth of understanding, the difference in habits and hobbies...Many, many things are not as good as they could be, and that's normal.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You find something that both people enjoy doing. Singing, hiking, etc.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone has growing pains, just be yourself, cranky wood is useful, let it be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason why your relationship is like this is because you are extremely immature, irrational and unintelligent. You rely on him to love you, play with a child's temper, mess with him, be willful, and toss him physically and mentally exhausted. Does he love you?

    If you were him, a girl tossed like this every day, would you have to hide away no matter how much you love her? To be freed.

    You are still struggling with the question of whether he loves you or not, or even whether to break up, and you are not aware of your deepest problems at all. Why can those who love you leave you? Why is he so sorry for you but so far away from you?

    When he gives you love, he gives you the most vulnerable and soft side of himself, but you use this warm bed to hurt him fiercely, and continue to be willful and immature, completely ignoring your boyfriend's feelings.

    You hurt the heart of a man who loves you, don't rely on him to love you so much, you have to know that feelings can't stand the toss, people are tired to a certain extent will make up their minds to leave you, at that time, you have no place to cry, you will regret everything you have done, then you will be able to mature a step, but how painful is the price to pay? Instead of waking up at that time, why not take advantage of everything now and keep this love going? Think about your own mistakes and give love a sweetness in the right way.

    Wishing you happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Didn't you say that you want to grow up and be independent, just let yourself grow up quietly and then face it. It's yours that can't run away. It's not that you can't force it. Now change your own bad habits. It's not very big yet. Everything was in time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If he can't adapt or tolerate your willfulness, you will break up even if you say yes.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Tell him that to love you is to love everything about you, including your bad temper.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Visually it's him waiting for you to change.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are you sure the reason for your breakup was because of your willfulness and bad temper? Find your own ** and then go and correct it slowly, everything else will go naturally, but just read these things you wrote, it seems that he still has feelings for you. Hope you do well!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I still love you, just waiting for you to mature a little.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then you can change it and talk to him directly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If the person you like is good enough, it's normal to have a rival in love.

    Then it depends on whether you are good enough to let your heart be in you.

    If you are good enough, show your excellence, and if you are not good enough, try to be good to them and strive to be moved.

    When the "rival in love" appears, we must first know ourselves and the other in order to "win all battles". If you only know yourself and don't understand each other, you will only be busy; Only understand each other, not yourself, obviously lack self-confidence. In general, your "rival in love" is basically an order of magnitude from yourself.

    Because its conditions are too high, you will never fall in love with your girlfriend; If the conditions are too low, your girlfriend will not fall in love with him. This is the basic principle of the balance of all things. Since you are the same as him in front of your girlfriend, then, you should not be hotter with your girlfriend, otherwise, your girlfriend will feel worth doubled, which is an extremely dangerous signal.

    At this time, only if you remain condescending in words and behavior, your girlfriend will think that you are better than your "love rival".

    At the same time, suddenly reduce the number of contacts, or even simply not see her for a while. At the same time, attention should be paid to maintaining a certain amount of contact, including ** way. At this time, the woman will reflect on what she did wrong in some aspects, what offended you, and so on.

    The more self-blame the woman has, the more her feelings are inclined. Note that refusing to meet altogether will only hasten the woman's death.

    In addition, during this period, the man may also wish to "moderately" increase normal interactions with other women, but he must grasp the scale. Jealousy is a human weakness, it exists in men, but also in women, and if you let your lover see you with other girls once or twice, she will be angry. Being angry proves that she cares about you, and on the other hand, it also proves that you can attract other girls, and that you are no less attractive than her, and that a competitive woman in turn throws herself into the battle against your "rival in love", and sticks to her position, so that the man can take advantage of the fisherman's advantage, and achieve the ultimate goal.

    Good luck.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    ...It depends on whether they want to be with you or not.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on whether people really want to be with you, and how sure you are that you can give her happiness? Think it through before you decide.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to be together, you can chase it, but it's just a boyfriend, and you're not married. As long as you're good enough, she can see it.

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