My family strongly objected to me being with my boyfriend, and they were all going to cut ties with

Hold on. I'm sticking with you. Have time to take him to meet your parents.

Let them see how good he is. And reason with your parents. They always want their child to be happy, so why wouldn't they want to be happy with him?

The words of the parents are not without reason. You have to work hard with your boyfriend, you have to let people see his progress, see that you can have a good future, and the family can rest assured that you handed it over to him?

Have you talked to your good friends about this?

I really want to give you an idea, but I can't get to know this person.

I think it's ......Your future husband is a prerequisite for being good to you, and it's a must. There's nothing to cherish about it.

Compared to your conditions, your boyfriend's conditions are indeed unsatisfactory, and parents must not want their proud children to find a person who is not the right person, which is understandable. But this is just a matter of external face and the like, the person who really wants to have contact with your boyfriend is you, as long as you think he is worthy of you to live with him for the rest of your life, you should insist. As for your parents' side, maybe your choice will make the relationship between you worse, but there is no lifelong enmity between parents and children, as long as you persist, they will compromise.

Beauty, it's time to be content, I still can't ask for it, since you think he's so good, what do you care, happiness is fought for by yourself, and as far as you are concerned, your real feeling is that he is really good to you, and you love him very much, tell you, young people don't have a house much, but as long as he loves you, and is willing to pay for you like that, two people will have anything after working together, but a real feeling is a thousand years to cultivate, cherish it! My boyfriend didn't have anything either, but I followed him without complaint for almost four years.

I think you should have a good conversation with your parents. Because people change, change does not necessarily get worse, and one day your boyfriend becomes a Bill. Gaici, didn't your parents cry to death?

On the other hand, you can ask your parents, what is the point of living an unhappy life with you as a rich man all day long (to put it bluntly, noisy and noisy)? It seems that your family is still more traditional. Besides, you have to trust your boyfriend.

Work with your parents to face your boyfriend's future changes and help him. Don't want this love because of your parents. That's a shame indeed.

.It's pretty much the same as me. I don't like my partner at home.

But I'm holding on. Do you like it? Don't worry about the rest, it's with you for the rest of your life, not with your parents. But don't go overboard and know that you have pity for the hearts of parents all over the world.

Marriage matters are all up to you, and there is no gap between rich and poor, tall and short, age, and love in love. Everyone is equal. If you really love someone, just go with him, you can elope, and come back when you have a child, it's okay, then your parents will forgive you, after all, you really love each other, your parents will understand, they oppose it for your future material life, not for your spiritual life, love is really great, love bravely once, after paying, there will be a return, and in the future your parents will understand your decision today.

True love is hard to find, and people who truly love you are not so easy to find.

Like you, I'm worried about this question, how are you doing with him now?

This sister, although I don't know enough about your situation, but judging from what you said, I feel my own happiness, go for it yourself, be brave, I support you to be with your boyfriend! I'm sure your parents will understand with your efforts!

You can find a marriage, if you really like him. Just get married, and touch your parents with your hands.

Let's elope. May those who love each other always be together.

There are still such parents??? Ay!!!

What should I do if my parents don't approve of me being with my boyfriend and even want to cut ties with me? Young people need the consent of their parents to enter the palace of marriage, but not all love can be blessed by their parents, and sometimes they will encounter opposition from their parents. In this case, just do the following.

1.I haven't been in love for a long time, and I know the reason for my parents' opposition, so I calm down with my boyfriend. There is love at first sight in love, and there are some young boys and girls who don't meet often, just by looking at their appearance, the relationship is determined.

At this time, take it back to your parents. Parents talk to boys, and they use their own experiences to look at boys. If they think he is unreliable, they prevent their daughters from associating with him.

Girls don't want to quarrel with their parents, they also have to think about what their parents say. In this case, it is best to let the girl and her boyfriend calm down for a while, think carefully about the gap between you, and then decide whether to break up or not.

2.You've been together for a long time and know your boyfriend very well, so you find a way to get your parents to approve of it. You've been in love with your boyfriend for a long time.

You know each other well, but you've been hiding it from your parents. It depends on the reason for the opposition of the parents. If it's because of poor family conditions, then you and your boyfriend should show your future plans and let your parents see his sincerity and determination.

If you're not a not-so-steady parent or a money-based parent, you'll give your boyfriend a chance to perform. You work together to give your parents hope, and they will agree.

3.Parents strongly oppose distant marriage, if the relationship is not very deep, it is better to break up. The girl and her boyfriend's house are far apart, but the girl thinks that getting married is not a problem, but her parents disagree.

Don't think that parents will take care of several people when they are older, but they are afraid that their daughter will be bullied by their in-laws. When you are in love, men will always talk about it, but if you are really married, no one can guarantee that you will be good for a lifetime. What should I do if I am far away from my mother's home and wronged?

No matter how developed the transportation is, far water can't save the near fire. Girls who want to marry far away, don't be carried away by love. If your parents strongly disagree, I will consider the problems you will face in the future.

If the relationship is not very deep, you should break up.

In the face of such a situation, you should communicate rationally with your parents, and you should also let your parents understand the advantages of your boyfriend, and also let your boyfriend show himself in front of your parents, so that your parents can accept your boyfriend.

Hello, your parents don't agree that you and your boyfriend are together, that is, they don't like your boyfriend, you can mediate while you are a middleman to change their opinion of your boyfriend. On the other hand, you should also let your boyfriend work hard to improve himself, so that your parents can see his strengths and see your determination to be together. I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life

Questions. My boyfriend's parents didn't object to us being together, but I was afraid that my own parents wouldn't approve of us being together.

In fact, as long as you truly love each other, your parents will generally not interfere too much now.

You should communicate with your parents well, and you also need to talk to your parents about some of the advantages of your boyfriend and friend, so that your parents will be willing to be together.

Parents should be given correct guidance, and they should also listen to their opinions, and they must learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and never go their own way. It is also necessary to think repeatedly before making decisions.

Hello, because love and family broke off relations, I don't think it's worth it. I believe that most girls also feel that they are not worth it, but there will always be some people whose IQ will drop when they are in love. There are even times when he will hurt the relationship between himself and his parents because of another person, and I believe that he should regret it after a long time, but at that time it should have made his parents sad.

And I don't know how others are, anyway, in my opinion, in fact, love is not so reliable. Maybe when you're in love, you feel like he's all you have, and you think he's even more important in your life than your parents.

But in fact, that's just what you think when you're in love, once you have some conflicts, at that time you may feel that you have no one around you to confide in, and even sometimes you even abandon your family affection, and even your parents may no longer want to protect you. I think that if you regret it at that time, it will be the most fatal, because at that time you have lost your love, and maybe even the family relationship with your parents will be lost. I feel that if I regret it at that time, I will really have nothing.

So at all times, you have to keep yourself sane.

You can love the person you like, but you have to know that the status of your parents is something that no one can shake. Because if you have any conflicts with the people around you in the future, you will find that there is no choice behind you, and the only people who support you are your parents. Others, even girlfriends and people you like, they won't necessarily be able to do it.

I have also seen some people who broke off their relationship with their family for love, and many people were accusing her at that time, saying that she was a white-eyed wolf, and her parents raised him for so long, and finally broke off the relationship with her parents because of a man.

But some people say that this is for love, which is actually understandable, but within five or six years, that person came back, and even came to his parents to apologize, saying that he had done wrong and was sorry for his parents. I don't know exactly how it will be resolved. But I only know that at least his youth in those years was delayed, and he also had such a big conflict with his parents, which made the villagers feel that he was very ashamed.

So if you can really do this for love, it's quite incomprehensible. I don't know what other people think, anyway, I don't think it's worth it, because your relationship with anyone, whether it's love or friendship, is not as good as the relationship with your own parents.

It's not worth it, the love of parents is selfless, no matter what, they will always love you, boyfriend's love is not eternal, maybe one day if you don't love, you won't love! Besides, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will think about you, and will never let you cut off the relationship with your parents for him, if he really loves you, he will try all kinds of ways to make your parents accept you together, instead of needing you to cut off the relationship with your parents in order to be with him! This is not responsible for himself, and he does not want to be responsible for you!

Personally, I think it's certainly not worth it! Your family has cared for you for more than ten years, and how much effort has been spent for you! It's not worth it at all for you to turn your face with your relatives for the sake of a man, your boyfriend may break up with you and your husband may divorce you, but your parents will always love you!

Asked a question but my family disagreed because of his family's bad style, and my boyfriend and I were fine.

In this case, you can slowly change your family's perspective in the future, after all, his family is family, and he is him.

Ask the village, there is a lot of gossip, if I am with him, my family will not contact me, is it worth it for me to do this.

When my aunt used to get married, my grandmother also disagreed, and the contact was cut off a few years ago, but as time passed, I slowly accepted it, because my family always loved you.

The question is that we say that his family has a low threshold, his mother is from another place, and then his uncle can't marry a wife or anything.

Ignore the opinions of others, if you firmly believe that he is good and self-motivated, it will always impress one day.

Question: Should I tell my boyfriend about it?

There is no need to talk to him, it will increase the burden on his heart.

It's not worth it, you can sit down with your parents and have a good talk and figure out what is the reason for their such opposition. Is it because I don't want you to be too far away from home, or just because I don't like that man, and then think about it.

There are many men, and there is only one parent. You can choose to persist for the sake of love, and your parents will eventually understand. But it's not worth it for you to fall out with your parents for the sake of a man, because you can't be sure if he will always be with you.

And when you really go to the north with him, then you still can't escape one thing, that is: I have cut off relations with my parents for you, why don't you treat me well. This will be an important point that overwhelms your feelings.

Whether it's worth it or not depends on your mood, some give up your boyfriend for your family, and some give up your family for your boyfriend, in fact, they are all two choices.

1. But some people choose to live a lonely life or give up everything. I don't have to regret the choice, but I still regret it later, although I regret it, but things are outdated. So it's worth it to see if you're in the mood.

It's not worth it, you have to communicate well with your parents, you have to understand why they don't agree, your parents are experienced, they see people more accurately than you, you broke off the relationship with your parents for your boyfriend, and you can be very sure that you will be happy with him in the future.