There is no relationship to be together, there is love but not necessarily together, love is nothing

It can only mean that it cannot be spoken.

In the world's feelings, it is naturally a good thing for the two to be happy, but if it is only one-sided, don't try, otherwise you can only suffer yourself.

Because, the twisted melon is really not sweet.

I've seen a joke:

The girl confessed to the boy, saying that she liked him very much, but the boy didn't like the girl, and directly told the other party that the twisted melon was not sweet.

He originally thought that the girl would retreat, but he didn't expect the girl to say that whether the melon is sweet or not is another matter, as long as he can unscrew the melon.

Of course, this is just a joke, in reality, such feelings really can't be wanted, and it will only make each other's lives more painful.

Many people say that it is not important that the two have no love at the beginning, and they can be cultivated slowly, but this is really wrong, since there is no love at the beginning, it is completely impossible to cultivate.

Even if you make compromises, the final result may be separation, so why start in the first place? In the world's feelings, it is naturally a good thing for the two to be happy, but if it is only one-sided, don't try, otherwise you can only suffer yourself.

If once in married life, the husband and wife have no normal communication now, it means that there is no emotion now, and a marriage like this should also choose to let go, because there is no communication, so it is like a stranger, although living under the same roof, it is still very embarrassing to meet.

How long does a marriage last if there is no love?

1. A marriage without love, to be honest, cannot last for a long time. Because there is no love between the two parties, there is no normal communication, and they don't know how to accommodate when they encounter things, so there will be many problems and contradictions in the marriage, and when the problem is ignited, it will be out of control, and then choose to divorce.

2. In addition, there is no love that cannot be supported for a long time, because there is no sense of responsibility between the two, and they no longer want to protect this relationship to protect the family, maybe it is only because the parents continue to be united because of their children, but this kind of life is unfair to both parties.

Love and marriage are not exactly the same thing!

It is ideal for love and marriage to be closely integrated into one.

In real life, the ideal state is not a state that all families have.

Some people form sexless families because they need the shell of marriage, which is a home where love and marriage are completely different things.

What about you? You can choose the marriage method you need according to your own marriage concept.

There is no emotion, and it is recommended that there is no need to be together.

Affection is the basis for the continuation of marriage, a marriage without emotion is like a high-rise building without a foundation, it will fall apart at any time, what is the meaning of such a marriage, so there is no need to maintain a marriage without feelings, let go early and get rid of it early.

Ways to maintain affection:

1. Don't be afraid to argue.

When you quarrel, you can't suppress your emotions and say some unpleasant things, but after the quarrel, you still want to be with each other, this is the real couple who can go on forever.

2. Understand the promise in love.

In love, promises are particularly important, so all the promises you make should be fulfilled one by one in the days to come.

3. Accompany each other.

For some parties and parties, even if you don't want to participate, it's a matter for two people to fall in love, and you have to cooperate with each other and accompany him to parties and parties at these times.

4. Give gifts.

Unexpected surprises to the other party will add a touch of freshness to your life, and the gift is not in the precious, but in the heart of the giver.

5. Don't accuse your other half in front of others.

Don't let your other half become a joke after dinner, you hurt the other person's self-esteem bit by bit, which is equivalent to killing the love of two people.

6. Encourage each other.

When the other party is at a low point, give him encouragement, let him stand up, don't be defeated by difficulties, and face those so-called difficulties together.

7. Remember to say "I love you" every day.

No one will get tired of hearing the words "I love you", two people together, it is inevitable that there will be friction, a sentence of "I love you", can solve most of the small friction very well.

8. Reply to the other party as soon as possible.

When you see the other party's message, you should reply in time, even if you are busy, you should also let the other party know, you know, there is nothing more sad than being ignored by a loved one.