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Parents who can communicate with teachers are good parents, how to communicate effectively with teachers?

I am worried about whether I will disturb the teacher or whether I will make a bad impression on the teacher by saying the wrong thing. The feeling, like she and not her son, was going to school, nervous and tangled.

In fact, it is necessary for parents of new students to maintain good communication with teachers, so that teachers can understand their children, understand their parents' thoughts, and be targeted when educating them.

So, what are the precautions when communicating with teachers? Let's reveal the secret now.

01 Parents should express their feelings correctly and sincerely and avoid negative emotions.

Teachers are also human beings, with eating, drinking, and six desires, so the rules of communication with ordinary people are also universal. When a parent communicates with a teacher sincerely, the teacher can feel this sincerity.

Parents of new first-graders are easily anxious. Children will inevitably have problems during the adaptation period, and parents are eager to help their children solve them but have no way to start, and anxiety arises. Once anxiety arises, it triggers negative emotions.

I met a new mom whose daughter was introverted and quiet. At the same table is a lively and active boy who often plays tricks on her daughter. A week after the start of school.

The daughter cried and refused to go to school, saying that her table mates would bully her.

When my mother heard this, she was angry, on the one hand, she was very distressed, and on the other hand, she felt that the teacher had arranged such a table for my daughter. She called ** to the teacher and said that the same table is not good, it will affect the child's learning, can she change it.

The teacher said that the same table is arranged according to height, eyesight and other aspects, and is generally changed once a semester. The new mother was even more angry, thinking to herself why this teacher was so unreliable, my daughter was crying and refused to go to school, and she didn't solve it.

There is no set pattern. If you have time, go to the school and have a contest with the teacher. It's like you're communicating with your colleagues at work.

Explain it directly to the teacher.

How should parents communicate with teachers? It should be done according to the child and communicate with the teacher.

1. You can directly call ** or ask in person.

2. Teacher, are you free on xx day? That's right, my mom said, my grades have improved recently, and this is inseparable from your teaching, and she wants to thank you in person, is that okay? ＂

3. Ask the teacher's ** first, or lie and say: Teacher, a good friend of mine said that his home is near your home, but I forgot the address, I have something urgent to find him, but he doesn't, can you tell me the address of your home, I can go there and continue to look for him. ＂

Faced with such a situation:

1.Parents need to relax, the teacher let you add his WeChat is only related to the child's learning life, parents should pay attention to proportions when chatting with the teacher, deal with the teacher, parents should pay more attention, your words and deeds not only determine the teacher's view of you, but also affect the teacher's impression of your child, do not deliberately please, do not pretend to be high, the teacher reads countless people, a child's tutor, from the parents' words and deeds can know a little bit or two.

2.First, take the initiative to surface identity. After adding the teacher's WeChat, you can simply say hello and inform yourself that you are the father or mother of a classmate, such as: Hello teacher, I am the mother of a classmate.

3.Secondly, I would like to express my gratitude to the teacher. For example, thank you teacher for taking care of my child.

4.You can tell the teacher more about the child's status at home, so that the teacher can better understand the student's situation. For example, when children are at home, they are very conscious of learning and can complete their homework independently, but the accuracy rate is not too high. Just be honest and honest.

5.Finally, I would like to express my confidence in the children and teachers and thank the teachers. For example, in the future study and life, I will cooperate with the teacher's work, and I will communicate with you in a timely manner, thank you, teacher.

Introduction: The learning status of children in school also affects children's grades, and also affects children's physical and mental development, so parents are still more concerned. If you are worried that your child will not be noticed by the teacher at school, how should you communicate with the teacher?

Parents should actually understand more about teachers, after all, teachers have limited energy, it is impossible to pay attention to their children at all times, and sometimes teachers are also very busy with their work, it is unlikely that they will always talk to parents about their children's situation. If the child doesn't post anything, the teacher won't bother the parents. Therefore, when parents communicate with their children to the teacher, they can first learn from the teacher about the child's recent learning, if the teacher says better, it means that the teacher is still more concerned about the child, and there is no need to worry too much about it at this time.

If the teacher is not particularly good, it means that the teacher is not paying attention to their child, parents can tell some children's stories or express their worries, or they can remind the teacher by knocking on the side, and the teacher will know what to do. But if you talk to the teacher and say that the teacher doesn't pay attention to your child, and then scold the teacher, this will undoubtedly intensify the conflict. And it also makes the teacher feel inexplicable, which will affect the relationship between the teacher and the child.

In fact, if parents and teachers can cooperate well, it will be helpful for children's growth. And the home-school connection is also very important, after all, what is the situation of the student in the school and what the school is doing should be known to the parents. In this way, parents can better cooperate with the school to do some work, and some committees can be formed to strengthen the relationship between home and school.

These committees are made up of teachers, parents, and school leaders so that they can better deal with problems and make suggestions for the development of the school. In addition, to strengthen the home-school relationship, it is necessary to hold some activities from time to time, so that parents can also participate in the school life, so that parents can understand the status of students in school.

1. Parents take the initiative to communicate Parents face their children one-on-one, but teachers need to face dozens or hundreds of students at the same time, and it is normal for teachers to be negligent sometimes. For this reason, as parents, we should still take the initiative to keep in touch with the teacher, keep abreast of the child's situation at school, and also give feedback on the child's situation at home, and cooperate with the teacher's work.

2. Trust and respect for teachers Trust and respect are the prerequisites for effective communication, parents should first trust and respect teachers, communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems, and do not question teachers in front of children when encountering conflicts, so as not to affect children's respect for teachers.

3. Parents are the first responsible persons for their children's education Parents have unshirkable responsibilities and obligations for their children's education and training. Parents should first make it clear that they are the first responsible person for their children's education, and take the initiative to maintain communication and interaction with teachers to jointly educate their children to develop in a better direction.

4. Control the frequency and time of communication Compared with the "shirking responsibility" of many parents, more parents are too worried about their children's situation, and they have to find a teacher every once in a while. It is good for parents to care about their children, but they should also pay attention to controlling the time and frequency, after all, the teacher needs to deal with more than just one parent, and pay attention to avoid the teacher's break time, the communication process is concise and to the point, and the other party's time is wasted. Message:

Children's education requires the joint efforts of parents and teachers, in addition to learning about the child's situation from the teacher, smart parents will also reflect the child's situation at home to the teacher in a timely manner, and communicate with each other, so as to educate the child together!

The purpose of communication between parents and teachers is to understand the child's school situation, and they often talk more broadly, as if there is a gain, but it seems that the expected results have not been achieved. Parents can try this method and ask the teacher (1) What aspects of the child needs to be improved? Understand your child's shortcomings so that you can correct them(2) Is there anything worthy of praise for your child?

Understand the strengths of my child and what I can continue to adhere to (3) What can I do? Clarify what parents need to do, and better cooperation between home and school will be more conducive to children's growth. When these three aspects are clear, the communication between parents and teachers will achieve the goal.

Hope it helps.

If parents and teachers are at the same level of educational philosophy, it is easier to communicate and reach a consensus. On the contrary, the effect is not good.

Parents and teachers can communicate on an equal footing, what do you want to communicate with teachers? Just tell the teacher.