How to talk to the living, how to communicate with the living

Why doesn't anyone like to listen to me???

When asking this question, think first, why do others listen to you?

This question in conversation skills also requires everyone to think about it.

If what you say is related to the other person, what can you help the other person, will he not like to hear it?

We must first meet the needs of the other party, think about the problem from the other party's position first, and then we can communicate more harmoniously.

Suggestion: 1. Be confident! You have to know what your greatest charm is what is the most attractive place.

2. Don't say much about topics you don't understand, it's better to smile if you're silent, if you are good at talking about the topic, don't be too public, speak in a measured manner, and give people the impression of being down-to-earth and reliable.

3. I think a good way to communicate with people is to think about something for the other party and try to start from the other party's point of view, so that the conflict can be basically resolved. There was a good communication. Kindness to others is the most important thing.

When talking to other people, the most important thing is the topic, if you are chatting with a large group of friends, but what you say is not related to their topic, of course no one will pay attention to you. If you are talking to a person, learn more about his or her interests and associate topics with his or her interests. In addition, the volume of your voice is also very important, too big or too small is not good, as long as others notice you.

The moon is so round tonight!

All you have is self-confidence.

If no one listens, no one listens, and if you don't worry, someone will listen to you if you talk too much.

The so-called "love at first sight" will appear among strangers, and the "love at first sight" mentioned here is not the love between men and women, but the love of friends, the love of wanting to be good friends with each other!

When you see this person, you should be observing, observing everything around you, including his clothes, speech and behavior, etc.; Then find the right opportunity to contact him, this contact is to pay attention to, contact to avoid language. Sometimes a small gesture is enough to speed up or deepen your relationship, such as a nice smile. The action should be in harmony with the environment at the time, so as to play the effect of doing things twice.

You must remember: no matter when and where, you must have a good mood, a good attitude, a good mental outlook, and a confident attitude! A person's good temperament directly affects the impression that others have of you. If you want to take the initiative to make friends, don't forget to take the initiative, take the initiative to say hello, etc., in short, you must take the initiative!

Treat people with sincerity, and friends should also know that giving, not just money.