Parents should not always talk about the benefits of other children in front of their own children

It depends on the specific situation, whether parents talk about the strengths of other people's children or praise their own children. There is only one purpose, which is to make their children progress.

In order to make their children progress, then parents generally choose two methods, one is to mention the advantages of other people's children, as you said. Another is to encourage your own children.

Chinese parents like the first way to talk about their own children as a yardstick.

Western parents, on the other hand, generally encourage their children by motivating and giving positive comments. This is the difference between Chinese and Western educational concepts.

Personally, I think: should parents be or not? It depends on what type of child you have.

If the child has a strong personality, then the method of agitation can be passed. If the child is well-behaved, then encouragement should still be the main thing.

Soldiers are impermanent, water is impermanent, and everything must be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Looking at your problem, you are still a very thoughtful child, and for a child like you, I suggest using the agitation method, hehe.

You should encourage your children more positively, dig out and affirm your children's strengths and strengths, you know, everyone prefers to listen to words of appreciation, praise, and praise, especially for children. The above represents my views and is for reference only.

Yes, but the principle of moderation must be mastered.

But if you make a list, it will hurt your child's self-confidence.

You can put it another way.

Encouraging, or add some words of encouragement after that.

It depends on how the child reacts, and it depends on the individual. Not much to say.

I found that many parents often tell their children how difficult it is for them, but parents ignore that their children's lives are also very difficult, and they feel that this is a great disrespect and unfairness for their children. In fact, in the minds of children, they will feel that their parents say this because their parents regard themselves as a burden to them, and this practice will also cause children to feel very uncomfortable.

Not only is it very difficult for parents, but it is also very difficult for children, and parents will cause great harm to their children. In the minds of parents, they always hope that their children can understand their own difficulties and hope that their children can understand themselves. But I think this is also a kind of moral kidnapping, parents hope to let their children understand their parents' love for them in this way, but children's lives are also very painful.

In the whole process of growing up, children also encounter a lot of things, such as children's learning pressure, and parents, teachers, and classmates do not understand children.

I hope parents can know that it is we who choose to give birth to our children, and not that children ask us to give birth to them, so we should not have so many requirements for children at this time. If parents always treat their children like this, it will also have a great impact on their children, which may make them ignore themselves and make them very unconfident. In today's society, it is not easy for everyone, and parents should not often complain to their children, such a percussive education will really have a great impact on children.

Parents can choose to let their children understand themselves, so that they can understand that their parents' lives are not easy, and parents can also think about some problems from the perspective of their children and be considerate of their children. Everyone wants to be understood by others, and the size of parents and children can make the relationship better.

Parents can talk about it occasionally, but they can't often talk about their difficulties in front of their children, which is very bad for children. Because the child's age is relatively young, it may be affected by the negative energy of the parents, and without the motivation to learn, it will be more unhappy all day long. Parents can let their children understand that it is not easy to make money and live, so that they can cherish the opportunity to receive education, but they cannot complain too much about their children.

Educating children is to pay attention to methods, and you can't blindly confide in your children about the troubles they encounter. At the beginning, the child will feel very sorry for his parents, and he will be obedient and make his parents happy. If parents always talk about talking about going to talk about it three or four times a day, the child will be impatient, and his personality will become more irritable, and he will talk back to the parents, which will make both the parents and the child more uncomfortable.

Children should feel more positive energy, so that children can be very cheerful and confident, so that children are willing to communicate with others, and are willing to tell their parents about the troubles they encounter. Parents are relatively old and should take on the responsibility of raising their children, supporting them for a day, so that children can live a carefree childhood.

Children will not be able to help their parents solve their problems, and will only become more and more uncomfortable, and may think that their birth has delayed their parents and added a lot of burden to their parents. When the mood is particularly depressed, the child may have some mental problems, and may suffer from depression, not eating or drinking all day, and not communicating with others. Parents don't understand their children, thinking that their children are just throwing tantrums, and slowly their children's world will become more and more lonely and lonely, and they may choose to end their lives.

Instead of confiding in your child about your troubles, it is better to be a good role model and let your child be subtly influenced.

The hard work and hard work of parents is that children who are seen by their children will also redouble their learning, and they will not be so unconscionable at all, which parents can rest assured, so there is no need to say so much about their suffering.

I don't think it's good, because this will increase the psychological burden of children, and will make them feel very inferior and inferior from an early age, which is very detrimental to their development in the future.

It's not good, because the pressure on the child itself is also relatively large, from the pressure of academics, if you put pressure on the child who does not belong to her, it is likely to cause the child to be depressed.

Not good. Doing so will make the child have a special low self-esteem, and it will also make the child lose confidence in life, and it will also make the child unconfident.

If parents often educate their children in front of others, it may lead to children becoming very inferior, and it will also have many negative effects. Therefore, the education method is very important, parents should not educate their children in front of others, otherwise it will lead to the child's special lack of self-esteem.

Therefore, children may be particularly resistant to you.

Some parents often do this in their lives, but this kind of education method is really special to make people feel angry, because children will feel very uncomfortable at this time, so parents must talk about the importance of thinking from the perspective of children when educating children. We must also care more about our children in life, and we should not educate our children in front of others at this time, otherwise it will lead to children who have no self-esteem, and the child may not want to believe in their parents, so these problems are necessary for us to pay attention to, but we must also help children solve these problems in a timely manner.

In real life, many parents will educate their children in this way, because they feel that this kind of education is more effective, but this kind of education is really bad for the growth of children, and it will not make their children become very good, so these problems are necessary to attract our attention, and we must also pay attention to related problems at this time. If your child makes mistakes in life, then we can educate them at home at this time.

We all hope that our children can change their mistakes, so parents definitely need to pay attention to educational methods at this time. We don't want to educate our children in front of others, otherwise it will lead to a lot of behavioral problems in your children, and your children will not be particularly obedient, and children will not believe in you in the future.

1. Parents educating their children in front of others will bring children a feeling of arrogance and humility, and over time they will have the habit of making children unable to raise their heads in front of others. 2. It will cause the child's rebellion, and educating the child in front of others will make the child feel insecure and make the child feel lonely. Over time, children will slowly appear rebellious, and they will go against their parents later.

First of all, it will cause children to be unconfident and inferior, and secondly, it will create a gap between children and their parents, and they will not be able to communicate with each other, and finally they will make children disappointed in their parents and no longer trust their parents.

It will make the child particularly inferior to the model, and it will also make the child particularly faceless, Dan Xianqing may make the child rebel in advance, and then the child is not willing to communicate with the parents, and the child is not willing to understand the painstaking efforts of the parents.

It will make the child very inferior, the child's personality will be very bad, there will be no good interpersonal skills, and the child will feel that he has no time to save face.

Definitely not right, this has the following consequences:

1.Produce a rebellious mentality.

Other people's children are all treasures, and their own children are grass. This is what many children see as their parents to themselves, children may have a rebellious psychology because of this, the more parents say that other people's homes are good, the more children do not listen, and everything is done against their parents.

2.Becoming more and more inferiority complex sensitive.

Parents often compare "other people's children" with their own children, which is an unfair manifestation to children. Children are sensitive creatures, parents always use the good of other people's children to highlight the bad of their own children, and children will become more and more inferior and become less talkative. Parents have less trust in their children's hearts and become more and more indifferent to their parents.

3.Begin to give up on yourself.

Because the eyes of parents are different from the "other people's children" in the eyes of their children, and the aspects that parents see are too simple, nothing more than good grades, love to learn, obedient ......The child may refute it, but the parents will only think that it is making excuses. No matter how good a child does, parents will only say that other people's families are good, and they will never be praised. As a result, children begin to ignore what their parents say and even give up on themselves.

Other people's children "have accompanied us for almost the entire youth, but is this kind of behavior really good? What should parents do?

1.Treat your own children as "other people's children".

Every child has their own "shining point", don't always praise other people's children in front of their children, parents are always good at looking for the advantages of other people's children, and ignore the strengths of their own children, let the children know that they are also the best in the eyes of their parents, or praise their children without hesitation, and treat their children as "other people's children", children will become more and more confident and happier.

2.Do not compare yourself to others.

Parents want their children to know that everyone's biggest enemy is themselves, and many parents compare "other people's children" with good intentions, in order to give their children a goal. However, many parents can't grasp their own degree, which makes the situation worse and worse. Parents should let their children think of their yesterday selves as "other people's children", so that they can compare themselves with themselves and achieve the motivation to work harder.

3.Communicate with your child.

The child's self-esteem.

It is very strong, parents should praise their children in which aspects they are doing well, and give affirmation, and for the bad aspects should be objectively expressed, and then reasonably analyze how other children's children do, and learn from the strengths of others, so that children have a clear understanding that they are really wrong, and children will accept and change with an open mind. It is important that the relationship between parents and children is harmonious.

The author's message: Parents should know that their children are the best, and tell their own children in the good aspects of other people's children, and the children will know what is true and what is false. If everything is compared, the child's psychology will become worse and worse, so tell the child that the biggest enemy is yourself, whether today's self is better than yesterday's.

I don't think it's right to do this, because if you keep saying that other people's children are good in front of your children, it's easy for your children to have low self-esteem, deny themselves, and even suspect that their parents don't like them at all.

I don't think it's right, can't you see that your own child is good at all for so long, since you think other people's children are good, then why don't you raise him. Is it difficult to boast about your own children?

I don't think that's right. Because when parents say that other people's children are good, their own children will be very sad in their hearts. Because the child thinks that the parents do not approve of him at all.

Not appropriate, because every child has its strengths and weaknesses, and parents should be good at discovering their children's strengths.