My girlfriend only complains to herself, but she doesn t share happy things

Your girlfriend belongs to the general little girl temper, the personality is very frank, in fact, it is not to say that it is venting to you, just want to find someone to talk to, she trusts you, so everything is told to you, she cares about you very much, and wants you to enlighten her or give her ideas, you have been together for five years, you should know each other very well, I think you should be more tolerant of her, do you want to see her not to tell you anything, do you want to communicate with you.

I think your girlfriend also has her own space, so I don't want to leave you aside, you also have your own life circle, right?

I wish you all happiness.

Your girlfriend, like a child, plays outside when she is happy and comes back when she is depressed and wants you to comfort her.

First of all, she should like you, she wants you to report her whereabouts, she is worried about you. If you don't like you, there's no need to be so troublesome, and if you like it, you will care so much.

Also, as I said at the beginning, your friend should be a child, who sees you as a dependent and attached to you. Everyone expresses their feelings in different ways, maybe you are more mature, so when you see her like this, you can't accept it and feel that she doesn't like you.

Of course, these are just reasoning, and the main thing is your own attitude, as you said in your supplement, you don't want to continue, if you really don't want to continue, whether she loves you or not, in fact, it doesn't make sense.

If you don't love her, just break up, it's been five years, why waste six or seven years together. Waste a lifetime of time to barely reluctantly.

If you still love her, understand her more, everyone expresses love in different ways. But the nature is the same.

I don't think I can say that I don't love you, everyone loves people in different ways, maybe she feels sad things to share with you, which can be done between more intimate people, and wants to get comfort from close people, which is also a way for her to vent. If you have something to do, you will be cold, and if you have nothing to do, you will pester you, if you have something, do you mean that she is not bored, if this is the case, it means that she is a little selfish, and she does not take into account her boyfriend's feelings, you feel like you are called by your girlfriend, so I feel a little unhappy in my heart, I feel that she has not put much effort into you to love you, I think this is just a little bit of her little problem, she didn't leave you aside, so it's not that she doesn't love you, It's just that I don't need you as much as you think, and I love you so much.

If she is willing to tell you something unhappy, it means that she still loves you. You have to report everything you do in advance, which means that she still cares about you!

So, don't give up easily, you've been around for 5 years It's not easy, loving someone, that's how it is.

It's okay, I'm sure you'll have a good ending

If she really loves you, she won't say anything that wastes her time or so-and-so when you ask her. I suggest you talk to her about it, and if you want to continue, you have to make it clear. If you don't want to continue, you should also think clearly, what you want, whether she is sincere to you, if you have been together for five years, I think you should know her, right?

I think she still loves you, but she loves herself more, so she thinks about her own feelings first in everything she does. Why don't you take the initiative and ask her, baby, what are you happy and fun to tell me today?

Your girlfriend is destined to be strong for a lifetime, it is estimated that she will eat you, if you are willing, accept it, if you don't want to, you can divide it early, I wish you happiness!

How can there be so many happy things, she treats you as the closest person to complain to you.

If your girlfriend doesn't tell you anything, she probably doesn't want you to worry about her! This also shows that she is a sensible person, and she only wants you to be happy with her by sharing good things with you, which is not that she does not trust you.

I don't want you to worry, I'm afraid you'll worry.

People have their own secrets, and you don't need to say anything unhappy, but you can't hold it in your heart

I'm afraid that you will be wronged, and then I will be even more unhappy.

Hold her and gently pat her back, don't worry about comforting, you have to listen to her heart, be patient, baby we bear it together, baby I have me I don't want you to be hurt in any way, baby I will try to make you happy for a lifetime, baby I try to make your life better, don't let you suffer any grievances, just be willing to listen and share her sorrows. Then tell her that there are always unhappy things in life, don't always think about unhappy things. What a woman wants is not comfort, but an attitude that encourages her to be willing to spend time with her, gentle encouragement is better than harsh criticism.

Many people like to complain, if complaining becomes a habit, how you persuade is useless, you just need to listen patiently, if you want to say something, just follow her complaint, the more persuasive she will come.

People who complain too much will not be happy

Then you tell him not to always think about what he doesn't have, but to think about what he has that others don't.

Take out the temperament that your man should have to conquer him, and if you are afraid of your girlfriend, use sweet words to convince him.

Take her to eat! Shut her mouth.

That's because there's something wrong with her mentality, don't worry about it.

Complaining to you means that he trusts you, and she regards you as a backer, so help him vent, just like when you were a child and complained to your mother when you were in trouble.

It is recommended that you be separated for a while, that is, not to see each other for the time being, you tell her, since you are not happy with me, then let's calm down for a while, which is good for both parties. After a period of time, see if she will be more restrained, and at the same time see whether you are important to her, I believe that it will give you a conclusion.

You're his boyfriend, don't complain and lose his temper with you, then with whom, with others you want!

The most important thing is to understand that everyone will only lose her temper with the person she knows best, and that a stranger or someone who doesn't know his personality very well will always be a little more restrained. She may lose her temper with you just to make you sense that she is not in a good mood and wants to be comforted by you. Don't overthink it, trust that you will handle the situation well.

Always compare you with others, and when you are with you every day, your strengths and weaknesses are shown in front of him, and he begins to find fault with you.

Treat you as a close person, no matter how good others are, they are just friends, and you will become someone closer than his family.

There's no doubt that she loves you. She complained that she didn't have enough security.

Love to lose your temper is that you have fallen on her.

She may think you too much, and the others are just her friends.

In fact, she loves you, but maybe you don't do well in some places. It's also possible that I don't love you anymore.

You're not rich and handsome, or you're incompetent.

It shows that she really trusts you and treats you as her own.

I just want you to care more about her.

I'm not happy with you! Do it yourself.

What your girlfriend does and how to do it has a lot to do with you, she wants to get a response when she confides in you, and you can't give it to her, so she will definitely not tell you anymore! You can understand it if you think about it yourself.

You have to put yourself in your shoes, think about what comfort you want to get if you are in this state of your own? Is it possible to say more encouraging words, such as you are great, if you work hard, you will definitely have results, emotionally, you might as well say that I work hard to earn money and support you, you don't have to be so tired, or imagine more with her about the future of beautiful imagination, such as where to travel and play there to buy a car after making money. I think this is a very good time to show that you are a man, dare to take responsibility, and make your girlfriend feel safe.

Uh, it's not in a province, it's hard to work alone, it's hard to get tired of working alone, and I don't know what to do with each other, and it's very insecure to mess with flowers and grass Why don't you ask her to go to your side to find a relaxing thing With you, you have someone to rely on, and she will feel at ease.

Normal, he doesn't want you to be unhappy, because she would rather bear the unhappiness herself.

It shows that she is more optimistic, such a woman is good.

It's rare to stay natural.,The master should know how to cherish it.。

She may not have fully trusted you yet or is starting to rely on you.

I don't want to infect you with bad feelings.

It means that I am very happy to be with you.

Normal, because there are some things that can't be said.

Normal. Actually, she doesn't want you to worry.

Maybe she's a very optimistic person.

It's not normal, so it's worth thinking about.

When you love her, you will naturally pay less attention to yourself and care more about her, and you will naturally understand her, including a woman's duplicity, or want to indulge in it, understand her values, habits, hobbies, and even whether she really loves you and what you love, otherwise it may be that you are too focused on yourself, or she doesn't want to give you a chance to understand, understanding her is just as an excuse to let you know the difficulties, in short, you still lack that tacit understanding of love, and you are just paying attention to your own side.

A woman's heart is very complicated, and understanding this word is just a generalization! Maybe it's more to say that you don't understand her, women's minds are meticulous, while men are relatively rough, sometimes you won't find changes in women's hearts, some women have changes in their hearts, and they won't show it, so many men will say that women can't guess, your girlfriend's complaints may be hoping that you can understand her, you can usually observe your girlfriend's habits and behaviors a little carefully, maybe you will find her inner changes from small details! Women are easily impressed by details!

What the woman said was to understand her, that is, when she said that I liked this thing but didn't buy it, she bought it and gave it to her; When she gets angry and says it's okay, you should know that she is already angry, and then coax her well; It is to be able to know and take measures when she says the opposite, and to coax her when she complains, instead of telling her to drink more water... That's basically it.

When men and women quarrel, women quarrel with love, and men quarrel with reason. This is that even if you understand the quarrel, the woman will think that you don't love him and don't care about her. So when getting along, a woman will not be reasonable, he will only think that you don't care enough about her.

You understand this, and you understand how to make it easier for both of you.

Maybe you're busy with work, maybe you don't know how to be romantic, If you're already living together, then you have to pay attention to the small actions in her life, such as what she likes and what she hates, Women are very sensitive animals, as long as you pay attention, I believe you will know what to do.

There may be a generation gap between you, you don't ask, I don't say, this is the distance; You asked, I didn't say, this is the estrangement;

You asked, I said, that's trust; You don't ask, I said, that's dependence.

Think about what she wants deep down, think more about her, occasionally say some love words to her, and give her some romance.

Women like to guess, that is, they don't say it themselves, and their boyfriends know what they think and want.

I just hope you can explain it, and then there's the fact that you're very insecure.

Duplicity, don't guess a woman's thoughts.

There is no limit to being unreasonable, if it doesn't work, just divide it.

Spend more time with her and like your attention.