If you have a question about my psychological disorder, ask a psychologist to answer it! Rush 20

The reason for the problem is simple, you care too much about your outward appearance and your words and deeds.

The solution——

The simple way, you know, there are not so many people who pay attention to you, there are a lot of meaningful things to think about, to do, to do what should be done, to do what can be done well, and there are no such troubles. When you work hard to become a contact person, after someone pays attention to you, they are thinking about the current situation.

If you want to solve this problem in essence, you have to establish a noble outlook on life, a person with a noble ideological realm, more thoughts in his heart are for the sake of others, for the sake of society, and there is no heart to let these small things interfere with themselves.

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Very much with the view from upstairs. The gesture was just a disguise for his panic. Maybe it doesn't mean anything else.

As for your low self-esteem, I can understand it. But that shouldn't be called inferiority. There were just some setbacks, and then a little shadow was left in my heart.

So every time you see her and then he talks to you, you do. It's hard to solve this problem all at once, but it's going to get better over time. I want to start first.

Isn't it a good thing to think that she has taken the initiative to talk to you now? You yourself say that in fact, psychology still likes it.

Now that you know each other very well, the next time you pretend to be very casual and ask, do you remember the first time I spoke to you? I remember you didn't hear it at the time. You have no experience in love, cranky thoughts are inevitable, listen to her, it will be very unexpected, not what you think.

I'm a girl, and if I encounter your situation, I will be a little vanity and a little nervous. will make a small gesture of pretending not to care about his hair, but in fact, he is very nervous. There are also many boys and girls who will behave like this, in order to be more free and easy, and when you encounter this kind of thing in the future, you must ask clearly in time, and you will not feel uncomfortable if you know more.

This time you must ask clearly, otherwise you will lose the opportunity and people will run away with others.

I think it might be better to say this, everyone will be tempted by someone he has met in the course of his life, especially when he is young, also known as a secret crush, the throbbing in his heart is a true expression of his heart, not a psychological problem, so you can rest assured! I'd like to say a few words about your crush!

Maybe, the girl's performance will have that feeling of rejection to a certain extent, but in terms of my own love, you still have to firmly grasp it, and if you miss it, you will regret it for a lifetime, but for love, for the person you love, even if you touch your head and bleed, what does it matter if you are very young There is another sentence, you have to understand her, see what kind of person she is, whether it is worth your everything, or what her personality is, whether it is suitable for you???

If you really think it through, then I'll send you four words! Stalker!!

Don't worry about it, think about whether she is a hint to you by shaking her hair, or is she deliberately tempting you by showing her affection for you? (Some men like to pretend to be gentlemen, so she deliberately shook her hair to belittle others in order to test whether the man is patient or hypocritical) As a man, you should try to chase a woman and not give up!

It is recommended that you explain the scene that is bothering you with the other person.

In this way, you can solve your problem at the root.

Find a professional psychological counselor for counseling, and search Cao Ze on the Internet to understand.

It's normal. I am the same, I can only say that we are very rational, and the way to solve problems is to use our own wisdom to manipulate others to do things for us! I did it! Hope you can do it too!

Your problem is not big, but the situation has been unable to solve the problem by yourself and non-professional adjustment for many years, it is recommended to see a psychological counselor, I believe that you will return to normal soon.

So don't put up with it on your own, find a psychiatrist as soon as possible to get a solution as soon as possible. You can rest assured that counselling is strictly confidential.

Don't just expand the problem.

Why are there so many mental illnesses, you are just too concerned about yourself, if you can transfer this excessive attention to yourself to the pursuit of your own life goals. Finally, I wish you better and better in every aspect every day!

There is a strong sense of responsibility, and at the same time you are too demanding of yourself. If you think so, don't you need to deal with so many unfair things in this world!

There are many ways to judge whether a person is strong or not, such as your perseverance, character, attitude towards people, dealing with people, and whether you have a strong psychological endurance, etc., strong is not only whether you can hit others, but whether you can protect the people and things you want to protect, whether you can withstand big blows and setbacks, and whether you have a sense of justice that others do not have. Whether it can give you and others a sense of security. Finally, I want to make it clear that you are not mentally ill.

First of all, when did you think it was cowardly to stay away from those who love to fight?

Don't look for trouble, keep to yourself. Shoot when it's time to strike, not softly.

So, let's think about it from another angle, if you are a robber, and the robber becomes a robber, will you still think like that? People are not plants and trees, who can be without fault? Be forgiving and forgiving, and don't do anything reckless! Remember.

This mentality is not mentally abnormal or whatever, you think too much. However, this thought is based on your self-esteem and the mentality of wanting to be recognized by those around you. This is a question of looking at things.

If it is really as you said, you will be bullied and robbed, and the wise thing to do at this time is actually to deal with it as much as possible depending on the situation. This does not mean that you are weak, if you blindly resist, if the injury is even worse, then the gain outweighs the loss. Of course, it is necessary to resist illegal activities, but there must be a way.

Then there's the question of your perception of cowardice and bravery. What do you think is bravery? Is it brave to be able to beat others?

Is it cowardly to call the police after being robbed at that time? Courage and recklessness are different, and you must know that. In short, it is right to resist hooligan lawbreakers within the limits of one's ability, and it is brave and full of a sense of justice.

On the contrary, there is courage and no strategy.

It's not psychology, it's personality.

I don't know how your family is doing, your parents' marriage, and how you are treated. It is impossible to make a definite conclusion on this matter alone, but it is certain that it is related to your character, and it is recommended that you listen more lightly and go on an outing in nature appropriately! If it's convenient, go check out the sea!

You can read a lot! At this age, you have to grasp yourself, most boys may have this mentality, and it will be fine as you get older!

Don't take this as a form of cowardice, even if you are a police officer, you will choose this approach in this situation, this is the most correct and intelligent way, what you have to do is be able to adapt at that time.

Hahahahahaha Calmly, people like you are very good...

You have a great sense of justice, but a real brave person is a person who can solve problems without violence, and the people you are talking about are some very weak people, because they can't bear the dissatisfaction in their hearts and the impulses in their hearts, so they always use a kind of violence to solve problems, so that others are afraid of themselves to hide the vulnerability in their hearts, it can be said that they can't communicate in my social group with the way we normal people communicate, So you can look at the billions of Chinese, there are only a few such hehe, the prosperity of the country and the stability of human society and the stability of the family do not depend on them, but on us! There are parasites there, but we must make sure that we are not parasites.

Bad people must be there, otherwise you can't form a society, and if you don't have things that are beautiful and opposite to your heart, you can't survive, this is the inevitable law. The reason for the sense of justice in this situation you are talking about is in it. But sometimes you're also extreme.

There are several possibilities: it means that you are moving towards weakness, the root of the violence is cowardice, and you may be afraid of them deep down and may even end up being one of them. Or, you may be uneasy with reality and want to eliminate a potential threat.

Or.. cough cough There is a very small possibility of impotence, and the fire is floating on the surface...

25. It's not realistic to be a police officer anymore. I think you're normal, just a little bit extreme, as long as it doesn't affect your life, it's fine.

People will have two reactions when they are afraid, one is to escape, and the other is violence, because you can't control that fear, you can only put it in violence to vent him, well, in your words, appear, whether you fight, kill, or be a bad guy or something, let me feel that you are just cowardice in your heart, afraid of being discovered, using the violence brought by fear to disguise yourself, vanity to comfort yourself. When all the disguises are revealed, you will crumble. Your life will be more extreme, and there will be no liberation from living in a world oppressed by fear.