How did you go through a long distance relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-18
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Long-distance relationships are destined not to stick together like other couples, but we still take time to **, share happy things with each other, if one day is in a bad mood, we will also quarrel, very powerful, but in the end, I will still coax her to be happy, after all, the more petted the girl, the cuter.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Develop a hobby that two people share, such as a game, an anime, or something else. This is conducive to creating a common topic, otherwise we just don't get up and eat every day, and we don't feel embarrassed after a long time, so we are like this, and we will often do the same thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do your own thing, at noon he will hit ** after class, he gets out of class relatively late. Two people leave their own space for each other, as the saying goes, distance produces beauty, and in the afternoon, do your own, but no matter what you do, you will tell each other, and I will call him ** after class at night.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I was in college, I wasn't in the same school at that time, but I would call ** every day to contact and chat, the two understood each other, girls did a little less, boys were more tolerant, give each other space, have a foundation of trust, and then two people enrich their lives, the pace is as similar as possible, don't be busy to die and the other to be idle, easy to get into trouble.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You need to have a sense of ritual, two people in a long-distance relationship can't often play together and eat together, and my boyfriend and I don't have many common hobbies. Our sense of ritual lies in the fact that he will give me a little love letter with one or two sentences every day, and sometimes he will write a few hundred words when the mood comes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm also out of town, but not particularly far. In fact, I think that long-distance relationships are inevitable that there will be a sense of distance or alienation, because they haven't met for too long, or some emotions that can't be felt will become not like friends but calm lovers. We've been through this kind of period, so I think it's time to go to his place, talk to him about how much you miss him, spend a weekend with him, eat together, go for a walk together, buy milk tea together, and then you find that it seems like everything is back again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think every couple should go through a long distance, if you are together all the time, it will be easy to get lost and only think about each other, but life is still up to you, I need to do something by myself Go to a certain place by myself, stay by myself and think about a certain problem or even go to a movie by myself, enjoy it when we are together, and spend it well when I am in a different place.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend and I have been away from home for more than a year, I have a slight pharyngitis, plus I shout in class with a class of elementary school students every day, and I am currently the most serious pharyngitis in my life, and I am annoyed to complain to my boyfriend and get angry with him. He was also very powerless, saying that he would fly over to accompany me as soon as he had a holiday. I said that when you have a holiday, my pharyngitis will be cured, and he said that he had bought the best powder for pharyngitis introduced by a friend and sent it to me, and he specially said that it was not difficult to drink, and asked me to insist on drinking it every day.

    He said that if he came back from vacation and saw that my pharyngitis was still cured, I would die. What touched me the most was that the day after I received the powder he bought, he appeared in front of me. What do you mean?

    I just said you a word, and you really asked for leave? Actually, no, he resigned. He said that distance scared him, he was afraid that when I needed him, he was not there, and he didn't know how long his days in Shanghai would be, he was afraid.

    I was really moved when I heard this. If there is anything that touches people the most about long-distance relationships, it is none other than Tiannanhaibei, just because I miss it, I rush to see you desperately.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's really not easy to be in a different place, and it's easier to have contradictions, which is difficult to avoid, when problems occur, don't escape, don't have a cold war, communicate in a timely manner, it's best not to stay overnight, let alone the next day. Also, once I went through the Cold War, it was really scary, and I didn't say a word like that, so communication is really important!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'll meet specifically for New Year's Eve.

    Long-distance couples are tormenting and great, and they can maintain a relationship that they can't see each other year after year just by relying on the emotions they interact with each other.

    Some of them have successfully achieved positive results after enduring a long period of lovesickness and crossing the double test of space and time. But there are also some people's romances that are unsustainable in long-term long-distance torment.

    Long-distance relationships are a test of a person's loyalty and morality, and many long-distance couples have the experience of being betrayed or have long-term doubts, and in the end the relationship is only a piece of chicken feathers.

    But from another point of view: "a small farewell is better than a newlywed", and appropriate division is conducive to reducing contradictions and enhancing feelings. I know.

    In fact, the ending is always contained in one choice after another. If you want your long-distance relationship to end, it is important to choose how to manage your relationship. Therefore, in order to maintain a long-distance relationship, we need to do much more than when we are together and on time.

    What can keep "love" fresh is the "love" of each other. Whether it's a long distance or not, the most important job in a relationship is to maintain the love between you.

    It is love to know each other, to care for each other is love, and to remain loyal and trusting is love. In the final analysis, what we need to work on is not how to trap lovers in a long-distance relationship, but how to convey love in a long-distance relationship.

    Learning to express love is the best way for us to maintain our relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Have been in a long-distance relationship.

    Long-distance relationships. For friends in long-distance relationships, I suggest that they should keep in touch with each other often, and one party may wish to write a few more letters to the other party to express their feelings of disappointment.

    Touch base.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Experienced. I am in a long-distance relationship with my ex, I studied in Nantong, Jiangsu, and he went to school in Nanchang, Jiangxi. We have broken up for more than a year and a month, in fact, I feel that if the two of us are not in a long-distance relationship, the time together may not be so short, because we can have more time together to understand each other's preferences, understand each other's personalities, and understand each other's way of doing things, but we are in a long-distance relationship, and we can't meet each other every day except for chatting and accompanying each other.

    I think the most sad thing is that I really want to see each other, I want to hug him, I want to kiss him, I want to face him and say a lot I like him so much, but we can't meet because we both have to go to school, we don't have time to meet, we can only watch each other's lives through the cold screen, we can't touch each other.

    I still remember that last year was the National Day holiday, he had 7 days off, he wanted to come to me, I took 3 days off, but I closed the school, because I couldn't go out, so he didn't come to me, he went home for seven days, we really wanted to meet and go out to play with Zen eggplant, but because of the epidemic closure of the school, I really couldn't get out, I was really sad at the time. Later, we broke up not long after the National Day, and he said that he seemed to be used to living alone again. I used to hear him say that if I was in the same school as him, then we could hang out and eat good food together on the weekends.

    It's just a pity that we are in a long-distance relationship, that's what I say to myself. ”

    Sometimes it's very helpless to quarrel, maybe we can be coaxed with a hug when we meet, but we are in a long-distance relationship, and we can't hug each other, so we can only comfort each other on the screen once we quarrel.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In a long-distance relationship, it's not easy to even hug, you can't hear the tone of the text message, you can't see the expression, and you panic when you turn off the phone as soon as you quarrel.

    Because for you, the only connection you have is that cell phone, that pale 11-digit number.

    Every day, I can only say to my mobile phone that I want you to wait for you, ** I have to go through the text messages over and over again, I look at different people and scenery, and she can become your worry if she delays replying to the text message for a few minutes.

    The flowers and plants around me are like the warblers and swallows around you.

    There is only one ** who accompanies her every day, and the only thing that can support her is love, because there is love, she is not afraid of loneliness, and she protects that feeling with peace of mind.

    Because of love, he refuses the favor of everyone around him, just for you a future, if you want to get married, talk about a long-distance relationship first, only true feelings can endure this posture of loneliness, and feelings can only endure loneliness for a long time.

    If you love her, forgive her willfulness, her suspicions, her occasional little temper tantrums, just because she is insecure.

    Because she loves you, she wants to get through.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Many people say that long-distance relationships are unreliable, long-distance relationships in life are actually very common, and there are indeed many long-distance relationships that eventually break up, but there are also some long-distance relationships that eventually have lovers who eventually become dependents, have you experienced long-distance relationships? What are the difficulties of long-distance relationships? If you are likely to experience a long-distance relationship in the future, what should you be aware of?

    Most people will be surrounded by friends in long-distance relationships, there are many reasons for long-distance relationships, because of school, because of work, and even some are online dating, etc., it is very difficult to fall in love in a long-distance relationship, although it is said that distance produces beauty, but when the distance is too far, the wine may be gone, and the two biggest difficulties in preventing long-distance relationships are distance and time, the distance is too far, the gathering is too little, and the time together is less.

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