Let s talk about your views on marriage in life. The back shows whether you are born in the 80s or

Life and "marriage" are related and different.

First, life, life is only once, life is in the world, and we should find our own meaning and value in life.

Marriage, marriage is an important part of life, and the best period of life is related to marriage. The success or failure of the marriage, directly.

or indirectly affect themselves and those involved in their own marriages. Marriages can have an infinite number of times, but in the end there is only one marriage.

Marriage requires commitment, true love, pampering, harmony, and balance.

Second, life is like marriage, and marriage is like life.

Life is a process from birth to growth, from growth to maturity, from prosperity to decline, from weak to strong and then weak to death. How life is is started from cognition and choice.

Marriage is a process in which two people go from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love, and from love to union. How marriage is is also the result of cognition and choice.

Life needs communication between people, communication between people, in order to continue to grow and mature, the quality of marriage, is the communication and understanding of each other, although it is to show the harmony of two people, but also to illustrate the similarities and differences in the direction of life of both parties, therefore, marriage is not child's play, need to be cautious.

Marriage is the sublimation of love after the 80s.

The kind of marriage I want is one that is plain and bland, but both hearts are happy. The post-90s generation firmly believes that it is better to have a shortage than an abundance.

With the continuous development of the times, we all know that many girls born in the 90s have now entered the marriageable age. Today I will bring you the views of post-90s girls on marriage. The views of post-90s girls on marriage are actually the same as most people, nothing more than hoping that they will live happily and completely.

But the post-90s girls are not exactly the same, so everyone has different expectations for their marriage. Next, I will bring you a few girls with different personalities.

First of all, there is the preferring type, they don't meet the man they like, or he has someone they like but doesn't like him. Such girls, whether high or low, may follow their own form of feeling, and will not completely wait for the right person to appear. They are perfectionists, they have a different philosophy of life than ordinary people, and they don't care about what others say.

I go my own way, thinking that being single or married is just a state of life, and each has its own advantages.

Secondly, the second type is to have a very rigorous thinking about the future. They will think very seriously about the kind of person they want in the future, and they will think about which one is suitable for them. They live in the present and plan for the future.

Such a girl knows how to be financially and spiritually independent.

Again, there are actually many types of girls in life. But most of the post-90s generation are women in the new era, and they don't rely on men to be busy with their careers and work harder than men. The convenience of getting married, in their eyes, seems to be in addition to having a legal child.

The rest can be obtained by themselves, and they don't pay so much attention to the matter of marriage. Some girls think that marriage will increase the burden on women, and they have a lot of sense of responsibility to raise and educate them first.

Then, many people don't want to marry themselves in a hurry, and they become yellow-faced women over time, cooking and tidying up the house every day, picking up and dropping off children to check homework. Before going to bed, I also have to remind my husband to take a bath, predictably boring, not at all want life. In short, most of the post-90s generation are not so eager for marriage.

Because they think they have the ability to be on their own.

Finally, with the development of the times in life, women are becoming more and more self-reliant, and they are more and more aware of their status. Everyone has a different perspective in marriage, and not all of them are as I have introduced. But in any case, you will be a little bit above it.

Post-90s girls have a relatively simple view of marriage, they want to live a happier life, but different people have different expectations for marriage. The first is that they would rather lack than excess, they will meet someone they really like before they will be really tempted. Another is that they are very strict about their future, and they will choose a particularly suitable time to get married.

Post-90s girls generally have a very clear view of marriage, and they are more realistic about reality, rather than just blindly pursuing love itself, so to speak, they are afraid and eager for marriage.

In fact, they also feel that marriage is not necessary, even if a person is living quite well, there is no need to get married and have children.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, different ages have different attitudes towards marriage. There is a huge age gap, and of course there will be different views on marriage issues.

First of all, the descendants of the 70s, but also the first generation of reform and opening up, now they have either seen half a hundred, or they are also in their forties, and they are about to run five. The current situation of this generation's life, from the concept of marriage and love to the concept of childbirth, is generally imprinted with the more traditional imprint of the previous generation.

In terms of marriage and love, you will feel that men should marry women when they get married, and when they reach the right age for marriage, if they have not been married, they will be so gossiped by the people around them that they can't lift their heads, as if Qingqi's life should be at the mercy of others.

The second is the post-80s, especially the post-85s born in the 90s, the understanding of marriage and love has almost no traditional shadow, more of a self-demand appeal, what do I want, how I want to, how I like it, not how to do it appropriately, otherwise what will be the consequences.

Since marriage is a matter of two people, of course, the two people have to be in agreement, or at least they are more eye-to-eye, and it is extremely important to be able to talk together, play together, get high, and sleep together, and whether the sex life is harmonious when sleeping together, as for what other people say, it is just for reference. As for the birth of a baby, it is even more backward, anyway, this is not a must for the reputation of life, if all conditions allow, you can consider having a baby, otherwise it is more important to take care of your life trip first.

Then there is the generation born after the 00s, who are even more flamboyant, their own personality is flying, they don't care about other people's opinions, opinions, visions, etc., they are self-respecting, everything is based on their own feelings or moods, and they almost don't pay attention to other people's views.

Their perception of marriage is no longer limited to the concept of traditional times, and the relationship between the sexes is more intolerant and empathetic.

I hope I can help friends in need.

Hello questioner! I'm glad to answer your questions, first of all, thank you for your question, the post-70s, post-80s, post-90s, attitudes towards marriage are very different. The attitude towards Cong Ru's life is also very different. Because of the difference in age, the idea is different, and the way of living is also different.

In the eyes of 90, marriage is not a must-answer question in life.

Before the post-90s, people's opinions were:"Men should get married, and women should get married. "In their eyes, marriage is the best destination.

Because of this, they are so anxious about their children's marriage, when should they look for it, when should they consider getting married, they themselves even attach more importance to marriage than their children.

Maybe, it is precisely because of this that people born in the 90s are more resistant to falling in love and getting married, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and they are forced to go on a blind date, how can they meet someone they love? In ancient times, men and women were married"The life of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", but for the current post-90s, two people get married before they get along, which is not only irresponsible to each other, but also irresponsible to themselves.

For the post-90s, not everyone wants to get married, and those who don't want to get married may not necessarily never get married for the rest of their lives, love always comes suddenly, and no one knows who they will meet in the future, nor will they know whether they will really fall in love.

Marriage should be a happy energy, not a task that must be completed in life.

What is the concept of marriage for the post-90s? Both boys and girls want to have a secure marriage. But for people in their twenties, it is impossible to achieve a house, a car, etc. on their own.

The pressure of life, material pressure, and spiritual pressure, how can a post-90s generation still want to get married?

Marriage is just a part of life for the post-90s, maybe you are afraid of loneliness, so you want to get married alone to suppress the shock, but sorry, for the post-90s, your own life must be mastered by yourself, and your own life must be walked by with a smile. You watch people eat spicy fragrant pot, it's really enjoyable, but don't forget that you can't eat spicy, you look at other people's skirts are so beautiful, but as soon as you buy it, you regret it. The post-90s generation will not do what they will regret sooner or later.

Do you think all the post-90s generation are unwilling to get married? Wrong, they are waiting for someone.

Love will make a person more dazzling, not make a person humble like dust, love the right person, life will be delicious, marriage will become more than tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, because, what supports love is love, not family affection.

Pursue happiness and forget about yourself. This is the post-90s view of marriage, because the material life has been greatly improved, so striving for happiness is the center of life.

The post-90s concept of marriage is to get married if you meet the right person, and if you don't meet it, then you should live a good life first, and then meet that person.

I think the post-90s concept of marriage is that you must find someone you love very much in order to be able to get married, have certain requirements for life and material, and have common values and outlook on life.