What do you think of college classmate relationships?

Let's talk about something practical, the relationship with college classmates is very important, and it is also one of the important connections in the future. It is very important to have a common language, boys play games together, girls go shopping together, don't say that I don't participate if I'm not interested, learn to change myself according to the environment, and be able to endure.

When I was a student, the friendship between classmates was the truest and purest, and after joining the job, I couldn't find it anymore. Cherish it! It's easy to get along, everyone is together for the same goal, have a common language, be honest with each other, and give a little more, it's enough!

All right. When getting along with college classmates, you should be sincere and not too introverted. Remember: endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky!

It's not as good as my friends in middle school, but I'm still happy. Be more tolerant, think from the perspective of others, and don't be careful.

It's good, it's very good, we play around a lot... Sometimes skipping class is all together...

You should be open with your roommates, and you should try to be reserved with your classmates.

Do your own thing, try to help your classmates, the way to get along with others is not so difficult, remember that college is a saying: listen more, talk less; Look more, think more, and do it carefully.

Get along with each other sincerely, treat people sincerely, and turn a blind eye when you meet a villain, and you can't afford to provoke and hide.

Hello netizens, it's a pleasure to help you.

First of all, you have to simplify your thinking, that is, although university is also a small society, you must never forget what you came to school for - studying. So get your center of gravity right, and your college life will be enjoyable because you don't need to care about other people's thoughts all the time.

Very good! As long as you are sincere, you can get it right!

Help each other when you are in school, and keep in touch often after graduation, otherwise the relationship will fade.

Friends in college are the friends you have the most contact with, the most work with, and the happiest friends you have the most time with!

Look at what people say.

I think of college classmates as if they were friends helping each other.

The dormitory of the university is inherently different people, and if their relationship is still very difficult.

It is not better than material, more than studying, better than good people, and better than material classmates.

First, we must communicate enthusiastically. Interpersonal relationships are interactive, don't always passively wait for others to take the initiative to care about you, but take the initiative to communicate with the classmates around you. Opening up to yourself is contagious, you are open to others, and others will be open to you.

When the other party walks out of the dead circle of self-isolation and self-isolation, you will not only have a deeper understanding of the other party, but more importantly, you will also have a new understanding and experience of yourself.

Second, we must understand and respect. Everyone has their own temperament and personality traits, different growth backgrounds and living habits, so in the process of interacting with classmates, if you can understand and respect each other, your relationship will be easy to harmonious, and unnecessary friction will be reduced.

Third, we must treat each other with sincerity. The most important thing in people-to-people interactions is sincerity and goodwill, which is also the fundamental principle of life. It is difficult for a duplicitous, hypocritical and arrogant person to have friends.

Fourth, we must be tolerant and understanding. As the saying goes, "No one is perfect, and no gold is barefoot."

The classmates around us (including ourselves) are still in the stage of growth, and there are often many inappropriate ways to deal with problems, and classmates will have different opinions on many issues, which requires us to empathize, be able to consider problems from the other person's point of view, and understand each other, so as not to lead to hostility.

5. Eliminate the sense of dependence. There is also an unhealthy mentality in interpersonal communication, that is, people with a strong sense of dependence always want others to care about them like their parents and siblings, and they want others to make decisions for themselves in everything, which is a manifestation of a lack of independent consciousness. Excessive dependence can also develop into a desire for control, forcing others to study with them, review their homework together, inform themselves of their action plans, and even limit their interactions with other classmates.

It is a personality defect that should be corrected in a timely manner.

You have to learn now, it's too late to get better, and I'll tell you how to do it. First of all, a complete transformation from the bottom of my heart. If you've ever been in contact with some delinquent teenagers, take your time away from those who have bad habits and know to completely disconnect from their so-called "siblings".

If you don't have the first point mentioned above, then the first thing you need to do is to clarify your goals, everyone knows that learning is a lonely learning process, and if you want to get good grades, you must be able to endure loneliness. Of course, this is not to say that you are isolated from the world, but you should be calm when you should be calm, rather than often wasting time in groups of chats and conversations. There is another advantage of people who can endure loneliness, that is, you can think about more life philosophies and natural laws in a calm manner, and you will find problems that were difficult to understand before, and slowly open up in your own inadvertent quiet.

Any relationship is sincere, and if the relationship loses sincerity, it is not an emotion. Treat your classmates sincerely, then your classmates will treat you sincerely. Then the friendship can continue.

As the saying goes, "Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans". Only by sowing sincerity and showing one's true self will we reap the sincerity of others.

Because people are unconsciously adhering to the principle of "reciprocity in interpersonal relationships", the degree to which you reveal sincerity will be rewarded accordingly. Some people are afraid that their shortcomings will be seen by others, which will affect their image in the hearts of others.

Adolescent children love to express themselves, and some children are even naughty and mischievous, just to pay attention to themselves. The relationship between classmates is the purest friendship, and some are even lifelong friendships.

In fact, your classmates may not have any other ideas, but you yourself are a little sensitive, because you may not like him very much, so you are very sensitive to its appearance. Actually, it doesn't matter, don't think about it so much.

When we were students, we all had the experience of not liking someone, and then it felt particularly unnatural when we were with them. This kind of thing is almost impossible to avoid for a lifetime. Whether it's at work, in life, or in school, there will always be people of this or that you don't like.

If you don't like it, you don't like it, and there's no need to force yourself. Normal social interaction is done at an appropriate distance, and it is sufficient not to approach. No one dictates who wants to be with whom, and has to be friends, right?

In your description of the problem, I found that you actually have some low self-esteem and some difficulties in interpersonal communication. Personally, I recommend that you read some books on interpersonal relationships to help you relieve this tension.

I don't think there's much difference between the best friends, and they can still go crazy and make trouble together.

It's a simple classmate relationship, it's really estranged a lot, everyone is thinking about what to do in the future, and they're working hard for it, and the relationship between classmates is just in the same classroom. The song "You at the Table" is also not applicable in college, because many times you don't even know who your table mate will be in the next class.

It's messy.,But it's still related to everyone's attitude toward dating.,It's not a certainty.。

Many people say that university is also a small society, and classmates are the main objects of our interaction in this small society. Good relationships with classmates can make college life fun, while bad college life can make college a shadow in life. I think to do a good job in university relations, one is to take the initiative, the second is to treat people with sincerity, and the third is to cultivate common hobbies.

Taking the initiative to socialize with classmates is the first step to building a good relationship with classmates. The so-called good relationship with classmates is first of all to socialize with classmates. Everyone is the same age group, and as long as you take the initiative to socialize with them, it is easy for everyone to get along.

After you have a fixed circle of friends, you can deeply cultivate your relationship with your classmates.

Treat people with sincerity and have a good relationship with classmates. Dating is a long-term thing, and as you spend more time together, you will get to know each other more deeply. In interpersonal relationships, people don't like to associate with dishonest people, so honesty must be the most important thing when interacting with classmates.

Students should be sincere and open to express their ideas. When encountering a conflict of interest, it is also necessary to agree on fair competition, and never do things that damage the feelings of classmates because of a small profit.

Shared interests and hobbies will make the relationship between classmates go further. Hobbies can play a role in maintaining the relationship between classmates, and when everyone has time to meet together and do something they like, it is easy for each other to have common topics. Such a classmate relationship will be harmonious and go far.

Boys usually become friends with classmates from the same team, and girls also become a small group because they like to watch movies.

In short, it is not difficult to build a good relationship with classmates in college. The students are of the same age and have a lot of free time, so it is the best place to make connections. If you want to socialize with your classmates and become friends, then don't hesitate to take the initiative to say hello to them, and then cultivate the same interests and hobbies, so that friendships can be established.

You should be friendly with your classmates. And learn to help each other. Only in this way can we have a good relationship with classmates.

Seek common ground while respecting differences. In college, we have different backgrounds, so we should pursue common interests with each other and not pay too much attention to the differences between them.

This is normal to destroy guesses, because of children's words, you will feel that there are many topics to talk about; But when you grow up, you will find that there are many things that you dare not say or can't say badly, so you will feel that the relationship is a little better, and you don't know how to speak. Actually, I think it's okay for you to say a few words, because not talking all the time is not a solution.

If you are satisfied, then; If you are not satisfied with me, please ask, thank you!