My family is against it, and I still have to marry him

Age is not a problem, let alone separation. The question is, why can't you live without him? What happens if you leave him?

IMHO, you're not going to say what you really think online, are you? You just want to try your luck and see if anyone can say what you think and give you a reason why you don't want to marry?!

It seems that you have determined something. In that case, why do you bother to ask questions online?

Talking metaphorically? Are you afraid that he will see it? Hehe. It's nothing, just think it out for yourself.

In short, don't do the kind of hot-headed thing. Don't do that kind of thing that is swayed by rebellious mentality. Settle down and think about the consequences, listen to the opinions of family and friends, and weigh the pros and cons. After all, they won't hurt you.

Forgive your exploitation. ）

Communicate well with your family. You can ask relatives and friends to come forward and discuss together.

If the majority of opinions are inclined to oppose it, the eyes of the masses will be clear.

Take a more objective opinion on what is good for yourself.

The dead end is walked into by yourself, and others can't call it out, only by yourself.

If you don't want to come out, then watch it yourself.

Once you said: Everything is empty! Look down on everything and laugh at life!

Then marry and your parents will understand you.

Since you have a brave choice, you must have the courage to face it.

What a big deal, isn't it just getting married, you can try to live together.

It depends on his attitude towards you, if he doesn't say anything good to you, you can marry him. He just needs to be good to you, and he will not live with his parents for the rest of his life, and it is most important to find a person who loves him the most. But your parents are also good for you, and it's normal to worry, just be good to you.

Maybe, I said maybe one day you will regret it.

I don't think it's your problem, the supermarket is competing with you for customers, and you can't grab it, so you need to think about changing careers and selling something else. What is the reason for the refusal, generally speaking, the reason for the refusal may be insufficient funds, the materials are not complete, if your husband is okay with these, it is unlikely to be rejected, generally there is a refusal letter, study it carefully, correct the deficiencies, and then go to the visa again, I don't think you have to blame yourself too much,

Do you want to ask Shenma... Let's post it in person, Yaya

Don't blame yourself for being fine, and if that's your fault, then you better stop talking, who doesn't have a little bit of difficulty in their lives.

You don't think it's good for these two things in 3 years?

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Free love is a person who follows your own preferences and wishes, and I think it is also advocated by modern young people. But often this kind of relationship needs to pass the final review of relatives and friends in the end, so that the dust can be settled. I don't think you're cowardly, I can see that you have a lot of reluctance, you are a very kind, filial girl, although you have a certain depth of affection with him, but you did not go against the wishes of your family and did the opposite, you still considered a lot of aspects to make yourself very difficult.

You have to think about it, in fact, they are all for your future, your parents are all people who have come over, and they are more concerned about your future.

If your relationship between the two of you is indeed very good, so good that you can feel that you can trust each other for life, and you feel that the other party will never treat you badly, and you only like each other in your life, and only have feelings for each other, I think you two should work hard to be together, otherwise it will be a pity! If you don't have any affirmation in these and you hesitate, I think it's better to rely on your parents, they will never change their hearts to you, and they will be good for you unconditionally.

If his family is against it, I don't think it's necessary.

In the end, I still say one thing: love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a family matter.

If you can't solve the respective concerns of both families, and you can't get everyone's recognition and blessing, you two will be uncomfortable, right? If two people want to be really together, then use facts to prove that they are not wrong, they are a real couple, and they can dispel the ......... of the elders on both sides after a long timeWishing you both happiness! If you can't be together, it's better to get together and disperse!

A 4-hour drive is also a long distance, so simply take home as the center of the circle and draw a circle with a radius of 20 kilometers.

Talk openly and honestly about this issue with the other party, and after getting married and living in **, how do the two parents take care of it, and see what his attitude is? Have you ever had a responsible practical idea, and have you made a real plan for your future?

Don't be upset, it won't solve anything. Carefully observe whether the person you meet online is reliable before making a decision.

Family members must have some reason against your relationship.

It has been passed down from ancient times to the present: filial piety comes first.

Children must not only be filial, but also obedient.

Of course, it is indeed very happy and happy to meet a rare and precious love.

I believe that as long as you truly love each other, you think he is worthy of your love, communicate well with your family, I think every parent hopes that their children can be happy, take out your happiness, show your achievements, I believe that when the economic conditions are sufficient, your family will still object? To put it bluntly, opposition is just a form of worry, and when you are living well, will your family still be worried? Isn't it???

Hope it helps!

Love is a necessary condition for marriage, but marriage cannot be blind, marriage is only the beginning of life. You're so far apart and don't really spend much time together, how well do you get to know each other? If the status quo of the two places cannot be changed, even if it is difficult to get married in the future, the happiness index is very low, and the gradually dull married life after marriage cannot withstand the barrier of space; Don't always think that your parents don't understand your feelings, just because they understand it, they stop you!

They are the people who want you to be happy the most in this world, so don't easily dismiss your parents' opinions, countless facts show that parents are usually right and want you to be cautious. Of course, after two years of getting along, there are still feelings, so it will be a little painful to separate... However, don't trust people's feelings too much, miss him, and you will find that there are better men ahead.

Calm down, calm down, calm down, think about why the family is against it? Are you really suitable? Is there a problem with the other party's character, don't regret it later, your youth is only once, there is no regret medicine to buy, your family will not harm you, after the knot, it will be firewood, rice, oil and salt, find a man who loves you, so it is not tiring!

As long as you have a good relationship, nothing else is a problem! You have the final say in your own love!

Love can't be blind, test it more.

I also encountered this problem at the beginning, I insisted on not marrying him, and now I have my wish, I am already the mother of two babies, he is still out of town, as a person who has come over, it is recommended to get along for a long time, to see if he is worthy of entrusting for life, and you should also understand his family, after all, you need to get along with his family after marriage.

I don't know.

You live together, you should know this best.

If you don't want to give up, it must be because you are reluctant, whether you are reluctant to give up, or you have to ask yourself.

He loves you, why does he care.

Because he loves you and you are most important to him. Even if the whole world thinks you are bad and opposes it, but in his heart you are his whole world.

It is not easy for two people to come together, the Buddha said, 500 times in the past life to look back in exchange for a passing in this life, two people come together what a fate, increase can be easily given up.

Then find a suitable one to marry, if not, I'll introduce you to one.

Happiness just goes with the flow, it's not that hard.

They say it's good for you, but they don't want to ** what will happen to you. Didn't think about your feelings! I feel the same way!

The whole world you blow it up, not everyone likes him.

(⊙o⊙)…You can say this to Wang Junkai, as long as he is willing, you can get married.

Go ahead, go ahead, I'm not one of your enemies anyway, I don't love him.

It depends on his attitude, otherwise it will be in vain.

Don't you worry if he'll marry you?

If you truly love each other, you will be happy even if you get married without the blessing of your parents, and it won't be long before your parents change their minds and accept you again.

It depends on whether your boyfriend loves you or not, whether he has the strength or not, if so, you can discuss it with your parents, say it well, and disagree with the decision

If you don't have the approval of your parents, you won't be happy.

If you don't marry him, get married.