Is my ex boyfriend a scumbag like this? Boys

Updated on psychology 2024-02-21
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In this case, he should still have you in his heart. I didn't take you out of my heart. So, you have to make it clear to him that you are not hopeless. Or, you just get rid of him from your circle of friends. It can't be said that he is a scumbag.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He still likes you. I miss you, but it's hard to ask for a reunion. If you give him a step, let him understand that the reunion will be successful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why is it normal for lovers to break up and become enemies? If two people are not together, many situations are inappropriate, but it is by no means a contradiction between friend and foe, and they can also be ordinary friends. In this way, it is understandable that he did this, and you are friends.

    You don't want to see what he does, you can take the initiative to block ah, if you want.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That means that although you and he broke up, he still treats you as a friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You broke up with your ex-boyfriend for 6 months, and from time to time you still like and comment on your circle of friends, and even want to sing to you when chatting, so you are not a scumbag, although he does not propose to reunite, it means that there is a window paper between you, no one wants to pierce and no one wants to speak first, and no one on WeChat on both sides is willing to delete the goods and join the blacklist, which means that you have no self-confidence between you, and you can see that you are still in love with each other, just don't say it! I think who proposed to break up first, this layer of window paper should be pierced and bowed to admit mistakes, there is no right or wrong between love, only mutual tolerance, mutual understanding and mutual trust can come together, come on!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    is not a scumbag, a scumbag belongs to an irresponsible kind, which is equal to a person without ideals, revenge, and morality. Although your ex-boyfriend is separated from you, he is still reluctant to give up on you and always pay attention to you. In addition, he doesn't have a girlfriend yet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The person you once loved is easy to forget. This is quite normal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have a problem with the definition of a scumbag. He must have wanted to get back together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Based on this alone, it can't be said that he is a scumbag, after all, he didn't say that he wanted to get back together with you or be ambiguous, maybe he just felt that he wanted to be ordinary friends with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The two of you broke up, but he often pays attention to you, and even talks and laughs with you as before, through his various performances, he can't be said to be a scumbag. If he hasn't mentioned the reunion to you for so long, it means that he regards you as a good friend, and if you don't like to face him, you can directly explain to him what you mean, so that he doesn't bother you anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe I still have you in my heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's subtly trying to make you accept him again, if he doesn't have a girlfriend, he can't actually be said to be a scumbag.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After all, a friend, don't think too badly of people, whatever he wants, it's okay to be a person you know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It may be that your ex-boyfriend regrets it and wants to get back together with you, but he can't save face, so he takes the initiative to communicate with you, wants to be friends with you, and takes retreat as advance, boiling frogs in warm water, hoping to re-ignite the spark of love with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, from another point of view, he should treat you as his best friend, because after all, as long as you don't mention getting back together, your behavior is completely the behavior that may exist between relatives and friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Answer: A boy who says he is a scumbag, in fact, in many cases, he has been called a scumbag too many times. It means that he must have something to hide from you, and it must be something that makes you sad, since he has given up on you like this, forget it, how can I reply when my ex-boyfriend said that he is a scumbag.

    Answer: A boy who says he is a scumbag, in fact, in many cases, he has been called a scumbag too many times. It means that he must have something to hide from you, and it must be something that makes you sad, since he has given up on you like this, forget it, you like him, he doesn't like you.

    Either you will be ruthless, force yourself to forget the past, take the initiative to move forward, and after a while, you will slowly come out, and your life will gradually brighten up again. Or continue to chase him, ask him, and continue to have emotional entanglements with him, and then he will be sad and sad, and you will be sad and entangled, until you encounter pain and don't want to touch it again, tired to despair, and in desperation, you choose to wipe away your tears and stand up, passively return to your own life, and slowly come out after a while, your life will gradually brighten up again. You can see that both scenarios are the same, but the second one you will waste a long time and suffer more.

    Of course, in the second case, there is also a small probability that he will change his mind and the prodigal son will turn back. You can choose the second scenario and expect this small probability event to occur in the future, but you have to bet on the most precious time of your youth to verify it. Let's see if you're willing to waste your youth for a self-proclaimed scumbag.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it's not a big problem that your current boyfriend and your ex-scumbag are in the same county, the main thing is that you have to tell your current boyfriend about this history, after all, the place is too small, and the chance of encountering it is very large. Otherwise, you may meet your ex in the future, and it will not be good to cause misunderstandings at that time. Secondly, if you are still entangled with your ex, it is best to be able to solve the finches, and don't cause conflicts between the three parties because of these entanglements, which will make it even more troublesome.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you or Kumu and give you the following answers: 1. Question background When you find out that your boyfriend and your ex scumbag are in the same county, you may feel very confused and frustrated. This situation can make you panic because you don't know what to do.

    2. Cause analysisThis situation may be due to the fact that your boyfriend and your ex scumbag have a common circle of friends, or they have common social activities, or they have common interests and hobbies, or they have a common family background, etc. 3. Solution 1First of all, you should be honest with your boyfriend, let him know about your uneasiness, and ask about their relationship.

    2.Secondly, you should keep your distance from your ex scumbag and don't give them a chance to get together. 3.

    Finally, you should hang out with your boyfriend often to give them a chance to get to know each other more and strengthen their relationship. 4. Personal ExperienceWhen you find out that your boyfriend and your ex-scumbag are the same county, you may feel very confused and frustrated. However, don't worry, as long as you maintain open communication with your boyfriend and keep your distance from your ex, your relationship will also become more stable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1.If a boy has many exes, it is clear that he is usually a scumbag. Girls generally prefer boyfriends who have no history of being in a relationship.

    It's as if their boyfriends are pure boys who meet their own standards and won't do any harm to themselves. A boy who has been in love five or six times is simply a scumbag in the eyes of girls. As long as the boy dares to advance his girlfriend, it is definitely a dead end.

    one. But in fact, such a guy who has been in love is better for you than you imagined to be a simple boy!

    2.Men like the new and hate the old, this is nature, and women can't change it. So, if a woman finds a guy who has never been in a relationship before, he is absolutely interested in other women out there at any time and can leave you at any time.

    Men are simply handy about feelings, and they can't learn if they want to. That's why it's so hard to succeed in first love. But a guy who has been in love five or six times has seen all kinds of women.

    Therefore, even if more women appear in front of him, he will not be moved anymore because he has already felt their taste. Now, he just wants to be with you and live a stable life. Comparatively speaking, men who have actually been in a relationship will be more practical.

    It can't be said that he is not interested in women outside.

    3.The boyfriend a woman wants most is not to say anything. He knows what you want at a glance. But such a thing, to be honest, is really a fantasy. No one is really a roundworm in your stomach.

    If you don't explain it clearly, it's really hard for others to understand. Especially those boys who have never been in love, they don't understand women's minds at all, they are what women say, they are what they are, and they don't have their own consciousness at all, but often women are duplicitous. Therefore, in the face of such a boy, the girl will be completely angry with him.

    But a guy who has been in love five or six times has experience in love. In fact, girls all over the world have similar thoughts. Although he can't fully grasp his girlfriend's thoughts, he can definitely draw conclusions based on experience that will make his girlfriend happy.

    Even if he really doesn't understand, he can know how to make girls happy. So girls who often fall in love with such boys will have more ease.

    4.Girls love romance, no matter how old they are. But romance that girls like is an absolute must.

    A boy who has never been in a relationship will always think of the plot in a TV idol drama, or put candles on the Internet to send balloons to buy roses or something, which is definitely not the best romantic way for girls. But boys who have been in love will prepare some small surprises for their girlfriends at any time in their daily lives, and will not embarrass girls in front of everyone, but will be envied by others, which is what girls really want.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think I'm going to do anything about it, just don't contact this person again.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now that we have broken up, there is no need to have anything to do with him. Protect yourself from scumbags.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Ignore it, it's already an ex, so don't care about him, just be yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are far away from him, you must be glad that you are not with him, fortunately you broke up, otherwise you would be miserable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Forget the past and live your life to the fullest.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are many exes of the boy is not necessarily a scumbag, but you must mind, there are only two reasons why he has so many exes: either he loves to play, so you don't have to believe the touching words that accept him and say that he has changed, the scumbag has always been a routine.

    Either he doesn't care about it, but he has a deep-rooted reason why he can't let others persist in patience! This is serious, you won't find it at first, but after a long time, when you find out, it's hard for you to put it aside and ignore it. So you'll want to change him, it's ridiculous!

    But he's so ingrained that you'll be disappointed. It's still you who will be uncomfortable when it's over!

    See if he is sincere in every relationship, and if he just wants to have fun, then leave him quickly. Recently, I was honest with my boyfriend about the past, and he has had four exes in the last 10 years, all of them when he was a student, except for me. The time spent together is 1 to 2 years, and the longest is not more than 3 years.

    There are those who have been disappointed when they were young, because they drifted apart from each other, and finally broke up because of the disagreement between the three views. Among them, when his relationship with the second one was exhausted, he hooked up with the third one without breaking up, and the two persisted for more than two years in the eyes of everyone because they broke up in a different place, which is the longest relationship.

    I minded, and he regretted it, thinking that he was too young at the time and should have handled it better. His Weibo is never deleted, so I can easily find his interactions with his predecessors during the Weibo boom period, and I can feel that the third one is a very gentle and positive person, maybe this is the reason why they can be together for the longest time.

    And I have almost no experience in a relationship except for a few failed crushes. I told him that I would never talk about these things again, but I felt very uncomfortable, I didn't know if it would get better in a few days, and I was still so sad that I cried when I thought about it these days.

    What I don't mind is not that he has many exes, but that except for a gap period before me, almost every one of his terms is seamlessly switched, which means that his feelings are easily transferred. After the relationship enters a quiet period, he seems to be easily attracted to other people.

    He has been very good to me in the year we have been together, and he will not deliberately hide his past. It is undeniable that his thoughtfulness and gentleness now owe it to his predecessor, because he was really hot-tempered, and I am not a particularly calm person, but he is willing to let me go most of the time.

    I knew about his wonderful past from the beginning, but I still chose to be together because I felt that he dared to love and hate, and it was not okay to go back in style. At the beginning of the beginning, I just wanted to fall in love, and as the days went by, I minded more and more things, and I was very tired.

    I thought he was a responsible, single-minded person, but in fact he was able to quickly enter a new relationship after a flat relationship several times, and this perception was a bit different from what I imagined him, and I thought far away and even feared that we would end up like this. On the other hand, I am so upset probably because I don't have absolute confidence in his feelings for me, and I don't have absolute confidence in my own conditions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There are a lot of exes whose boys are not all scumbags, such as me, and my friends are not.

    In June 2010, I stepped into the green high school campus, well-behaved, quiet I thought that this high school might be quietly completed for three years, but God will always tease you, in your most youthful, most ignorant period, suddenly appeared a girl, she is very aggressive, can not only take you to play, but also to take you hi, and in a school that are all boarding students, you and I became the only two running students in the class.

    So two people from different worlds came together like this, because when we were studying at school at night, it was already 11 o'clock in the evening, so you came to me and asked, can you escort home, I was really innocent at that time, my face was red at that time, and slowly said, yes.

    Since then, we have become inseparable good friends, talking and laughing together on the road at night, seeing fun and starting to play, sometimes playing until 12 o'clock before returning home, my introverted personality is slowly influenced by you, and gradually cheerful, just in adolescence, I gradually fell in love with you.

    In the second half of the first year of junior high school, when the arts and sciences were divided, you chose the liberal arts, and I did not hesitate to be the same as you, and went to the same class together, when you saw me, you felt very surprised at first, and said with a smile, we can play together again. I said, "yes." At this time, I made up my mind to start looking for a chance to confess to you and explain everything, we were very happy together, and then she went to pursue a new life after going to college.

    In the emotional world, men and women are equal, and everyone yearns for a love that can be married once, but this world seems to make us unable to do this simple point, always hurting each other, I once heard such a sentence "In the love world, whoever is serious loses".

    Yes, but if you have real love, how can you not be serious, otherwise it's not just playing, it's better to play each, so that you don't get hurt, wouldn't it be better. Emotional articles, many are saying that girls are hurt, but you have to remember that boys are also human beings, and they have taken their first relationship seriously, and even thought about getting married.

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