What s so unusual when a guy doesn t love his girlfriend?

When you fall in love with someone, the other person's shortcomings become strengths, and vice versa.

I don't want to go out with her often, I don't want to talk more on the other end of the **, in short, I don't want to be with you.

Visibly absent-minded when he speaks. Looking at you as if you were looking at someone else.

This is something that people inside can naturally feel, no need to ask people,

The first is impatience for anything, including ever tirelessly doing things for you. The second is to pick you up and say a few words, and then stay outside every day. And the most important thing is that there is less sex Actually, I don't know what's going on around you, and I don't know what your original intention is in asking this question, but I want you to face everything bravely, there are some things that can't be forced, although many people will say this, but this is the truth, everyone has been young, everyone has worked a hundred times hard for her who doesn't love herself, but what did she get in the end?

It's all dismissive, so trust me, no matter what happens, please be brave and face everything. Let him know that you're doing just fine. Everything will pass, if you really feel bad, you can contact me to help you solve your problems.

The easiest thing is not to actively chat with you.

It's annoying, and I make a lot of excuses not to meet.

Ignore her, don't tell her, and don't care whether she lives or dies, this is the time when men are cold and feel that their girlfriends are not interesting.

I won't take the initiative to chat with my girlfriend, and I'm not willing to spend money on my girlfriend, I'll complain to my girlfriend, and at the same time, I won't show concern, I will often scold my girlfriend, etc., if you have these performances, it means that the boy doesn't like you at all.

Men will ignore their girlfriends, and they will often have a cold war with their girlfriends, and they will not warm their girlfriends, and they will not pick up their girlfriends, they will be very annoying when they see your friends, etc., these performances are all manifestations of men not loving girlfriends.

I often don't come home at night. Don't reply to your messages. It doesn't care about the state of your day today.

Lukewarm to you. There will even be some states of boredom. Constantly yelling at you.

Not allowing you to interfere in his life, these are all symptoms of him not loving you.

If a man doesn't love his girlfriend, they usually show impatience and don't care about her staying with other friends at all, even if he doesn't go home, he won't worry too much and won't take her home, and he doesn't care when others play with his girlfriend, and he won't be jealous.

If a man doesn't like his girlfriend, he may not value her very much in his life and will also ignore a lot of her thoughts and emotions. They don't have a common language with each other, and they always avoid some of each other's problems.

When a man doesn't love his girlfriend, he will behave very indifferently, not have other communication with the other party, and will not often contact the other party, and even become wary of his girlfriend.

Generally, they feel that the other party is very annoying, unwilling to communicate with the other party, and unwilling to go out with the other party. Often coldly violent and ignore the existence of the other party.

It's just that I don't care about some of the other party's lives, I don't care about the other party's emotions, and I don't take the initiative to understand.

Boyfriends have very exciting times, and there will be indescribable moments. Sometimes even if he doesn't do anything, he will feel a little annoyed for some reason, but after a few hours or a day or two, he will feel good again, and I like him again, and I don't know what is going on with me. So today, let's take a look at why you suddenly start to hate your boyfriend?

1.There is a deviation in the perception of love, and love is regarded as a feeling.

When two people are first together, they must be full of heartbeat, sweetness and romance, but as the time of two people increases and they become familiar with each other, the feelings of heartbeat, freshness and enthusiasm will slowly disappear, which is normal. When many people are in love, they will regard love as a feeling, thinking that love is heartbeat, electrocution, freshness and enthusiasm. For such a person, when he has no feelings for the other half, he will feel that he does not love the other person anymore and wants to leave, even if the other person is not at fault.

But love is not just a feeling, it is an attachment relationship formed between two people; In this relationship, the two place their feelings on each other, build intimacy and take responsibility. And people who regard love as a feeling will only form a short-term attachment relationship, and each love will not last long, and it is difficult to escape the endless cycle of pursuing novelty-losing feeling-and then pursuing freshness.

2.I don't like my boyfriend very much.

Some girls will become more and more resistant to their boyfriends, because they have no feelings for their boyfriends. Ancient people often said that Xiu'en love dies quickly, even if it is not a good person, if you like him, then everything about him makes me feel very happy. On the other hand, if you don't like this person anymore, then the whole situation of him will make you very bored.

Everyone often hears such a sentence, the song ends and people disperse, which may also indirectly show that after there is no emotion, many things will be more and more lacking. Because it is true that a person falls in love with a city, and because a person hates a city. And when you don't like your boyfriend anymore, then he is a passerby, and a passerby can feel very embarrassed when he touches you intimately all day long.

3.The stress of life.

Having a child means that the two of them have to bear all the expenses of the child before he or she becomes an adult, as well as the child's education. Originally, two people with economic ** and the ability to live could live a very chic life, but now they have to work hard to bear the pressure of life. Two people have to run for life, they have to dedicate their strength to their families, and at the same time, as the mother of the child, they will think more than their husbands, and at the same time, the pressure is greater.

Therefore, after many mothers have children, they will suddenly become strong and want to support their children.

It usually disappears suddenly, and then it doesn't take the initiative to contact its girlfriend, and it's not willing to spend money for her or do something for her girlfriend. Every time I quarrel, I always have a cold war and ignore my girlfriend. I am also reluctant to introduce my friends to each other.

will show that they are very indifferent to each other, and at the same time, they will often perfunctory each other, they don't like to have some physical contact with each other, and their girlfriends will be very disgusted when they say some more intimate words, or they will often lose their temper with each other, without considering each other's emotions and feelings.

Men who don't love their girlfriends behave, 1He often loses his temper with you, and he doesn't try to make you happy. 2.Ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex. 3.Prolonged cold violence.

Emotionally very cold, can't speak sweetly, isn't particularly active, doesn't pay attention to details in life, is very slow to reply to messages, and doesn't care about his girlfriend at all.

A man who doesn't love his girlfriend generally doesn't care about his girlfriend, doesn't worry about her, and doesn't feel that she has anything to make you nostalgic. Ignoring his girlfriend is like a stranger, and even loses his temper with him, beating a man like him should not like his girlfriend.

A man who doesn't love his girlfriend will not care about his girlfriend at all in his heart. Usually get along with your girlfriend is always perfunctory girlfriend.,And will show a particularly impatient look.。 He will quarrel with his girlfriend over a trivial matter because he wants to find a reason to break up with his girlfriend.

A person who doesn't love his girlfriend, maybe he is generally reluctant to meet his girlfriend, unwilling to talk about his own affairs with his girlfriend, and unwilling to go out shopping with his girlfriend, in short, everywhere is like a stranger, not very close, these manifestations are a man who does not love his girlfriend.

He doesn't spend any money, he doesn't let his mobile phone touch it, and he always advocates the AA system, and even asks women to spend money on him, doesn't do housework, and plays games to find cp.

One, completely ignoring your feelings, although men are thicker than women, but no one is really low EQ and has no feelings for the other party's feelings, even if it is a man who really can't coax people and cares about people, when you are angry, he will say a few good words, or accompany you to be silent. At least he won't be completely like a nobody, doing what he should do, ignoring your feelings. Especially when you have just started to get along, he should be more attentive to you at this time, if you can't get his care, then it is even more impossible to hope that he cares about you in the future.

Maybe a person has a very wooden personality, can't say nice things, and doesn't know how to comfort people at all, but sincerity and sincerity can be felt. If you're still asking yourself"Does he love me or not?"When it is"Not loved", whether he was raising fish or not, that is"Fish farming"。At this time, the relationship between you should be carefully examined, as long as you are not overdone, then ignoring your feelings is basically equivalent to not loving you so much, maybe there is a liking, but this kind of liking is not worth all kinds of trivialities in the long years ahead.

The other is that you are too pretentious because everyone acquiesces to men coaxing girls, so sometimes girls will be more sensitive, and they hope that the other party will coax them when there is a little wind and grass, and it may be okay at first, but if the other party is busy with work, it will be more tiring to deal with this kind of thing often. Slowly, he will ignore your requests, because it is not a big deal, in which case you have to communicate well in conjunction with Marshall Luxemburg's "Nonviolent Communication". Learn to state objective facts, which here refers to objective facts, such as you didn't pick me up when it rained today, not that you didn't come to pick me up or you didn't love me, these are two completely different expressions.

Then express your feelings, such as being uncomfortable, instead of blaming, why don't you come, at least see if the other person has any reason first. Finally, it is to propose a solution, and some people only complain that communication without giving the direction of the solution is vexatious, because the other party does not know what you want to do. In fact, normal boyfriends and girlfriends must have comfort and care, and it is impossible to be unwavering about each other's emotions, and even change the topic to escape.

Although liking someone is not so exaggerated, I will pay attention to her words and deeds, but if we can continue to be together, we must be interested in each other's lives. Because being willing to listen to even inconsequential topics must be genuinely interested in what the other person cares about. And in the process of communication, a lot of common emotions will be accumulated.

That is, every sentence has a response, and you keep talking nonsense, he thinks it is very interesting, and he will be willing to listen, so that you can come and go, form a good positive cycle, and the relationship will continue.

Treat feelings very indifferently and not single-mindedly, with you and without you, it's the same, and treat feelings in the twilight.

Summary. There are many manifestations that your girlfriend may not love you, and here are some of the more common ones:1

Unwilling to spend time with you, or always looking for excuses to refuse to meet you, parties or relationship development bottlenecks. 2.Communicating with you in a trance, with a cold voice, not caring much about what you're talking about, or always in a hurry to end the conversation and flee easily.

3.Persistently exudes negative emotions and attitudes towards you, often complaining and criticizing things you do or the way you behave. 4.

Pretending to care about you is often for the sake of superficial intentions, and inaction is inactive, even destroying your normal development and living space. 5.I don't want to communicate with you about my experiences or emotions, and I can't mend the hatred between you together; Even if you open up to her, she will respond casually or indifferently.

6.They do not pay attention to the impact or harm to your words and actions, and rely on some intense issues to spread content or abusive comments that do not meet the standards and have a sense of other existence.

You still don't have to go to work until 7 p.m. After a full meal just now, I got dressed after taking a shower and said I was going to go.

There are many manifestations that your girlfriend may not love you, and here are some of the more common ones:1Unwilling to spend time with you, or always looking for excuses to refuse to meet you, parties or relationship development bottlenecks.

2.When communicating with you, he is in a trance, his voice is cold, he doesn't care much about what you're talking about, or he is always in a hurry to end the conversation and flee easily. 3.

Persistently exudes negative emotions and attitudes towards you, often complaining and criticizing things you do or the way you behave. 4.Pretending to care about you is often for the sake of superficial intentions, and inaction is inactive, even destroying your normal development and living space.

5.I don't want to communicate my experiences or emotions with you, and I can't mend the hatred between you together; Even if you open up to her, she will respond casually or indifferently. 6.

They do not pay attention to the impact or harm to your words and deeds, and rely on some intense issues to spread content or abusive comments that do not meet the standards of your existence and other existence.

My girlfriend only went to work at 7 p.m. Just after I had eaten and I had taken a shower, he got dressed and said he was going over.

If the above situations occur, it is recommended that you calmly think about whether you and your girlfriend still need to develop.

He went 10 kilometers and said he was afraid of traffic jams. I don't understand.

Dear, in such a situation, you can take a look at the first situation mentioned by the teacher above.

I really don't know if he loves me or not. There were seven hours left to go to work, and he said he was going to pass.

Dear, if this is often the case, it may be that the relationship has become weaker, if it is only once or twice, then you can't make up your mind.

Dear, it is recommended that you sit down with your girlfriend to talk, and you can say your thoughts and see what kind of attitude your girlfriend has. If it's really no emotion, then it's good to get together and scatter the judgment, and no longer delay each other's time, if it's because of other things, talk about this matter in time, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings that will affect the relationship between you.