The super parenting teacher has a sense of willfulness

Extraction code: n8sq0 "Super Parenting Teacher" is China's first genuine parenting reality show that has swept the world; For the first time, the whole process of "bear child" becoming "good baby" and "crazy parent" becoming "parenting expert" is truly presented in the form of a reality show.

Most of the children's problems come from the wrong parenting style of the parents, too many parents can only find the surface problems of their children, but they have not analyzed the problems in depth at all.

In the future, if I find children's problems when educating children, I think I can try to solve them in the following aspects:

1. In-depth analysis of why children have formed current problems, which can be analyzed from the following perspectives:

1) For example, crying questions: Why is she crying? What problem does she hope to solve by crying? Why did she form such a logic of thinking and solving problems? What is her real appeal behind it? What could have caused her to have such problems?

When a child has a problem, we need to conduct an in-depth problem analysis, dig out the key to the problem, and clarify the problem before we can solve the problem.

2) Reflect on whether there is a problem with the parenting style of yourself and your partner, and what wrong parenting style of yourself and your father's family causes the child to form such problems? Think about how we can work together to help your child solve a problem.

Children are a blank sheet of paper, early and childhood problems are often the problems of poor education of parents and families, as parents must often reflect on and summarize, start from their own changes, and grow up with their children.

3) To help children solve problems, trust, understanding, love, recognition, and encouragement are the most basic conditions for helping children solve problems. Always let the child feel that his parents are understanding, caring, and newcomers, so that he can really help him solve problems. Confrontation, denial, attack, coercion, and control are not the ways that children want, and they cannot really solve the problem, but only make the conflict more obvious and intensified.

4) Formulate a clear solution, practice patiently, and find that the problem needs to be adjusted in time. How to formulate the right and appropriate solutions to children's problems is a test of parents' ability, and I still need to learn more professional knowledge here. You can continue to learn and supplement, and hope that you can solve problems flexibly and correctly.

Let's talk a little bit more about my feelings.

In fact, whether it is an adult or a child, we are basically ordinary people, no matter what age we want to be loved, trusted, understood and supported, these points were missing in my childhood, so it also led to a series of problems in my adulthood. I hope that I can do a good job in this area in the future and lay a good foundation for the baby's childhood. Let him feel loved, trusted and understood at all times, and be able to face his family and society with confidence.

Be a confident child.

Refuse to spoil and help the child to be independent, eat, dress, and do some housework independently, so that he can feel the joy of independence. Excessive protection and pampering will eventually cause him to be unable to connect with society, or to be miserable. Spoiling is the least thing to do.

Learning must be multifaceted, in addition to grades, to cherish every talent of the baby, do not blindly emphasize the grades. Don't stifle your baby's curiosity, accompany her to know and feel the world, let him know that the world is wonderful, and that mom and dad love him and appreciate his multifaceted abilities.

**"Let's talk" has 600 words.

Today, I worked with my mother and mother-in-law on a program called "Let's Talk", which touched me deeply.

The issue I watched was Lin Zhiying's speech. As soon as Lin Zhiying appeared, the audience became a sensation, and the applause became more and more enthusiastic. But the mother-in-law didn't think so

Really, what can a star say! This career is obviously a smooth ride! But then Lin Zhiying told about the hardships of his fame, which made his mother-in-law's attitude towards him change 180 degrees.

It turns out that it is not easy to be a big star, and it is even more difficult to be a dream fulfiller! But Lin Zhiying is not afraid of difficulties, moves forward bravely, and strives to realize her dreams. In the show's ** liquid shirt, Lin Zhiying's firm words have all been strong** shaking our hearts.

Many people at the scene had tears shining in their eyes. Mom looked at it, her eyes were full of tears, and she subconsciously picked up a handkerchief to wipe it, while her mother-in-law nodded and praised Lin Zhiying while watching, saying that it was good that he dared to fight for his dream! And I looked at Lin Zhiying on the TV screen thoughtfully.

Everyone has a dream in their hearts and wants to realize it, but on the way to realize it, there will be some unexpected difficulties and ups and downs, and many people give up the most precious dream in their lives because they are afraid or can't stand the difficulties. Lin Zhiying once said: I am a dream realizer, not a dreamer, and a dreamer only says but does not do.

I think Lin Zhiying's sentence is awesome, because only with dreams can people work hard, and because dreams can make people work hard! In the end, people can taste the joy of dream success. What impressed me the most was what he said:

What if I'm questioned, I want to prove that I can win! This sentence made me think for a long time, yes, in the process of realizing my dreams, I will definitely be questioned, disapproved, and even ridiculed and ridiculed by others, but we can't back down because of this kind of difficulty, don't they say we can't? Well, we'll show them that we can do it!

I can do it! Please don't underestimate us!

In the end, I just want to say that the realization of dreams is not sent to you by others, let alone falling from the sky, but by your hard work, as long as you are not afraid of difficulties and move forward bravely, you can achieve success!

"Super Parenter" is China's first large-scale parenting reality show jointly produced by CCTV Financial Channel and 80 Productions.

This is the first time that China has introduced a parent-child parenting reality show that has swept the world; For the first time, the whole process of "bear child" becoming "good baby" and "crazy parent" becoming "parenting expert" is truly presented in the form of a reality show. The program will be committed to creating a practical and authoritative parenting book for hundreds of millions of young parents in China in an entertaining and educational way. The scarce program format will fill the gap of China's reality TV shows and set a new benchmark for China's reality TV shows!

The first season of the program has been broadcast, and the second season of the program is currently being broadcast, starting from July 27, 2014 at 19:30 every Sunday night, CCTV Financial Channel (CCTV-2) broadcast.

The 20140110 issue of "Super Parenter" --- the square is a place for people to relax and relax, and when the child comes to the vast square, his careful chest will become broader, in this place, why can't the child run? Why label it as 'running around'? What is Runaway?

What is not running around? I don't know how this parenting teacher is defined?

If a three-year-old child is quietly in the square, or walks according to the line, will the mother worry: why is my child so unsocial? Inactive? Introverted?.. Will such a label be attached to the child?

At this time, I am thinking of:

How can a three-year-old behave on the playground without making adults anxious?

What is the normal state of a three-year-old on the playground?

Are there any dangerous places in the square? There will definitely be! So, how do we remind children to move within a safe range, in fact, it is the homework of mothers, and it should also be the scope of parenting teachers to help mothers, rather than beating them to death

Running around the square is dangerous, and this definition is a bit sloppy! At the same time, it also conforms to the anxiety of mothers, and will deepen the anxiety and worry of mothers even more!