My boyfriend and I propose to break up, and my boyfriend proposes to break up with me, what should I

Updated on society 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then your boyfriend's breakup should be impulsive.

    Otherwise, he wouldn't regret trying to make amends.

    You are now not a contradiction and a question of whether he is separated or not.

    You ask your heart.

    If it is true to love him.

    Your first priority is to improve your wayward temper.

    If this doesn't solve it, your problems will still appear.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everybody makes mistakes, and it could be his impulsiveness, and it's up to him to make the same mistakes, and if he breaks up again, then you're going to have to leave him, because you've already given him a chance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are two people upstairs, I think you have a problem, as the saying goes: It is better to demolish a temple than to break a marriage. Yes, the owner of the building is not married, but after all, a relationship is a fate, dare to love you and say that you will be divided, really make yourself the matchmaker of the month?

    I think you and your boyfriend are not very old, they should be boys and girls in their early twenties, and it takes time for two people to run in together, and they must tolerate each other and understand each other in terms of personality. It's actually easy to understand that your boyfriend is like this, no man can really be very generous, I think everything will be fine when your boyfriend slowly matures in the future.

    To give you a suggestion, go to your boyfriend and talk to the two of you for a good time, spread out all the things you want to say, spread out all the problems in your heart, your boyfriend is indeed a little smaller, in the final analysis, because he doesn't have too much security. And if you want to cherish such a relationship, you have to be decisive in some other things, but if you feel tired and don't want to continue, then let it go.

    I hope you and your boyfriend are doing well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Young people are always impulsive, don't mind, life has to go on.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's where you are asked. Only you know what your heart thinks. Girls have to be clean and neat.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Make an appointment to have a meal together, and it won't be so tangled to explain the things that have been changed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When your boyfriend proposes to break up with you, you may not be willing to accept such a result and do something more extreme, which is very bad. If you really want to salvage the relationship, then the right thing to do is to give the other person some time and space for you to gradually fade your negative emotions.

    Reconnect with a good positive attitude.

    At the same time, use this time to think about whether there is anything wrong or bad that will lead to such a result during the time of the relationship between the two. If it's because of a third party's involvement, then I suggest you don't think about redeeming it anymore, even if you succeed in redeeming the other party this time, then there is no guarantee that he won't betray you again in the future, such feelings are not worth saving.

    If it's not because of a third party, it's because of some of your own reasons, then during this period of disconnection, what you need to do is to restrain the urge to contact the other party, think clearly about how to solve these problems, review yourself, ** needs to change, and make changes for the people you love. All feelings depend on hard work and management, so in order not to regret it for the rest of your life, try to redeem it.

    Some people want to redeem it completely out of true love and hope to spend the rest of their lives with each other, while some people want to redeem it not entirely because they really love each other, it may be that the other party first proposed to break up and was unwilling to want to redeem it, and it may be that they didn't meet a good object and didn't want to give up the current one, so there is no need to redeem it, so they can only embarrass themselves. Love is a two-way street, what attitude you have, the other party can also feel it, don't be lucky, if you don't love, don't try to redeem it.

    If you really love each other, you will involuntarily make changes for him, so that the other party can see your sincerity, and your efforts will be felt by him. But if the other party no longer has any feelings for you, then give up, for a person who no longer loves himself, it is not worth giving up dignity, I believe that in the future you will meet someone who is suitable for you, who loves you, and you also love him, and a beautiful person deserves a better person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think the first thing is to be clear about why he proposed to break up, instead of being sad or overwhelmed, and figure out the reason before finding a way to solve it. If you really don't love or see something different, then there is no need to keep it, and there is no need to be sad; If it is the reason at home, then you should give him care, comfort him, and accompany him to face difficulties!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend proposes to break up, first of all, you have to find the reason and talk to the other party for a while, if you feel that the two people have no way to solve the problem, you can also accept the other party's suggestion and break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should ask the other party why they broke up, and you should keep the other party, and you should also get along well with the other party, so that you can save the relationship between the two of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you still have this kind of feelings for your boyfriend, I think you don't agree in this case, only in this way will your boyfriend be with you well, and only then can the two of you have a better feeling, so you can disagree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the boyfriend proposes to break up, you can agree, because such a boyfriend is very irresponsible for the relationship, and such a relationship is easy to break down.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend asks you to break up, in this case, if you still love him, then go and keep him. Use your sincerity to keep him and see if you can keep him. If you really can't keep him, or you have thoughts of breaking up with him, then you can just break up in this case.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When her boyfriend proposes to break up with you, in fact, he doesn't love you so much in his heart, and he can give you up, if you think he is a very good man and want to win her back, then you have to change and become what he likes.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend proposes to break up with you, you can first ask your boyfriend why he broke up with you? If it's a small problem, then work together to overcome and solve it, if your boyfriend says I don't love you anymore and resolutely breaks up with you, then you can only choose to break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can first ask the other party what the reason is, and if it is really because of your own, you should agree to break up, because such a relationship is fruitless.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should let go in time, because with him, you won't be happy either.

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