My boyfriend proposed to me, but I was still studying

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, your boyfriend is not confident, he is afraid that after you work, he will abandon him if he meets a better one.

    Two, he wants you to be a housewife in the future.

    Three, if you don't have a graduation certificate, there will definitely be problems with your future survival, and he wants to trap you.

    A lot of things are up to you to analyze! He's afraid, so he wants to marry you early!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This man may not love you Just want to find a marriage partner You have to distinguish the truth from the fake in many things You are a student and too simple My good friend was fooled by others when she was in high school I think she is too innocent One of the man's eyes is fake And he beat her before marriage She even married him Later the man was violent I saw him beat my good friend I was in college at the time When I was about to divorce It dragged on for two years In short, the hardships cannot be replaced by one sentence You are still a student You're about to get married before you even enter society, and you won't understand it too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he really loves you, what's wrong with letting him wait for you for a year, how much does a man who only thinks about himself love you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't listen to him You can't ruin your future for a man, if you really don't study anymore and stay with him, what if he suddenly betrays you one day? Be careful!!

    I hope mine can help you!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Engaged, not married. Obtain the certificate and reorganize the banquet. It's all settled.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no conflict between studying and getting married, you are not in high school or below, are you? When I was in college, a classmate got married, and it was okay, I got married and studied for 2 years.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Life is short, family and marriage are two people's business. There should be mutual respect, understanding and trust between them. Now he won't let you read... If you think about it, how many people can't read it if they want to. A person's life, girl... People who like you will think about you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no conflict in getting married and reading, but it is best to finish reading before getting married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can get engaged, and you can get married after your job is stable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Does he really love you? Otherwise, why don't you want to study???

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. You have higher pursuits and goals, and you are still in the process of studying and studying, but your boyfriend wants to get married, and there is a contradiction between the two to a certain extent, especially if it disrupts some of your plans, if you don't want to marry your boyfriend at the moment, you tell him what you think in your heart.

    You have higher pursuits and goals, and you are still in the process of studying and studying, but your boyfriend wants to get married, and there is a contradiction between the two to a certain extent, especially if it disrupts some of your plans, if you don't want to marry your boyfriend at the moment, you will tell him what you think in your heart.

    I told him, but he still wanted to oppose me, because he was afraid that something would happen.

    If he understands you, he will respect your choice and will not force you to do something, and if it won't be too long, it's okay to wait.

    It's because I'm three years older, and if I choose to study, it's going to be a lot of delays, and there's a lot of uncertainty.

    It turns out that this is the case, he is three years older than you in terms of age But your studies have not been fully completed, so you don't want to get married yet, but his time may not be able to wait, and he is afraid that there will be a change in the cherry pants later, so if you get married, getting the certificate first will have a certain impact on your studies.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are three main reasons why I can accept a man getting married without proposing.

    First, there is nothing that a man who does not propose marriage cannot marry, I think the first thing is to see whether the emotions and feelings between you and this man can reach as high as imagined, because some men themselves are more wooden.

    This man will appear in time when you need it, this man will regret you all the time, but he won't give you good words and won't do some romantic things, then this man is the guardian in the eyes of many women, and he is the kind of man he wants to marry the most in his life, so don't miss it.

    Second, a man who does not propose marriage can of course marry, and not proposing does not mean that his feelings for you are fake, it does not mean that he is irresponsible, and it does not mean that he is not self-motivated. At most, he may be a man who doesn't pay attention to formality and doesn't be particularly romantic.

    As long as he is good to you, as long as he is responsible for the family, as long as he can take on the responsibilities of the family and be responsible for you, then this man is worth marrying, so don't look at something too superficial in marriage, you must sincerely feel the feelings of two people, as if everything is important. The other two people can think about each other, consider the problem from each other's standpoint, and solve some contradictions in Huai's life, then this is the most important thing.

    Third, I think whether the man you choose can marry him or not has nothing to do with whether the other party proposes to you, and you can't say that you won't marry him because the other party didn't propose to you, in fact, there are some boys who don't propose to girls like girls, mainly because he is more introverted before teasing him, but he must be very responsible for the girls he likes.

    If a girl is willing to marry him, then the life after marriage should be very happy and sweet, so when we consider whether we can marry each other, we should consider his character, his personality, his sense of responsibility and so on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This question should be asked to your heart.

    1. Whether you really love each otherWhy do you have doubts about your boyfriend's marriage proposal? I don't think that's enough to love. If two people really love each other, they should be full of expectations for the marriage proposal.

    Since I don't know if I should say yes or not, it means that I still don't love deeply enough.

    2. Whether you are determined to be togetherIf you don't love, then tell each other early and don't cause harm to each other. If you don't know enough, tell your boyfriend generously to see if he has the patience to wait for you.

    In the face of love, we must be honest and not accommodating. We must see each other's hearts and minds, and we can't make hasty choices in order to get married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, since you asked it, it means that you still have questions about him, and now you are not sure whether you should marry this man, then of course you should not accept his marriage proposal at this time, and it is recommended that you do not accept your boyfriend's proposal. There are several reasons for this:

    Clause. 1. Your boyfriend may love you very much now, but you don't love him enough in your heart. And you don't have the courage to give your life to this man, let alone face your boyfriend's marriage proposal and don't know what to do, so at this time you don't have the determination to spend your life with this man. Therefore, when your relationship is not deep enough, it is wise to refuse, and it is better to accept the proposal when the relationship between you is cultivated to a deeper level.

    Clause. Second, when facing a marriage proposal, there will be more factors to consider, because marriage is not a child's play, and it is necessary to be responsible and responsible. If a man and a woman find that it is not suitable after marriage, going to divorce again will cause great harm to both parties. Therefore, it is necessary to consider whether your personalities are compatible or not, and whether your family conditions are equal.

    So you have to take a good look at him, and you tell him that it doesn't mean that you don't want to marry him, but that you want to be more responsible for your future, and if he knows why, he will definitely respect your decision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really like each other, then don't put it off, let it go, because in this day and age, there are really not many people who you feel and like yourself. It's worth cherishing, and it's good for two people to work together for a lifetime.

    If I feel that I am suitable for each other in all aspects, and both parents approve of it, and I want to spend my life with such a person, I think I can get married. After all, you've been dating for more than a year, and I think it's good that you know each other's personalities and other things get along.

    To be able to propose to you must be ready to spend his life with you, he has thought clearly that the proposal is not only a ceremony, but also knows and assumes his responsibility, at this time he follows his true heart to respond.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you love him, then accept it, don't have so much pressure in your heart, do what you have to do, what you think in your heart, you do it, save it and regret it later, I think you should marry him and live together, after all, he loves you, the two of you get married, the most important thing is love, nothing else matters.

    If you love him, you should be with him, how normal it is, you don't want to agree to him probably because he has no money, so you have to think about it. People are like this, they want to find someone they love and a rich person, but in such a world, that kind of thing rarely happens.

    Either you find a rich man but you don't love it, or find a person who doesn't have much money, but you can live together, you love him, money can be earned with your efforts, but can you earn feelings? Believe in yourself, as long as you love each other, then you will work together to work hard for your own life, to struggle and work hard, as long as two people love each other, life is not rich and that is the happiest.

    So as long as you love him, then agree with him and marry him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends, and when you're ready, you can say yes.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should agree, since you have been able to get along for so long, it means that you are very suitable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you like it, you can agree, we have been together for so long, and we will be happy in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you think this person is reliable, you can agree, I think marriage is a lifelong thing, and you have to think about it seriously.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it still depends on your heart, marriage is not like falling in love, if you don't want to, you can get along for a while.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you love each other, just agree, if you have been dating for a year, you will understand about the same, and the time is appropriate.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to think that others are not bad, just agree, after all, it is not easy to meet a suitable one.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really love him, then say yes, how rare it is.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Promise, it's been more than a year of dating, and the love should be quite deep.

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