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If you can't let go of this relationship more or less in your heart, I think it's impossible for you to let go quickly, even if you are making greater efforts, it won't help. Please give love a little distance, but this distance should be like the wind, always lingering around you, instead of lingering in the flowers and never thinking about it. When you love, you must leave some distance for love, to be able to love so plainly and plainly, in fact, it is the greatest happiness, don't have to be too greedy, don't have too much demand, don't have too much luxury, don't have too much demand, let it be like a hibiscus in the pool, natural growth, exude a faint beauty, elegant fragrance.
If you really want to give up, why dwell on the past? There is always no fate, and even if we meet, it is in vain. The encounter between people is a fate given by God, but such a fate becomes too shallow in the face of fate, so no matter how reluctant or unwilling people are, some encounters are destined to be separation.
If you are fate, time will also give you the opportunity to think more about each other, give each other a little more care, why quarrel since you love each other. Learn to understand, learn to be tolerant. Good luck!
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If he loves you, then learn to be tolerant, and if he doesn't love you, love him and learn to let go of hope.
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Do you love him?? So does he love you? I want to know?? Two people talking together. Six words. Tolerance, understanding, trust. If it's you, it's very simple, stupid to give, to give without expecting anything in return.
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Love him with your sincerity and let him dig happily
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Just be brave to love, and think of him at any time.
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If you love him, you should love him with your heart.
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I've done things with him before that feel childish.
When I was just in love, I happened to meet the winter vacation, and I tried for the first time what it tasted like to miss a person, it was really tasteless, and I couldn't get interested in anything, and I was looking forward to the days going soon, and I could see him when I went back to school.
That's to surprise him, I went to the Internet to find ** to learn how to origami crane ceremony, and with great interest I bought some colored paper and came back to cut it myself, and then wrote a love sentence on each piece of paper, and then folded them carefully one by one. You know, I hated manual work the most when I was a child, and now, for him to be able to calm down and make my things.
I remember that I was tinkering with it for several days, destroying a lot of colored paper before I folded 30 paper cranes that I was more satisfied with.
There was also a period of time when the two couldn't wait to stick together every day. I was reluctant to be separated after self-study every night, so I squatted in the dark corner of the campus and talked to me...
It was summer, and there were a lot of mosquitoes, and we were even more treated to mosquitoes as a big meal when we hid in the dark. Originally, I was very mosquito-friendly physique, and now it's even more terrible, mosquito bites one after another, but when the love is strong, I can't help it, I don't care about anything, I can actually endure the siege of those mosquitoes on me, and I stayed in the corner for more than an hour, until the dormitory is about to be locked, and I reluctantly separated.
Once when I returned to the dormitory, I came back carefully and counted the mosquito bags on my body, and there were 20 of them, which really scared me.
Later, when I went to this dark corner, I asked my boyfriend to bring a circle of mosquito coils, otherwise I really couldn't bear the enthusiasm of mosquitoes!
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1. Take the initiative to beg a man to love himself and not leave.
Love is never begging, which will only make your beloved him more disgusted. Even if you can move him one day, being together is not what you want, the so-called love!
2. Take the initiative to invite men to travel (and the like) in order to get along.
Being alone is a good time to let the relationship warm up and develop, but if you go out for a long trip before you have established a relationship, then it is easy for men to think that you are frivolous, and don't let men think that you are a very casual person.
3. Circling around him twenty-four hours a day, listening to his arrangement.
Don't go around a man every day, he will be annoyed with you, and he will feel that your time is worthless, that you have lost heart to him, and that he will feel bored with you. Don't listen to his arrangement in everything, have your own thoughts, learn to refuse, and have your own principles.
If you want to not be cheap in the relationship, you have to give him a little response in a timely manner, but you must have your own principles, your own independent space to do something to improve yourself, only excellent women are more attractive to men, because they know how to be self-disciplined.
Learn to improve yourself, make yourself radiant, and don't be a yellow-faced resentful woman who is grinded by life. We must learn to invest in ourselves and improve our inner self, only in this way will men cherish it more, get along with you every time, increase the degree of love for you, and love can be stronger!
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It is said that communication is a technology, and there is a lot of knowledge in it, and a good intimate relationship is inseparable from high-quality communication. Psychology tells you that it is actually very simple, and here are two tips for you to help you better understand each other and be understood by each other at the same time.
1. Know how to empathize and think about each other from the other party's point of view.
2. Sincerely and artistically express your true thoughts and feelings to each other.
Proficiency in these two methods and the ability to use them in real life will ensure that your interpersonal relationships will not be bad.
However, there is a prerequisite that you must have, that is, to be true to yourself, have the courage to face yourself, learn to tolerate and accept your imperfect side, do not deliberately cover up, do not hypocrisy, do not conceal, do not avoid, dare to express your true inner needs and feelings to the other half, and be honest with each other.
If**, the wife sincerely tells her husband that I need you, this matter does not mean that you have to accompany you to do it, it is that I want to be with you, I want you to accompany me, and I want to give us more time together.
I think it is impossible for a husband not to feel his wife's heart, and when a husband understands his wife's true thoughts, he will naturally take it seriously, take action, and arrange time to spend with his wife reasonably.
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This question concerns family relationships and personal values, and whether it is normal or not is relative. Each family and individual may have different views on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family companionship, so it is difficult to measure it by one standard.
First of all, it is understandable that the boyfriend wants you to please his mom and have a good relationship with his mother-in-law. In the traditional family concept, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very important topic. The boyfriend wants you to get along well with his mom, probably because he wants you and his family to get along, which is essential for maintaining family harmony.
As for the boyfriend coming home to accompany his mother, this is also a relatively common phenomenon. In the family concept, filial piety and companionship between family members are more important. Some boys, out of a sense of responsibility and family values, may take the initiative to go home to visit and spend time with their parents, especially if their parents are elderly or living in solitary mountains.
However, whether or not you consider this to be normal, also consider your own values and feelings. Here are a few things you might consider for this retreat:
1.The importance of the mother-in-law relationship: Do you agree with your boyfriend's attitude that she values the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Are you willing to put in the effort to maintain a harmonious family relationship?
2.Personal freedom and independence: Are you willing to accept that your boyfriend is coming home due to family responsibilities in your relationship? Does this align with your quest for personal freedom and independence?
3.Communication and compromise: Do you have enough communication and understanding between you and your boyfriend? Are you willing to compromise and balance between each other's values and needs?
Ultimately, the answer to this question depends on your own thoughts and perceptions. If you feel that your boyfriend's demands and behaviors are in line with your values, you can try to understand and accept them. If you have doubts or grievances, you can communicate openly with your boyfriend about how to build a better understanding and consensus.
In any case, each other's choices and decisions should be respected for a healthier, more balanced relationship.
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Improve yourself and make yourself more accelerate, she will love you more and really help you look forward to it.
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Strengthen communication between the two. If you want to know what kind of way the other party can be more comfortable, and it can be the way he wants to love, then you must strengthen the communication between two people, because only through expression, can you know what the other party has and what the emotions in your heart are. If you want to understand each other's thoughts, you need to be open and honest to tell your truest side and face each other honestly.
2. Respect the other party's choice. If you want to treat him in the way that the other party likes, then you must first learn to respect the other party's choice, and no matter what the other party does, you should give respect and understanding, rather than blindly denying it from your own point of view. To truly love each other is to be able to respect each other, no matter what the purpose, even if it is a behavior that you do not understand.
In love, one party blindly gives, and the other party only knows how to enjoy, so after a long time, the balance of this relationship will eventually be out of balance, and everyone wants to get something back, and the same is true in the relationship. 3. Learn to empathize. In the relationship, we must learn to empathize, because only real empathy can we think about problems from the other person's standpoint, put ourselves in the other person's shoes, and know what kind of person he is and what kind of way he needs to be happy.
Don't always be self-righteous or selfish, treat others in your own way that is supposed to be good, sometimes the other person may not need it, and may even be hurt by it.
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