Is it so hard to find someone to marry?

If getting married and starting a family is on your and your family's agenda and is going to be done as a big deal, then getting the help of a matchmaking agency may be one of the best options

You can first "see" the local matchmaking agency, or ask through acquaintances, after grasping the general situation, choose a few matchmaking agencies to go on a field trip, and then choose 1-2 matchmaking agencies to register as a member. All formal matchmaking agencies that have been established for a long time, have abundant resources, moderate fees, and high cost performance are generally credible and reliable, and the success rate is not low.

Now there are a large number of single groups in the country, old, middle-aged and young people of all ages and professions, so everyone has no shortage of corresponding love choices. The way that marriage events are introduced through formal matchmaking agencies is an extension of the old-style Chinese matchmaker tradition, which has a certain degree of rigor and is much more reliable than online virtuality, so it is still an important blind date channel for singles around the world, and it has endured for a long time. This is especially prevalent in Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Southeast Asia and other regions, and is also recognized by the public in European and American countries.

However, it needs to be reminded that the main thing for friends who go on a blind date is to keep a normal heart and not to have too high requirements for the other half, otherwise it will increase the difficulty of matching. Asking for marriage and blind date is like going to college to see a serious illness, it is a lot of work, everyone's situation is different, and the final result is different. But meeting is the last word.

Although there are always lucky people in the world who keep the plant and win the rabbit, the satisfaction of the vast majority of people or a relatively satisfactory marriage can only be achieved in the docking of continuous appointments in various ways. I wish you a dream come true soon!

1. Choose a matchmaker that has been established for a long time. Because the matchmaking that has been established for more than 10 years is relatively more stable, has a strong degree of trust, and will be more secure.

2. Choose a matchmaker with a large number of matchmakers. Because the team is large enough, compared with internal management, the growth of the enterprise will be better, and all aspects are sound.

3. Choose a chain matchmaking company, because the chain matchmaking has a relatively complete management and supervision system, and the customer service management of the following stores is relatively perfect.

4. The matchmaking with a high customer success rate shows that the matchmaker here has rich professional knowledge of marriage and love, which can show that there is a certain method for the success of a single blind date.

6. Matchmaking with many high-quality customers. Let's go on a blind date, to put it bluntly, we want to find the opposite sex with good conditions, and there are more high-quality customers, so there will be more chances of success on a blind date.

7. Matchmaking for marriage information sharing across the country. Because many people are working in other places now, and most of them are looking for locals to work in other places, only chain matchmaking brand resources are rich enough.

8. Matchmaking in cooperation with **. Blind dates and various public welfare marriage and love classes are held. Because the local matchmaking agency can cooperate with **, it means that it has a certain degree of trust, because the ** unit does not cooperate with any matchmaker casually.

9. The matchmaker has high professional ability. Different from traditional matchmaking, modern matchmakers must have professional marriage and family knowledge, understand marriage, and understand family, so as to bring you value.

Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.

First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.

And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.

Finding the right person to marry after work can become more difficult, and the reasons may include the following:

1.Time and energy pressure: Time and energy are occupied by work after work, and it is difficult to have enough time to participate in social activities, develop social circles, and find romantic partners.

The stress of work can lead people to focus more on their careers and financial gains and lose sight of their emotional needs.

2.Circle limitations: People who come to work often have relatively limited contact with people in the work environment, especially if the workplace is small or industry-specific. The limitations of this circle can lead to fewer opportunities for like-minded potential partners.

3.Narrowing of social circles: After going to work, most of the time is spent at work, and interaction with former friends and social circles may be reduced. As a result, there are fewer opportunities to meet new people and expand their social circles, limiting the possibility of finding the right person.

4.Heightened expectations and standards: After going to work, many people have achieved certain achievements professionally and financially, pursuing their ideals and goals.

Their mate selection criteria and expectations may be heightened, leading to more picky and demanding of a suitable and ambitious partner. This makes it more difficult to find someone who exactly matches expectations.

5.The change of the concept of marriage: With the change of social concepts, Yu Jiao's attitude towards marriage has also changed.

Many young people are more focused on freedom and personal development, seeing marriage as a restriction on personal growth and freedom. This change in mindset may also make it difficult to find someone to marry after work.

In summary, it becomes more difficult to find a suitable person to marry after work, mainly due to the combined effects of time and energy pressure, circle limitations, narrowing of social circles, heightened expectations and standards, and changes in the perception of marriage. However, this does not mean that it is impossible to find the right person to marry, just that you need to be more proactive in finding opportunities, expanding your social circle, and maintaining open and moderate expectations to increase your chances of success.

1. It's not difficult to get married at all, but the difficult thing is that you have to find someone who you love and he loves you to get married. But both parents and relatives have a misunderstanding, as long as you find someone to come back, you can get married, provided that this person is alive, can buy a house, and have a stable job. There are fewer and fewer people who can love each other, don't think it's easy to get married, it's not the right person, you really can't say that"I do"

Second, since it is so difficult to find a suitable person to marry, you should find it slowly, but I don't know if I have time to fall in love, in fact, it will be more realistic now, the older you get, the more you become an egoist. Blocking Sun is why we are very anxious, afraid that we will be left behind, afraid that we will never meet him in my life, and afraid that our parents will be chasing and urging marriage! However, instead of worrying about being left behind and urged to marry by my parents, I am actually more afraid of the person who will marry me in the future, who I don't love at all.

3. In many cases, it does not mean that you find love and two people get married, but it is suitable in all aspects. To find a man with a good character who is good to you, it depends on whether the other party's parents are reasonable and like you, and it is really difficult at some times.

In our lives, don't urge some people who are not married, they also want to get married, but in many cases, they have no choice but to be single. Because in this marriage, this marriage is only meaningful if you are happy.

Fourth, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for, and you must be able to go to a person regardless of everything, and do your best to keep a person, so that you can have the possibility of happiness. Therefore, for me, when I talk about marriage in the future, I must wake up my spirit, because you must know that this is a major event for you to decide on lifelong happiness, and you can't tolerate the slightest sloppiness. You can no longer let your parents or relatives urge you to marry, you must hold Zen Yan at your own pace!

Why is it so difficult to find someone to marry after work, it is because everyone has a different way of looking at marriage after work, and at this time, it is not only the quarrel and love that are considered, but also the other party's family background, economic income, job stability and other factors. It is indeed a little difficult to find a suitable person to marry!

If you can be like the protagonist of "The Ladder of Love" Liu Guojiang, who is as strong as the heroine Xu Chaoqing, then it is not difficult to find a partner who will stay with you for a lifetime, but it is difficult to find too many bad examples nowadays, so that many women do not trust the reputation of marriage, let alone trust men.