Is it worth it for my children?

After reading this question, I can only say that you are a good mother, but not a good wife. Rather than not being a good wife in his mind, it is better to find happiness in each other. The problem you are worried about is not a big problem, you are divorced, the children can still be with their father, when they are not together, you have your love and the care of other people, as long as you make the children happy all the time, it is enough.

There's no need to bet on your life's happiness, as long as you're a good mom I think you'll always be a good wife because you're also lovely and deserve love! As a woman, I sincerely wish you to always take control of your happiness!!

Hello Auntie, I read your question, although there are some things that I don't know better than you adults (I'm 18 years old and not young), but my home is similar to yours. You're great, but I don't think you're worth it, you're still so young to find someone, maybe better than that uncle! He can raise the child with you, and now you look like you're with your uncle, but in fact you do??

Is there any difference between this and getting divorced? My mother used to think only about me and my brother, but then I persuaded her many times before my mother separated from him. Now we are better off than before.

My mom didn't have as much as she used to think, and people were happier. I think your children will be like me when they grow up, think about it! For yourself!

You can't just think about your children, you're still young, you and your husband are like this, what's the point of being together, is it good for your children, you can find someone who loves you again, and you can raise your children together.

Children are important, and I don't think he can be left without a dad. It is better to be wronged yourself than to let your child be hurt. Because he was still young, he didn't know what divorce was. Is he still naïve? That's all I'm going to say, think about it yourself, right?

I don't think it's worth it, but sometimes it's frustrating.

A lot of youth was spent in it.

I will educate him well.

Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has a sense of happiness that I think is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said:

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

I feel that as parents, we should give our children the opportunity to try and make mistakes, so that he can feel that ** is right? Is it wrong? It is better to let him sum up his own experience than to tell him directly how to do it, not only in his studies, but also in life

There is no fundamental reason for learning, children have no direction for learning, and parents can only be anxious.

In the pattern of learning, it is said that Professor Kapoor's research has achieved ineffective success, effective failure, and effective failure is that parents can tolerate their children's mistakes so that their children can benefit from their mistakes.

Many parents see the report card, and when they see the results, they don't analyze them, and they just scold their heads and face after scolding, and they will still be like this next time.

It doesn't matter if you don't know how to learn the books you let go of your child, help the child sort out the knowledge points, see which ones are the child's more vague and weak points, and then make a plan, how to make up for it, and then how many days later can it reach what extent, accompany the child to stay up and stay up the most difficult night to sit and sit, the most difficult problem, really into the child's heart, you are, understand, and give support.

As parents, we always feel that our children are still pretending to be young people, and we always persuade and educate our children from the front, and we always hope to give our children more "help to dismantle the hall". However, it is more contrary to expectations, the more we convince the child to "help", the later the child will learn to walk, as long as the child is given more opportunities to try on his own, let the child explore by himself, to trial and error, in the mistakes will grow better.

For the sake of their children, parents can give a lot (and the kind of giving without complaints).

In fact, sometimes they don't even understand what it means to be a real friend for their children.

Raising a normal child into a giant baby is a kind of raising method; Cultivating children's self-care ability from an early age is also a way to raise children.

I understand the theory and teaching, and I also understand the big truths, but when it comes to each family, every child will be confused.

Originally, it was said that "the children of the poor are in charge of the house early". It seems to say that many children whose family conditions are not very good often have the excellent quality of hard-working and hard-working.

But now, it doesn't seem to be exactly like that. Children from well-off families have a broader perspective, and they tend to excel in various fields. And the family conditions are not very good, and the children are not well taught.

When these children grow up, they will have great limitations in terms of vision and work.

Without good quality and broad vision, how far can a person's excellence go?