When will mom and dad reconcile?

As a second-year junior high school student, you are still a child in the eyes of your parents, and although you are very important to both of them, neither of them will receive your consolation in person. Maybe your mom is better. But your father, in general, is not allowed to judge his behavior and point out his faults.

It is very likely that your father is a macho person, and usually, he rarely does housework at home, thinking that it should be done by a woman, but he does not know that he has broken your mother's heart, and the decoration of the newly purchased house in the family should be decided by him, the man who is the head of the family, so he will not consult your mother to make his own decision. And this is a great break in your mother's heart.

Therefore, the crisis in your family (perhaps a misnomer) is rooted in your father, who does not recognize his mistake at all, but thinks that he is doing it for granted.

To solve the problem, of course, you can only think about how to change your father's mind.

Although your father will not listen to your persuasion in person, and it seems that he does not respect your opinion, you, as his own flesh and blood, actually have the highest position in his heart! Therefore, the only person who can influence him the most is you.

Think about it yourself and write a letter to your dad with your heart.

In the letter, you can write in detail about your eyes on Mom and Dad (be objective) and praise him a little bit. But even more so, point out how his self-righteous behavior hurts your mother, destroys the warmth of the family, and affects your future studies. He further pointed out that if he did not make corrections, it would lead to the disintegration of the family.

And if there is such a day when the family breaks down, you will definitely have to go with your mother. And if he really forced your mother to think about it and cut herself off from the world, you will never forgive him.

In short, you should write this letter very seriously, and fully write your love for the family, your parents' home, and your strong desire to not want the family to break up. Even though you point out your father's mistakes, don't deny his character, don't deny his contribution to the family, and don't show respect for you.

You can't be blamed for this, it's your father's problem, and don't blame yourself for it, it's your father's fault now. If it is really your father who is doing this to you, first of all, you have to keep calm about your own situation, and you must study hard, as long as you still study well as before, so that your father will still be as good to you as before, and then, take this opportunity to have a good relationship with your father, maybe your father is very busy at work, and the atmosphere at home is like this, of course the mood is not good, so you should also talk to your mother, saying that it may be that your father is busy with work. I believe that he will feel that there is such a happy family and a child like you will not be separated, but you don't understand his heart and misunderstand him.

Your mother and you will come together to share with him the troubles of his heart. I hope this will help you and your family, how happy it is to be together!

It's okay to say a soft word, and it's not a big deal, so why bother with your own family!

Take the initiative to apologize and send small gifts to appease.

Separate and give them time alone to regulate their mood; create space for peaceful exchanges between the two sides as much as possible; Take the initiative to persuade mom and dad to apologize to each other.

If the landlord has the ability, he can organize more family activities, such as going out to play, playing cards together, meeting guests, etc., which can increase family fun, and invite guests who are liked by parents to come to the house, but remember that this kind of activity The landlord has to contribute, so that the parents do not feel troublesome, so that the parents can enjoy their filial piety must be very happy, and you are the crystallization of their love, see you filial piety and sensible Li Lu, will make the parents feel better. Secondly, when encountering a quarrel between parents, try to analyze and persuade them rationally from the side, so that a big thing becomes a small one, and a small thing becomes a small matter.

For the one who feels that you are quarreling in the middle, the more wrong party, this requires the landlord to point it out patiently and gently, and express it in a grievanceed and cordial tone, so as not to let the parents feel that they are teaching them, so that the effect will be better.

Tell your parents that life is too short to spend decades with your family? Take more time to love each other and don't waste time on hating and arguing.