Please, experts, my state of mind, can you give me some advice?

It makes me feel like you're a type who wants to go above and beyond.

Hehe, in fact, you don't have any psychological problems at all.

You can analyze things very thoroughly, and you have your own ideals, which is to live in a quiet place, which is a kind of idea to return to nature.

And the way you deal with your emotions, there are many ways to release them, and what you choose is to think independently. But what is lacking is action, using your own actions to achieve your own goals.

You just have to vent your emotions in some way now, and the best way is to find a psychologist and ask him to help you analyze it thoroughly. And what I want to tell you is: finding a psychiatrist does not necessarily mean that you will be sick, we Chinese have worsened this topic, and going to the hospital or seeing a doctor is sick.

Sorry, I gave you a list :

1> Find a psychologist to help you understand yourself more clearly and achieve a good result through professional terminology.

2> Communicate with others more, and don't care about some problems that you don't think you can figure out. See if you can fix it, and if not, what should I do.

3> Give yourself more time, you can read some books, and see the interpretation of Freud's dreams, which should help you.

4> You should have some hobbies in normal times, so you can try to spend more time on it. Emotions need to be mediated.

5> Life is very good, I hope you can treat it well. Since you have chosen this way online, there will be a lot of enthusiastic people who will help you.

6> It's better to act than to move, let's start today.

7>^o^.

Landlord,You and I have exactly the same mentality now.,I've not been happy since I was a child.,Because of illness in high school.,And there are a lot of setbacks.,Make me feel inferior.,Interested in anything.,And it's misanthropy.,Good friends in the past.,I don't want to play with them anymore.。 Negative thoughts such as depression, autism, and misanthropy made me cry for 3 years of high school.

I'm fine now, totally well. Because I saw it, I felt that people only have one life and I shouldn't be so negative, so I cheered up.

I also have obsessive-compulsive disorder sometimes. After crossing the street, I actually had the thought of getting hit by a car, and this thought never disappeared. But for now, I just need to calm down.

Now I think that many people nowadays are naïve, selfish, and stupid. I hate all the selfish, stupid people in the world. Every time I see someone fail in a relationship or a relationship, I laugh at them. What childishness!

Nowadays, people know that people's culture is high, that is, the quality is high! When I think about it, I think it's ridiculous. In fact, if you have culture, you have quality, and it is clearly a 2-yard thing!

In the past 3 years, the fortunate thing is that I have been thinking about it every day and trying to find a way to solve my own difficulties. It has made me a master of love, and has made me see through many things in the red dust.

In this, I read the questions raised by many people about finding someone to help, and I think many of the questions are very naïve and ridiculous! But I can understand that people nowadays learn mathematics, physics and chemistry in school, and they have learned a lot since they were young, but they haven't learned how to behave! It's no wonder that so many people are so troubled after Zhang Dahou.

Now I have the same mentality as the landlord, but I'm lucky that I have love!

I hope the landlord can add me to send me an email, or send me a message in it, I want to be friends with you, because I once thought about finding someone to be a psychiatrist together, although we don't have a diploma, but we have something that a psychiatrist doesn't have, that is, to experience life, but I don't want to help people solve psychological problems.

In a word, the same is the end of the world, be a friend!

I originally wanted to go online, but I saw your post casually, and I felt similar to my mentality, and I wanted to make a friend, I think this is fate

If you seem to see everything through, then you should think about the meaning of your own life.

Your birth was accidental, although some think it was a miracle. But there are many such miracles in the world, so human beings are very small for the whole world.

It is enough that you can figure out your own meaning of existence, what you are living for, and why you continue to live. That meaning will make you yearn for life.

But the meaning of life is different for everyone. Some people may not know what "life" is until the moment of death, and the important thing is not only to find the answer to the meaning of life, but also to find it.

In that process, you will know the beauty of life and the beauty of life. Everyone is an individual and cannot be the same. You don't think too much of yourself.

In fact, everyone will feel that they have some insights and advantages that are incomparable, but people cannot be omnipotent. You have to learn to see where others are better than you.

Learn to be a person, learn to do things, find out what is important to you, and finally know the meaning of your life. If you can't do it now, then life is still attractive to you.

I am only 16 years old, how can I feel the same way, I am sick, wow, I am so mature

It doesn't seem like he has done it yet

Go play the game, it will have an effect,,, not to mention that it will take you 0 0

We are very similar to hehe, I used to have obsessive-compulsive disorder and take a leave of absence, and now I have mild depression, and people who come into contact with me say that I am a "monster", thinking that things are different from others, and thinking that other people and even elders are very naïve, if you are not anonymous, I will add you as a friend.

Cut, you say that you yourself are very advanced, in fact, the essence is still a 16-year-old girl, what age should there be any state of mind, your current thoughts are actually a kind of willfulness, arrogant with your own heart to speculate on the psychology of others, you and others are not an individual, how can you see through no one. As far as you say, being boring is also an act of escapism, escapism. Human life is insignificant, but this is for the universe, human beings are priceless to those who value him, you are irreplaceable for your parents, your friends, and they are their treasures.

In the future you will also have your treasures, or some that you already have, parents, friends, future husbands, children, each of which you should cherish. If you think that these people are selfish and ugly, then it proves that you are really hopeless, and what awaits you must be loneliness.

You said that you once wanted to create a better world, this is really impossible, you are not God, a person's ability is limited, however, you can do the best within your scope. The purpose of your life is not to make the world happy, but to make all those you deserve to love and yourself happy. If they are not happy, then what is the purpose of your life?

There is only one way that you can change everything, be enthusiastic about life, try to get a dog (cheerful puppy).I believe there will be a change.

Actually, my experience is a bit similar to yours, I had a good time before junior high school, and then I started to become decadent because of a little setback in high school. But now that I think about it, I feel that my thoughts at that time were too naïve, and I would like to express my personal little opinion on you. People always have to live, people will always meet all kinds of people and all kinds of things in life, we can't let everything go well, everyone let us like it.

Only by getting rid of the dissatisfaction in our hearts can we face life calmly. Cynism will only make us lose again and again, a high IQ is naturally good, but more important is emotional intelligence. If a person's psychological quality is not good, then no matter how smart you are, what beneficial contribution can you bring to society?

Dare to ask how a person who is dissatisfied with society can serve society wholeheartedly?

Exposure to some new things, old things will make you continue to immerse yourself in pain, with the opportunity to meet opportunities, will make you change, it is best to meet a person who is willing to help you, willing to protect you, but you have to slowly strengthen yourself, understand what my survival means, who will create my future, since the current life is boring, shouldn't it be corrected immediately? Adjust slowly and keep smiling for half an hour every day. If you have a good financial situation, you can go to the psychology department of a big hospital to buy a few boxes of medicine to eat, which can really make you cheerful immediately, but it is a little expensive.

Get out of the haze, every day is a good start!

To get in touch with new things, such as love, some kind of sport, or something you have never done before, to pursue your own limits.

The first thing that can be determined is that your current psychological situation is not good, there is a certain psychological disorder, and a consciousness has been formed, it is recommended to go to the ** mental illness hospital to see, and let the doctor help you solve it.

As for family affairs, it is recommended that you come out to live independently when the children are young for the time being, and persuade your husband, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more.

is unreasonable, you don't have to be difficult for your husband, he is also difficult, but remember to have a degree in everything, don't do it without considering the consequences, don't affect the feelings, escape is not a way, you have to face it bravely.

How much do you have a tendency to depression or postpartum depression, full of dissatisfaction and resentment, and the exit is to complain and complain, you think about who will get along with you after a long time? Not only your family, but also your friends outside will be few, because.

You have already influenced other people, adjust yourself first, there are obstacles everywhere in this world, it is your ability to get by, you can't get by.

It will also be in a different form for you to repeat it, so you have to be strong.

From what you recounted, everything is normal.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the main content of family conflicts since ancient times. Your husband is okay with you, you don't need to take it too seriously. It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, and you don't need to embarrass your husband.

It is estimated that you are very favored at home, so you will not be comfortable with your mother-in-law when you come into contact with it, and you will be really angry. In fact, this is normal in social life. Don't come on top, just like your husband and their brothers, don't express different opinions, just do what you have to do.

I feel that you may not be cheerful enough, and I feel that you actually have a lot of things hidden in your heart, and it is not as kind or arrogant as you say.

In fact, you are not strong enough, the pressure must be shared by everyone, just see how to look at it and deal with it!

In fact, the most important thing now is your baby, take good care of the baby, don't think too much about other things, people will inevitably have bad moods, but you must calm down quickly, the baby is still young after all, don't let him see that his mother is such a fierce person.

You may be a little mentally weak.

Pay attention to rest, maintain a good attitude, be optimistic, you must believe that life is getting better and better, and the baby will grow up healthy and happy!

You need to talk to your husband and try not to get along with your mother-in-law too much.

You are a typical mental stress caused by excessive mental pressure, you can travel appropriately, the most important thing is to let yourself learn to relax, adjust your mentality!

Hello, you are very kind and strive for perfection, but the psychological factors of extremism and self-blame cause you to be unhappy.

I think the reason for this is the way you speak, especially the language on the Internet, that causes people to misunderstand you.

People are very sensitive, and sometimes your unintentional words will attract the attack of others. At this time, you can't return a tooth for a tooth, but try to turn the conflict into a jade silk, and it is the best way to deal with it.

You have also done this, and you have already apologized, so don't blame yourself, I believe everyone will understand you, because everyone has their own things to do, and the words on the Internet are like a gust of wind, and soon there will be no impression. It's over, and no one cares.

If you care about yourself, you just can't get along with yourself, and it's completely unnecessary.

Live each day happily, blessed.

In fact, you don't have to care too much about other people's words, I was similar to you when I was a child, but then I knew that I didn't have to care about everyone's thoughts, because everyone's thoughts are different, you can't make everyone satisfied, it's actually difficult to find a soulmate in this world, and sometimes others scold you and you don't fight back, For some people may be malicious provocations, see if you are good bullying, self-protection is also very important. Don't worry too much about the past, the future is always unknown, and living happily today is the greatest reward for yourself. I wish you a happy day.

I think if everybody doesn't have a good impression of you, then you do have a problem, at least a social problem. First of all, you should reflect on your own words and deeds, whether you are really open-mouthed. Whether you are really sincere to others, whether you are really willing to change, and whether you consider problems from the perspective of others.

Then, you should communicate with your parents, except for yourself, it should be your parents who know you best, and what kind of personality you are in the eyes of your parents. Finally, it is important to make friends with others, sincerity, but mutual understanding and mutual attraction can last for a long time. Don't have such a concept, I can say whatever I want, it's their business whether they listen or not, it's not for you to watch people cook, but at least don't say what you shouldn't say.

It's not terrible to be wrong, youth is capital, and if you're wrong, you should be. It's hard to be human, so take your time.