Are poor couples really sad? Is it true that poor couples mourn everything?

First of all, I would like to take the liberty of asking, your boyfriend must be a Libra.

Secondly, people live for a lifetime, and plants and trees have a spring. A person's life is really all about opening your eyes and closing your eyes...

Today's society is a society of the jungle, material determines part of the superstructure, find a friend who can help you grow, and you will win several steps over others. A woman is a school, she can teach her boyfriend what maturity is, when you meet a malleable talent, don't give up on him, you will share the joy of his success; But there are also stubborn students who can't teach it, so they should let it go.

Finally, give you a selfish suggestion, find a boyfriend to be the right person, when you meet excellent people (not very rich) who pursue you, you should come together with excellent people, so that you will learn a lot, it is best to meet people who can make you learn in every word and deed, and slowly you will also become stronger and not dependent on anyone.

Before you get married, you have the right to choose; Before getting married, all love is full of variables.

Hey, reality is often the cruelest, and time can wash everything away.

Are feelings real? If one day you are separated and he finds a dream job, will you regret it? Is your boyfriend aggressive? Do you think it's worth it to spend your life with him?

No, at least I don't think so! In fact, all a person wants is love, heart, being able to eat well and dress warmly. There is someone who really loves you, I really envy you.

I held it for a long time and told them I didn't need it. Actually, I just want to live my own life, everyone wants to live their own life, everyone thinks that other people's lives seem to be better, in fact, no. Rich is not necessarily happy!

Two people really love each other, work together, and struggle together is something I dream of.

So many years have come and gone, alone. Lonely and lonely. There are a lot of girls around me who love themselves, but they all love money.

Interesting? Those who are really rich will look down on you, and you will be angry. Capable ones won't have time for you.

You will be affected. You didn't come through thick and thin with him, and I don't think he would share everything about him with you.

Rhetoric, beautiful dreams, and in the end, what you get is likely to be harm. Deeply hurt.

Go your own way and don't think too much.

Remember: tomorrow will be better!

Alas, go to the big list. No wonder men spend money on everything, it's just that there are too many women like you. It's no wonder that my parents told me to find a wife, and I must not find a woman who is better than my own ability.

This is not necessarily, the two husbands and wives may not be very wealthy, or they may have no status or power ......But it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't have happy moments, as long as the two of them encourage each other and have the courage to face all difficulties, it may not be impossible to be happy in suffering.

I think this sentence is very reasonable, and those who have really experienced it know that in this society, you really can't do anything without money, and husbands and wives will often quarrel because of lack of money.

Poor couples mourn everything, perhaps the reason why the husband and wife can't live is still the husband and wife.

Yes, this sentence means that couples can't do anything without money, which is a very sad thing.

It is indeed the case, if the material conditions are good, many things between husband and wife do not need to be particularly concerned, and many contradictions will be easily solved.

1. Poor couples rarely have happiness at all.

Poor couples mourn everything, there is no most basic material life between husband and wife, it is easy to quarrel about this, many quarrels in the life of husband and wife are caused by money, if there is abundant material, the relationship between husband and wife will be much more harmonious.

Poor couples are often discriminated against in their lives, and their children will also suffer from their parents' poverty. Because of poverty, many couples have to go out to work, leaving their children at home to take care of the elderly, and it is also the current situation of many left-behind children, because of poverty, they have no way to gain a foothold in the city where they are located, and the place where they live can only be a small house that can only accommodate two people. Some even in order to save money, male and female workers live in a room, each room has many bunk beds, and each bed lives in a couple.

Couples living in such an environment are hardly able to feel happy.

Second, poor couples have no way to enjoy life.

Living in poverty, the daily life of husband and wife is to run around for three meals a day, and there is no extra money to enjoy life. For example, if you want to buy a piece of clothing, you have to think carefully, and you have to bargain for a few cents to buy a dish. Poor couples have no extra money to go to see the world, visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and enjoy the customs and customs of various places like a rich brother; Because of poverty, they are reluctant to even go out to work and even buy a station to go home, so in order to save money to buy tickets during the Chinese New Year, they would rather not go home to see their children and parents, but stay in the city where they work, just to save the cost of a return ticket.

Second, the relationship between poor couples will become indifferent.

Rich in the mountains have distant relatives, poor in the downtown no one asks, poor couples are generally not welcomed among relatives and friends, if they have something urgent need to borrow money and want to find someone to borrow money, others will also take into account their family situation to see if they can repay and then decide whether to borrow or not, because poor, a lot of emotions will also become indifferent.

The so-called poverty refers to sharing weal and woe, and the so-called Pepsi refers to a hundred years later, that is, after death. It is sad that couples who once shared weal and woe will eventually say goodbye to life and death. For example:

1. If you don't have money, you are worried about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long, and some trivial things will cause you to quarrel, so it is said that poor couples mourn everything.

2. There are many girls in society who are bent on marrying a golden beetle son-in-law, and put all their hopes on it to relieve themselves. After all, no one wants to live a poor life. He Zhi saw that some people persuaded girls to marry rich people, and proved their point by saying that poor couples mourn everything, saying that the life of a couple without money must be sad.

3. The trivial things in life need to spend money, and it is difficult to move an inch without money, as the saying goes, money is not everything, but no money is everything. Where does happiness come from without money, and the source of happiness comes from money, so it is said that poor couples mourn everything.

In fact, the true meaning of this sentence is not so!

This is the Tang Dynasty poet Yuan Zhi mourning his wife's poem written, "I know that everyone has this hatred, poor couples mourn everything", everyone will experience the great sorrow of life and death, but we have suffered together husband and wife, death is more sad, and the love that has experienced poverty is more precious. I agree with this sentence, marriage needs material things to maintain, if two people struggle with the food and clothing line for a long time, then what happiness can their marriage have.

Material things make life more difficult for poor couples, but it does not mean complete failure. After all, there are still the majority of poor couples in the world, as long as they live a well-off life, it is enough to be happy. The key is that poor couples should work together, learn to manage life, and sometimes be content with "poverty", be content with the ordinary, and live a poetic life to make life better and better.

Poor couples are even more ordinary couples, if they can have spiritual sustenance, there will be many bright colors in life.

If you like Yuan Zhen's "Sending Grief and Sorrow" and "Five Songs of Leaving Thoughts", you can read them together, I believe you will have a deeper understanding of this sentence and love and marriage.