Now that the cancer is being treated, I m scared what to do

What should I do if I have cancer? Many people subconsciously think that cancer is an "incurable disease", so when they hear that they have cancer, they think of giving up, how to arrange the future, and so on. In fact, if you have cancer, you should consider and arrange from the following aspects:

1. It is necessary to make a clear pathological diagnosis first, rather than only finding a lump on the body based on clinical examination, and initially considering that cancer may be considered to have cancer, which is not a diagnosis. It is necessary to confirm the diagnosis, and the pathology must be obtained by biopsy or surgery, which is the most basic premise. For example, in the case of lung cancer, there are small cell lung cancer and non-small cell lung cancer, and the latter has the distinction between adenocarcinoma and squamous cell carcinoma; For example, there are dozens of types of lymphoma, which need to be clarified, not just to simply diagnose lymphoma, but also to clarify what type of lymphoma it is.

2. Clear staging. It is necessary to determine which stage of cancer it is through a comprehensive examination, because the stage is the most important basis for judging the prognosis and deciding the best strategy. It can be said that without staging, there will be no formulation of the first plan, and the wrong staging will inevitably lead to the wrong direction.

3. It is necessary to consider the physical condition, organ function, whether there are other diseases, etc., to determine whether to tolerate chemotherapy.

After the diagnosis and staging and other examinations are completed, there is the most basic information, and then it is necessary to fully communicate with the doctor to understand whether the cancer is possible, how big the rate is, if not, the probability of being able to control it is great, weigh the benefit and risk ratio, comprehensive family economic situation and other factors, make decisions carefully, neither give up lightly, nor blindly optimistic, and make decisions under the premise of fully understanding the condition. In particular, don't listen to all kinds of unreliable rumors.

Twelve years ago, I was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer III after the Qingming Festival, and I had four ** metastases (axillary lymph - sternum - left shoulder lymph - left ribs) and underwent radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and then relaxed my mind to face life, joined cycling exercises, and I didn't have to go to the oncology department of the hospital for 7 years

<> be strong, optimistic, and take it easy! Good luck soon**!

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1. What's the use of being afraid! Life has to go on, instead of being afraid of decades, it is better not to think about it, and to search for yourself happily, so that you can get it.

2. Genetic factors account for a large proportion of cancer. Let's see if your elders have this kind of disease, if there is a problem in this area, you should pay attention to it, and now there are some preventive injections for individual cancers, which can be prepared in advance.

3. Keep exercising to make yourself have a strong body, which can reduce the probability of getting cancer.

4. Regular life, ensuring your sleep time and sleep quality can improve your immunity, delay aging, and reduce the probability of cancer.

5. Participate in some healthy entertainment projects that you like, keep yourself in a happy mood, and having a happy mood is the best way to resist cancer.

6. Get used to a healthy way of entertainment. Eat more vegetables, milk, eggs, meat, and less pickled and spicy products.

7. Quit smoking and drinking as much as possible. People who smoke are far more likely to develop lung cancer than non-smokers.

8. In addition, we should also pay attention to staying away from formaldehyde and other carcinogenic chemicals in our lives, and choose a healthy environment life as much as possible.

It's enough to be able to do that. I'll leave the rest to God, what do you love.

Not long after getting married, if the other half is seriously ill, I think that as a husband and wife, we should not be cautious and choose to stick to love, the important thing is to adjust our mentality and accept the reality.

Learn to accept. Patients will feel pain in the process of fighting cancer such as examinations, surgery, chemotherapy, etc., and their emotions and behaviors will often fluctuate greatly, so they must learn to accept it as a partner.

Learn to encourage. Avoid reproachful encouragement such as: "Don't worry too much, open up a little" and "I know it's painful, be strong", which often convey negative messages to the patient.

Try positive encouragement, such as: "Don't worry, I'll be there for you all the time," "I know you're having a hard time, can you talk to me?" and "If you want to cry, cry in my arms, I'll be there for you" and so on.

Learn non-verbal comfort.

Comfort the person with appropriate physical comfort, such as patting the back, hugging the other person, and holding the person's hand.

Comfort with appropriate expressions: e.g., a smile, affectionate gaze.

Learn to regulate your emotions.

The partner of a cancer patient is no less stressed than the patient himself, so in addition to taking care of and accompanying the patient, he also needs to learn to regulate his or her remaining emotions, try to avoid showing panic and nervousness in front of the patient, get along with the patient more peacefully, and help the patient calm down.

Give the patient an outlet to release their emotions. Empower patients to express their emotions and thoughts. Listen to your patients and give them more care. If the patient's bad mood persists, accompany him or her to seek help from a medical professional.

Give yourself an outlet to release your emotions. As a lover and caregiver of a patient, there are psychosomatic and financial pressures. It is easy to produce depression, anxiety, insomnia and other bad mood and psychological problems.

Just like a person who is in a deep quagmire, he cannot save another person who is deep in it. Therefore, the partner also needs an outlet to relieve bad emotions and stress.

Cancer, what a terrible demon, it actually invaded my body that I thought was healthy, and for at least half a year, I had the courage to face it, encounter it, and fight against it.

In June this year, I found that the urine was getting more and more difficult, and the doctor told me to be hospitalized for observation, and I was hospitalized on June 10, and after a series of examinations, including a biopsy, I was finally diagnosed with 'prostate cancer, which has invaded the bladder wall', which was like a bolt from the blue, but I immediately calmed down, rationally and painfully chose the best surgical plan recommended by the doctor--- total bladder resection, because it is clean and does not leave any future troubles, but the urethral diversion will cause some inconvenience. I think I'd rather lose a part than save my life, how beautiful life is! So he had major surgery, he couldn't drink water and eat for eight days before and after the operation, he stayed in the hospital for a month and a half, lost more than 10 pounds, and found pulmonary embolism halfway, and carried out anticoagulation**, he was discharged from the hospital on July 24, went home to recuperate, bought an oxygen concentrator at home, went to the hospital every week to review the anticoagulation effect, and went to the hospital every month for endocrine regulation**.

The success of the operation is thanks to the meticulous and dedicated care of the medical staff of the Department of Urology of Zigong Fourth Hospital, and my wife and children are also concerned and well-cared for.

This is the reason why the old man Zhang, who has always been active on the Internet, has disappeared for more than a month. There is nothing terrible about the disease, you must have the courage to face it and fight against it, the mentality is very important, the spirit cannot collapse, actively cooperate with the doctor**, the disease cannot be delayed, the sooner it is detected, the better. Indeed, health is a blessing, and being able to live every day happily is happiness!

If it's better today, I'll write a few sentences.

Supplement: After being discharged from the hospital on July 24, he continued to anticoagulate**, found hematuria, and was hospitalized in the respiratory department on July 30, and was notified of his critical illness, and the doctor said that there was a high risk and high chance of occasional occurrence, wow! Could it be to see the king of Hades now?

Is it okay to have a cystectomy, but to fall on a pulmonary embolism? Only listen to the doctor, stay in bed to recuperate, and adjust the medicine. A week later, the bleeding stopped, and the medicine began to be adjusted again, not only to dissolve the thrombolysis, but also not to bleed, to achieve the best dosage, hard work for 20 days, and discharged from the hospital on August 18.

After that, I will go to the outpatient clinic and go for a blood test for three days or a week to adjust the dosage. I think, no matter how hard it is, there will be a side, fight against the disease, but also fight a protracted war, can't be anxious, cooperate with the doctor, I will stand up again, in the face of the disease, we must have a strong and good attitude, and the spirit cannot be broken!

Cancer is very complex, and it is determined by looking at clinical symptoms, signs, laboratory tests, DR, CT, MRI, etc. As far as the average person is concerned, the simplest thing is to have a lump, and the tumor is divided into benign tumor and malignant tumor, and the malignant one is called cancer. It is characterized by a fast growth rate and a short time.

There are tumor atypic cells under the pathological section. At your age, the chances of getting cancer are slim. If you feel that you are not in good health, you can tell me how it is not good, and I can help you answer your questions!

Cancer can happen, but the rate changes over time. Generally, the time of cancer** and metastasis is within 3 years, accounting for about 80%, and about 10% within 5 years. If the cancer tumor does not ** within 5 years, the chance of ** again is very low.

Therefore, those critical illness insurance with an interval of 5 years after the second claim for cancer will be directly passed.

Nowadays, there are many tumors that have undergone professional and systematic treatment, and most of them will be effectively remissiond, and even some tumors have hope. It is recommended to go to the hospital as soon as possible, preferably to a specialized oncology hospital or a large hospital with an oncology department.

It is possible that the incidence of cancer is getting higher and higher, and almost every second someone is diagnosed with cancer. Many people are very afraid of getting cancer because it is very troublesome, it costs a lot of money, and some diseases can even bring down the whole family. We should pay attention not to worry about the sky, but to have a good mood, usually pay attention to rest, do not always stay up late, pay attention to proper exercise, and eat more fresh vegetables and fruits.

1. Relax.

As the so-called fear of what comes, in fact, this is not a ridiculous sentence, because when we are afraid, the whole person is in a state of tension, and sometimes relaxation is really important for the body. For example, some patients who have been diagnosed with cancer, if they can have a good mood, it can greatly facilitate recovery and increase the likelihood of **. Fear that you will get cancer is something that has not happened yet, so why worry too much?

We should try to make our lives as easy as possible.

2. Pay attention to exercise.

For example, obese people are much more likely to develop cancer than the general population, and those who exercise regularly are less likely to develop cancer. We must pay more attention to exercise, which can improve our body's immunity and resist many diseases.

3. Pay attention to rest.

Someone once did a survey, people who like to stay up late, the risk of cancer and cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases will be greatly increased, so no matter what the situation, we must pay attention to rest, otherwise the work is very hard, and we must give ourselves enough rest time. Don't trade your health for money, or the money you get will be sent to the hospital sooner or later.

Fourth, pay attention to your diet.

We must pay attention to our eating habits and eat less junk food, such as barbecue, tobacco and alcohol, food with heavy oil and seasoning, etc. You can eat more fresh vegetables and fruits to ensure the full absorption of nutrients in your body.

It should be noted that first of all, you must keep yourself in a good mood, and secondly, you must also let yourself have a better eating regularity, do not eat some fried, cold, spicy and pickled food, and finally you must also exercise regularly.

In ordinary life, we should pay attention to eating less foods with high salt content, and we should choose more healthy diets, such as eating more vitamins and fresh fruits, and strengthening physical exercise.

There should be a very regular diet, but also a good rest, and don't smoke, drink, stay up late, usually don't be too anxious, and have a very good mentality.

In terms of diet, we must eat scientifically, we must not smoke, drink less, keep our mood happy, and insist on physical exercise is the most effective way to prevent cancer.

Maintain good living habits, maintain a healthy daily routine, try not to eat supper, do not eat greasy food, etc.

own panic

First of all, you have to realize that this is just a feeling of panic on your part, and an anxious emotion is not a fact. It's your own negative, disastrous way of thinking. Just like when you also feel that you are uncomfortable, you will imagine her to be the worst outcome, and you will think about whether you have a serious illness?

The incurable disease of cancer suddenly completely covered himself in a kind of fear and panic, and at this time he was already scared to the point of losing his mind.

Causes of self-doubt

Too much doubt and thoughts, and paying attention to one's own time and energy in these emotions, can be said to inject too much energy into it, and the elements of reality are ignored by us, so we can't tell which side is reality and which side is what we imagine to happen? It's as if what you imagine is what is actually happening in life, which is enough to confuse the public and make your whole person lose judgment.

Double-check

Even if you go to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor tells you personally, you are fine, or is it just **uncomfortable? If something goes wrong, just take more rest, or take some medicine, but you still wonder if you heard it wrong, did the doctor misjudge you? Do you want to find another hospital for another check-up?

And as you just described, as long as the doctor says that you are fine, you will instantly feel that a certain part of your body is really not painful, not uncomfortable, then, it is not excluded that your physical discomfort is a psychogenic disease, that is, there is a doubt in your heart, the anxiety in your heart caused by the discomfort of the body, the body and mind are one, so your current anxious state and obsessive thinking mode have also brought a certain amount of distress and discomfort to your physical level.

Take plenty of rest

In other words, if the body is just a little uncomfortable, like a stomach ache, it may be a good thing to drink more hot water, take a break, or pay attention to your diet next time, but because of your own doubts and your own obsessive thinking, your stomach pain will get worse and worse, until you don't go to the gastroscopy and don't go to the doctor. In fact, it is not that there is something wrong with me, but that it is caused by the panic and fear in my heart.

And tell yourself that these are just some of your own negative thoughts, some of your own thoughts, just some distracting thoughts, not facts and not something we can control, don't entangle and argue with them too much, do allow them to exist, don't pay too much attention to them, naturally do what you should do, normal work and rest, eat and leisure, hobbies, work, life and study, these distractions are a little hooligan, the more entangled with her, the more she can be unscrupulous, Unreasonable, endless. When you don't talk to him, maybe he will be quiet when he finds himself bored. Won't toss anymore.