A friend told me to be a human being, what do you think?

I think it's good.

High-profile handling of things, in dealing with things and making friends, to do the best to leave a good mark.

The elephant will help you in the future.

Being a low-key person is blissful to be plain Think about it, take a step back, and the sea and the sky are a truth.

Make money as high-profile as you can. But after making money, hehe, you can be as low-key as you can.

It is estimated that there will be no fewer friends who will ask you to borrow money. Hehe, don't show your wealth, don't show your wealth.

High-profile work: raise the vision of doing things and glow the ambition of doing things.

Raise the bar and have a desire to succeed.

Never give up, take risks, dare to try.

Be a low-key person: Don't treat yourself as an ordinary person, lower your noble head, and put away your vanity.

Those who look up to themselves will fall down hard, so don't be in the limelight in front of others.

Humble but always happy, humble and don't think too highly of yourself, only bury your head, can you get ahead.

To be a man is low, to do things is high, to do noble things, to be a real person.

Those who are pretentious will be defeated, and they must keep sprinting. Establish goals and go to the top.

Personally, I think that doing things seriously accumulates levels.

Be humble

My friend upstairs said it was so good, I always thought about how to be amazing when I have achievements in the future, how to pretend to be the boss. With my mentality, I don't think I can make the climate.

Be positive and humble.

Be positive and conscientious, and be calm and humble after success.

After a lot of experience, you will understand.

What people say about scheming generally means that this person will be clever and will strive for a lot of benefits for himself, while a person with good popularity will not be a selfish person.

4. Good popularity is a person's virtue and grace. It is to know how to stop in moderation, and to have character and integrity.

5, good popularity is that she has a bottom line to be with him rest assured, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been seen for a long time, and a person with good popularity is the fragrance of his character, which is by no means something that can be explained by many scheming!

If you are poor, you will be good to yourself, and if you are rich, you will reach the world, and your destiny is in your own hands.

If you don't deserve to be stupid, don't study evolution.

Hello landlord. I'm the same kind of person as you. I know that. But I'm also aware of the kind of people we have.

Easy to be used by others. Appearance.

So I tried to change myself. But habits are not so easy to change. I've been thinking about this right now.

How can I keep myself from being framed by others. I finally thought about it. That is.

No matter what you do. Be principled. Stand your ground.

Ziri: Repay grievances with directness, repay virtue with virtue.

Our society should punish evil and promote good, and distinguish between good and evil, in order to maintain social order, blindly tolerant and benevolent, but breed villains!

Reflect on yourself and you know what to do.

In fact, there is no such thing as good or bad, as long as you have a clear conscience.

Don't go against your own values and don't care too much about what others think.

First of all, I want to say that you can't have the intention of harming others, but you can't do without the heart of guarding against others. You treat others with sincerity, but if they treat you with a purpose, you will often be hurt, so be cautious of those who want to take advantage of you, and it will be good to stay away from them.

Secondly, people are social people, and what you think of as natural selection and survival of the fittest is actually people who can gain a foothold in society in order to adapt to society and gain the affirmation and respect of others. Therefore, from the perspective of social people, people will wear a variety of masks, that is, what Jung called the personality mask (we often say eight-faced) to deal with various interpersonal relationships in society. The richer and more harmonious the personality mask, the more adaptable a person can be.

Personality mask is not a one-sided derogatory term, people need such a mask in society.

You mentioned that you don't treat people coldly, but in fact, this is also a kind of personality mask, and I personally feel that you have always wanted to or have been using this mask to the best of his ability. But it's actually a very irrational thing to do, because when a personality like you (not that it's bad) becomes very strong, your other personality is weak, retreats and builds up in the subconscious, and slowly, you become emotionally cynical, or depressed, or extreme. Such emotions are the subconscious expression or catharsis of those who are weak.

This is also normal, as if the steam in the pressure cooker needs to release some energy to a certain extent, otherwise it may trigger **.

You treat people with sincerity, but at the same time you want others to be honest with you, which is a beautiful idea, but in reality it is very difficult to do. Freud said that man has a self, and man is an egoistic animal. To do this, people sometimes do whatever it takes.

Of course, some people can make good use of the ego and the superego to control the id, and some people cannot, and often those who can't allow the ego's desires to be vented and are prone to criminal behavior. It is the nature of man as an animal to satisfy his own desires, but at the same time, man is also a social person, because with the legal norms and moral system of society, man can control his own behavior.

I hope you can understand this, don't look at the relationship between people one-sidedly, I believe that you have a good superego, that is, treat people with true feelings, in fact, I am similar to the law you believe in, that is, you are willing to trust others more than you doubt others. Even if I sometimes suffer losses, I don't care too much, I just stay away from those who take advantage of them, and they are all passers-by. I believe that there will still be more good people than bad people in the world, so that I can always live with a peaceful mind and remain calm about anything extreme.

Don't know if my analysis will help you?

Life has to be a self-satisfied, you are temporary, do not change yourself because of the behavior of individual people, please believe that there are still many good people in the world, you will be able to find real friends.

You're not talking; Survival of the fittest? People are multi-faceted, and if you don't want to create a few masks for yourself, you can adapt to society. Remember; People can only divide their hearts (I was once deceived by that so-called confidant to engage in "dissipation").

For yourself, you are quiet inside, and we should be surrounded by more people like you. Then our life will be very happy and easy.

Didn't you say that natural selection, survival of the fittest, people are more like the animal world, in the end the unsuitable creatures will eventually be eliminated, life is just a few decades, are you willing to be an eliminated, since you can't change the society, then you change yourself, you are a smart person, you will succeed!

It's better to be sleek, not to calculate others, just to live comfortably for yourself.

Well, that's right. If you appreciate your opponent, do it. If you just want to be an opponent and want to compare yourself with each other, you don't need to be so tired.