My boyfriend has to break up with me and he says he doesn t love me anymore and he s tired

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, according to what you said, he is good to you. But maybe it's because you don't express your true feelings, making him feel insecure or cheap. In fact, I think you should know how to cherish, don't be too noisy, although the relationship has ups and downs, there are points and combinations, and it may get better and better after experiencing twists and turns, but such unreasonable troubles are not the same as going through the ups and downs together to face the test, and saying that you break up at every turn will make him feel that your feelings for him are very light, as if you can divide it, so don't always talk about the breakup and lose your temper.

    Boys also have annoyance, they can't tolerate you all the time, and he will be tired, which will make him very stressed. Sometimes the boy will also be a little twisted, the more angry he is, if you try your best to redeem it, it will arouse his rebellious psychology, and you will make trouble, you just need to tell him, let him think about what you have experienced, what you have experienced, let him calm down and think about how much he still has feelings for you, if he really can't stand this, then it can only be said that you have no fate, if you still don't want to lose him, you can one last time, strongly keep it, give yourself a chance, see if you can impress him. Make a little surprise and show with action, I think this is more sincere.

    There is also a not-so-good conjecture, that is, in those two months, when you had a conflict with him and had a bad temper, another one of her entered his world and slowly captured his heart. So I hope you can face it calmly, and I hope you have a good ending and be a happy woman!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You used his feelings for you to hurt him hard, didn't give him dignity, didn't give him room, in fact, it should be him who hurt him more deeply, because I used to have this situation with my boyfriend, and it took me a year and a half to make him change his mind and make him believe that I love him instead of relying on him. If you really can't let go of him, you have to let go of all your shelves and pride, in his heart is no longer worried about you being angry, because these are what makes him tired, if you love him enough, if you believe that you have the perseverance to impress him, then think about it and tell me, I am willing to help you, after all, I have helped many such girls, I hope you can also be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you know? Once a man dies, it will be difficult to recover, you try to learn to let go! Even if we are together again, it will be different from before, so why not let it go! If you know what you did wrong, don't do it again in the future, and cherish your next relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can't let go, work hard, and if you can get it back, you can do as you wish, live well, and don't be willful. After all, everyone's heart is flesh and blood, why do you always use your own little temper to torture each other, love him so much, why do you have to pretend not to love, how hard it is. In fact, to let him be good to you, feel his cherishment of you, there are many ways, every time you use a breakup to test his love, he will one day not be able to stand it, that is, the so-called human patience is limited, if it is really irreparable, bless him, after all, he has done his best.

    The most important thing is to take your own path in the future, and besides, feelings cannot be requested. Everyone expresses their feelings in different ways, you say that you broke up, you just want to scare him, maybe he is not. Finally, I wish you all happiness ...... the end

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about whether you really got along when you were together before, if you think you can get along, you can get him back, and if you don't get along, I don't think you don't want it, after all, two people have to get along when they fall in love. He said that he has no feelings for you anymore, whether he really has feelings for you or not, he has already said this, this kind of words hurt the hearts of girls, I think women should sometimes live with a high profile, there is no need to be sad for a man, besides, he is from the Northeast, you will not marry him in the future, right, there are more good men, look for it slowly, sometimes the opportunity comes and you can't stop it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I heard that most women say that they break up very often and will not break up, but men say that they really break up once, and this sentence turns out to be true. It's his kindness to you that makes you do whatever you want, generally I don't say break up, now I've been in a mood with my boyfriend for nine months, but it's okay right away, I've never said the word break up, it's no wonder that you haven't been in love, you may treat love as a child's play, but, now that you've grown up, if you really love him, just influence him, don't bother him, the best way is to wait, it's always yours, if he really loves you, he will still come to you, if you don't come to you, you will die. Really, this kind of thing is reluctantly emotional, just like he said that he will only hate you more if he is repeatedly annoyed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm just like you. It's also that I'm too noisy.,I think he doesn't care about himself.,In fact, I don't care enough about him.。。 Ay. Let's work together. Hopefully it can be redeemed. I would also like to thank those friends upstairs who also gave me hope and advice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can try to get close to him and see how he reacts, or maybe it's just a momentary remark from him, and it won't go away when he gets angry.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Chase him.、Chase him back in the same way that girls chase boys.。。。

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Anything is possible. However, Li Ning changed the slogan.

    Maybe it's gone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The boyfriend said that he was tired, but he didn't want to break up, because he felt that although he was tired, then he needed to rest for a while, so there was no need to break up.

    The relationship between two people is very rare, and he also knows how to cherish it, because he feels that he has given a lot and will not let go easily.

    It's just that what he wants to express is that he hopes you can be good at yourself and be able to give each other a break. Don't torture him like this all the time, he'll be very uncomfortable.

    Then you can ask her specifically because she is tired of something, such as two people always arguing or getting into a cold war. These can be physically and mentally exhausting.

    For example, in my love life, sometimes I am really tired, I will tell him, and then say the specific reason. Then she will understand me too, and both of them will improve. So sometimes the most important thing is empathy and a common progress, not just one person to change.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Communicate with him, understand what he is so-called tired, you have to improve, don't force him to do anything, such as asking him to accompany you, giving you ** every day, etc. Don't tie him down. Call her quiet and quiet.

    The most important thing is that he is still reluctant to let you go, but he is very tired with you, which is more contradictory, and I have also felt this way, both parties can be calm and calm, don't disturb each other for a while, don't put pressure on him, make him feel that he is not good enough, and understand him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The boyfriend said he was tired, but he didn't say anything about breaking up. In this case, it can be understood that the time has not yet come. The best thing to do is to change yourself and see if you can make adjustments. If it doesn't work after stopping, you promise him to let it go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He said that he was tired and didn't mention breaking up, which meant that he wanted to be separated for a while to calm down and think about how to get along with you in the future.

    You should calm him down, give him some time and space, and contact him later.

    At the same time, you should also take a good look at your relationship with him, if the feeling is also faded or gone, then there is really no need to continue.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your boyfriend says he's tired, but doesn't say break up, you should communicate with him well to see what is wrong with him. Improve your relationship and make each other happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As a couple, two people should know how to care for each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other. Your boyfriend says he's tired, you should care about him and ask him what's going on? Then face it together and solve it together, instead of thinking about breaking up!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since your boyfriend said that he is in a state of more fatigue now, you should still give your boyfriend a certain amount of space, a certain amount of time for your boyfriend to relieve this pressure on him, as long as the relationship between the two of you is better, there will be no more breakups.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be that the man wants to have a change, so he said that he was tired, but not to mention breaking up, the two of you have problems getting along, so he expressed his heart to you, you should also communicate with him well, and both parties should make an adjustment.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If this is the case, it can only mean that your boyfriend still cares about you in his heart, although he is very tired with you, he doesn't want to break up with you easily, after all, he is reluctant to let you go.

    If you still have feelings for each other, you should change yourself for the sake of each other and work hard to maintain this relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is recommended that you separate well and calm down for a while.

    Because when two people feel tired together, they must understand each other and tolerate some of each other's bad behaviors and habits. Maybe two people will think through a lot of things and know how to get along when they are separated and calm down.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The boyfriend said that he was tired, but he didn't mention breaking up, which means that he may still be reluctant to this relationship, but if there is no change between you, this relationship will still end without a problem.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since the other party has such a word, it means that the boy should still want to be with you, or the boy wants to give himself a chance, and he also wants to give you a chance, so when you feel tired, you still have to give each other a little space, so that you will feel better and better.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It shows that he wants to hang you and use you as a spare tire, so you can't be with him, and breaking up with him as soon as possible is the best choice.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I may not want to hurt you, I want you to take the initiative to break up, and if you are tired, it is recommended to communicate more and get along more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your boyfriend is just tired of you, and it doesn't mean that you are selfish in love, and your boyfriend doesn't take into account his girlfriend's feelings and doesn't say that he broke up: such a boyfriend is very hypocritical in his heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since your boyfriend doesn't want to break up with you now, it means that it is still possible for the two of you to be together, so let him be together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It is normal for two people to be tired together, and the reason why they are reluctant to break up is that this is love, can you live a lifetime vigorously? Only the calm and quiet.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He is full of energy to get married and have a baby. 2.Break up and be fine. 3.You return the favor by being a little nicer to him. It is recommended to choose 1 if you love him, and choose 2 if you don't like it

    Can ask and explain how to love each other, if the other party really loves you, you can't be reluctant to be sad, just like you need a heart, he spends a lot of money to buy someone who has just died, and he is afraid that without you, he is even more afraid that you know that he gives you the heart, and you will be lonely and guilty without you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then you take the initiative to break up, to put it bluntly, you have no love for you. But men are the abominable thing, always running away from problems and not facing them. Throw the breakup problem to the girl. Why waste your youth and time with such a person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He's just tired and not in love, he feels that you have a problem getting along, he doesn't want to be separated from you, he feels tired of being together but still loves you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    He feels tired, you can give each other some space, go to your own business first, and then discuss relationship issues after your heart is calm.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    At this time, it depends on what you think, if you feel that you want to break up, you can just mention it, or just go with the flow and wait and see.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, I think the reason why your boyfriend says this is because you are no longer attractive to him, to be precise, he is tired of you and doesn't want to get along with you anymore. But he doesn't want to say that he proposed to break up, and let the family say that he is an irresponsible man, so he is like this, and wants you to bring it up. In this way, he can achieve his goal of breaking up, and he can achieve his idea of preserving his reputation.

    The so-called tired and not loving you as much as before, in fact, is that he doesn't like you anymore, but he hasn't directly said the word separation, he is telling you an attitude towards you from the bottom of his heart, so let you have a psychological preparation, and then come to accept the fact that the relationship between you has deteriorated. Enthusiasm will be consumed one day, and if your efforts are not equal, don't think about reciprocating.

    I think if a man really says such a thing, there is actually no room for turning back, whether you mention it in the end or not, he will definitely bring it up, because his ultimate goal is actually to separate from you, if you don't open your mouth for a long time, then he will say it himself, because he doesn't want to waste time, and he doesn't want to drag it out like this. After all, he no longer has any nostalgia for this relationship, so he has long wanted to give up. No matter what happened, it would not change his determination to give up.

    Since your boyfriend has said such things, then I think you might as well be a little more free and easy, just let him go, let go of yourself, after all, the road of life is still very long, we can meet many people, there is no need to guard this person, after all, he doesn't love you, how you keep it is useless, but will only make yourself more sad and sad, and let others look down on you, it is better to be free and easy, maybe the next one will be better.

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